As good a time as any…

by murphy on January 6, 2011

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Journal’s Paper on ESP Expected to Prompt Outrage
By BENEDICT CAREY
One of psychology’s most respected journals has agreed to publish a paper presenting what its author describes as strong evidence for extrasensory perception, the ability to sense future events.

The decision may delight believers in so-called paranormal events, but it is already mortifying scientists. Advance copies of the paper, to be published this year in The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, have circulated widely among psychological researchers in recent weeks and have generated a mixture of amusement and scorn.
More here

I read this article and smirked through most of it. I’ve not questioned ESP as it has been part of my entire life, whether through my own experiences or through those of many friends. I’ve just taken it for granted.
While I was smirking I thought: What a bunch of mooks, so protective of their linear thinking. Then I wondered what any of you think about ESP, the paranormal, noetic science, psychic abilities, etc.
So, I’m askin’, what do you think about it?

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wontbackdown 01.06.11 at 1:29 am

Thinking about it too much totally interferes with my ability to experience it as reality. Seriously.

The “Scientific difficulty” accepting it is on the same plane as this, I think – interpreting “god” as one does or doesn’t, of course:

“When blogger Kevin Williams asked his psychologist what the difference was between being mentally ill and being prophetic, the head expert said: “People who hear voices and see things that aren’t there can be classified into two groups. The first group are people who cannot cope with these voices and are called mentally ill. The second group are people who can cope with the voices and are called psychic. It is my personal belief that being psychic and being psychotic are the same thing depending upon how you cope with it. Society in general regards people who talk to God as holy. But society in general regards people whom God talks to as insane.”

I apologize for not notating where I copied the quote from recently. I had not intended on sharing it with others. I liked it a lot because it resonated with me about not only “paranormal” experiences I have had, but have been witnessed to or have heard about from people I have known.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 1:47 am

Very timely, thanks, Murphy.

I’ve been thinking about this recently for a variety of reasons. It irritates the hell out of me when people discount “psychic” phenomena because it can’t be reproduced in laboratory settings.

One fellow was blustering to me recently on how he made some date of his cry because he wouldn’t “believe” her and then he blathered on about how he would want all data on, for instance, what percentage of dreams came true vs not vs etc etc.

Then, in the same conversation, the self-proclaimed Mr Scientist, when defending the tired old “some women like burqas” meme, started some anecdotal “a friend of mine…” —and he got pissed when I interrupted and said I didn’t give a crap about his friend. So much for percentages there…when it came to defending the old “women want it” bs, one personal experience was a-ok to cite.

His date was the hysterical woman for relating a psychic experience and being dismissed, and I was the hysterical woman for dismissing some anecdote that was supposed to “prove” women want to be draped.

Nice racket these penis-Americans are running.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 1:58 am

What I personally believe is that for many eras humans predominately used one hemisphere of the brain…and these days, the other. Who’s to say we’re not evolving to be able to use both, or more of the brain, at any rate?

Also, when thinking about my bombastic male friend’s need for reproducible results, think about adrenaline. No one doubts that, in some instances, a run of the mill human can lift a car, when needed. Could you put that same human, without an emergency, without adrenaline, in a lab and get them to regular lift a car?

Well, it may be that some overriding need lifts whatever veil there is, whether it’s between two “worlds” or between brain hemispheres, and allows these glimpses of events far away in place or time. It may be documented to have happened, to any number of people, and still not be reproducible on demand in dispassionate clinical settings. In fact, the dispassionate setting may be antithetical to reproducing it at all.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 2:02 am

I didn’t explain my analogy very clearly. I meant that, if adrenaline is needed for a regular human to lift a car during an emergency, maybe there is something like adrenaline needed to cause a psychic vision…something that will be known in the future, yet can’t be regularly reproduced in a lab setting.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 2:17 am

Just read the article:

“Still, the participants beat chance, by 53 percent to 50 percent, at least when the photos being posted were erotic ones. They did not do better than chance on negative or neutral photos.”

A-yep. Neutral and dispassionate aren’t as likely to engage the psychic senses, imuso (unscientific opinion!).

btw, murphy….dang, thanks for the new to me word: noetic.

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Headclunker 01.06.11 at 7:29 am

Ah, Horatio…

I have a substantial scientific and statistical background. There is the theoretical and there is the empirical. While the theory may not exist, I have too many experiences with ESP to doubt it’s existence. I have my own empirical data.

My father guessed the gender of unborn children of family friends correctly, nine times out of ten. His father had a business as a fortune teller/astrologer. Most of my own experiences involve certain people who I seem to be on the same wavelength with. Friends, that I had not heard of or thought of for years, calling me on the phone as they had just come to mind. Once, I had a premonition about a car accident, and, rounded a corner to narrowly miss a mess.

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Notyoursweetie 01.06.11 at 7:29 am

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Rancho 01.06.11 at 7:58 am

Off topic, however relevant for TODAY
Women’s Rights Advocates Demand
U.S. Constitution Guarantee Women’s Rights

While Republicans are reading the U.S. Constitution on the floor of the House of Representatives, women’s rights advocates will be outside the Capitol asking: Where are the women?
“John Boehner and his cronies are holding up the U.S. Constitution as a sacred, perfect document. But we know the Constitution is far from perfect because it does not guarantee women’s equality,” says NOW President Terry O’Neill. “I am honored to join Representative Carolyn Maloney, who has been a tireless advocate on Capitol Hill for women’s rights, to highlight the fact that women still are not fully protected in our nation’s Constitution.”
Who:Representative Carolyn Maloney (D-N.Y.)Representative Jerrold Nadler (D-N.Y.) – invited Senator Robert Menendez (D-N.J.)
NOW President Terry O’Neill
Leaders from a broad range of women’s rights organizations
What: Call for Equal Rights Amendment to U.S. Constitution
When: January 6, 11:00 a.m. – 11:30 a.m.
Where: House triangle, outside the Capitol at 1st St. SE and Independence Avenue
“We are way past due for a constitutional amendment explicitly acknowledging women’s rights in the United States,” says O’Neill. “Nothing less will do, as long as sexists like Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia feel completely justified interpreting women’s rights as unprotected in the U.S. Constitution.”

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TexasTigress 01.06.11 at 9:17 am

I think everyone has certain “psychic” abilities . For some it is second nature , others use tools (divinity), and others just get a “gut feeling” .
I don’t doubt the validity of “ESP” or any kind of “psychic” connection .
I find it odd that science/scientists can be so far removed from the Universe…

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Delle 01.06.11 at 9:58 am

Do apparitions fit into this category? If so, I’ve had several of them. Relatives and friends have visited me in my dreams to say good-bye. I still remember the first time it happened, even though it was over 30 years ago.
During my sleep my nephew appeared to me in a dream. He was eight years old at the time and a very handsome child. In the dream he was wearing white short pants and a white jacket and was just glowing! He told me he had come to say good-bye.
When I awoke I recall thinking that it was a strange dream. I put it out of my mind as I began the day’s business. It was still early when the phone rang. It was my aunt calling to say that there had been a fire during the night and although his three sisters had been saved, my nephew had died.
Just writing about it now brings back the feelings of shock and heartbreak I experienced. But, his visit in my dream did bring me some comfort. I knew that he was happy, peaceful and in a better place.
I’ve had other such apparitions, but they were older relatives of mine whose deaths were not as much of a shock.

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 9:58 am

While I’m interested in the subject of psychic phenomenon, I haven’t experienced it other than a dead on ability to read people’s hidden sides that may have just come from years of watching and listening to others. It kind of boggles my mind when others can’t ‘see’ someone’s real agenda or motives. My sister is deeply involved in pursueing the psychic, but is terrible at understanding her own motives and others. But she is extremely self involved so that gets in her way. I watch all the tv shows and read the books on the psychic but I’m very curious about everything.

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 10:03 am

Delle
Wow, that is classic ESP.

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Delle 01.06.11 at 10:59 am

BCL – do you think so?

I was hoping that my nephew was really there. Since he appeared before a light blue background and looked so angelic, I thought he might have been visiting from the astral plane. I felt sure that I had had an OBE.

Sounds silly, I guess.

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 11:24 am

Delle
Out of body experience? So you think you went to him and not he came to you? Interesting. I don’t have any idea about that, but my sister used to practice trying to astral travel.

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Delle 01.06.11 at 11:59 am

BCL – As silly as it sounds, I think I was somewhere in between. The dream did not take place in a familiar place – such as the room in which I was sleeping at the time. Yet there was no one else around in the dream either. Just my nephew Brian, dressed in white in front of a blue background.
So, I had the feeling that I had met him at a half way point.
This is very hard to explain.
The other apparitions I spoke about, also took place ‘out there’ someplace, rather than in my bedroom. They weren’t quite as bright nor as vivid.
My brother – like your sister – used to purposely try to leave his body. I don’t think he was ever successful.
As for me – I wouldn’t dare attempt an OBE during my waking hours. I’d be much too afraid.
I could just imagine myself flying around out there someplace and not being able to get back. :-)

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 12:09 pm

Delle
Yes, that’s why I would never try it either. My sister unfortunately, wanted to leave earth and join our parents. She has alot of problems so should not have been trying risky experiences with the supernatural. She never said that she had any luck in her experiences so I don’t think they worked.

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 12:11 pm

My sister did get me an appt with a psychic reader one Christmas and he was remarkably accurate about my life. He even described my cat who he said loved me very much. I liked that.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 1:00 pm

BCL and Delle,

yes, back when I used to focus on dreams I could “find” someone, and who they were with, so I do think it’s another plane. But you can also encounter scary things/spirits, so I don’t recommend getting too deep into that world.

I had three encounters with what I called a wraith, before and after a gas explosion that killed two people…and I had a dream connected with that, too. Long story, very odd, and scary.

An ability in this arena is indicated in my chart, but I’m too squeamish to pursue it.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 1:03 pm

btw, I think it’s hilarious that my son (same b-day as murphy, iirc) the Aquarian is supremely “rational” and gets infuriated when I mention things from his chart that explain his outlook.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 1:05 pm

BCL…see, now I’m scared again…what did you mean by “risky experiments with the supernatural?” Any anecdotal evidence on these risks?

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DancesWithPumas 01.06.11 at 2:11 pm

TT
I find it odd that science/scientists can be so far removed from the Universe…
—————–
Ayup.

Zee,
Then again, when an Aquarian is closer to the Pisces influence, all bets are off in terms of supremely “rational”.

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Delle 01.06.11 at 2:15 pm

BCL #17 – I only had my fortune told once. It was many years ago.
My two brothers and I were in the city to see a Broadway matinee and when we passed the fortune teller we stopped in for a Tarot reading. We did it for fun.
As the woman read my cards, she gave me the creeps. After every card she would look at me with her very piercing blue eyes and ask me if I knew what she meant. And usually I did. She knew things about me that nobody else knew. And I didn’t even realize then, just how accurate whe was. The predictions she made for me are still coming true.
The reason I mentioned my brothers is that neither one of them was very impressed. Both thought the reading too general and could have applied to anyone.
I don’t know what that means, if anything. Or why she was able to read me like a book and not them.
It was an experience I remember very well. Her name was Mrs. Zinn and she was a Hungarian Gypsy. At the time she was located on 8th Ave, near 47th St, but she is no longer there.

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 4:14 pm

I believe.

My first experience was at the age of 6. I saw my Great-Grandmother in my bedroom and she just smiled and looked so serene and happy. The only problem was I could see objects in the room thru her. We received a call the next morning that she had passed peacefully in her sleep.

Since that time, premonitory dreams, strong “gut” instincts, etc. Played around with a Oujii board once, talked to hubby’s dad after he had passed. One of the phrases received was so characteristic of his dad that it freaked out all of hubby’s brothers and sisters that were there. I don’t touch the board a a hard and fast rule but did it this once for them.

So to sum up, yep I believe and just because it can’t be quantified by scientists doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 4:18 pm

Off topic:

John Edwards not named in wife Elizabeth’s will

HILLSBOROUGH, N.C. – The will Elizabeth Edwards signed days before her death last month made no mention of her estranged husband and two-time presidential candidate John Edwards.

The document Elizabeth Edwards signed Dec. 1, six days before her death, also named her eldest child, lawyer Cate Edwards, as the executor of her estate.

In the will, filed in Orange County Superior Court in North Carolina, Edwards left personal effects, furniture, automobiles and other property to be divided among her children — Cate, 12-year-old Emma Claire and 10-year-old Jack.
———–snip
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20110106/ap_on_re_us/us_elizabeth_edwards_will

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Delle 01.06.11 at 4:42 pm

Goofsmom – you brought back another memory from my past when you mentioned the Quijji Board.

I was playing around with it at the office with a few friends. We were acting silly and asking the board questions like how much longer we are going to live and so on. We were laughing. None of us took it seriously. The board told me that I was going to die on the next September 4th at 1:04 PM. Since I didn’t really believe in it I wasn’t too frightened. But I was happy when that date and time passed and I was still around.

About 1:30 PM on that very afternoon, I received a call at work. It was my Mom informing me that my Grandfather had died shortly after 1:00 PM.

When I moved from my parents house a few months before, my Grandfather moved in. He was sleeping in my old bedroom.

Yikes!

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FLBarbara 01.06.11 at 7:32 pm

I too believe. I had the “outer body” experience when at 18 months I had pneumonia. As a child I repeated the scene, what everyone was wearing and what my grandmothers were saying to each other. NO one could believe it because I was too young. It wasn’t until I was an adult and my doctor who was writing about this suggested I be hypnotized and it was then for the first time I realized that what I was describing was from watching it from above the room, looking down at everyone and I was being held in the arms of a beautiful woman that glowed.

For those interested in the outer body experiences my Doctor in Ft Lauderdale the late Barbara Rommer
wrote the book “Blessings in Disguise” she interviewed and compiled the stories of both negative and positive out of body experiences.

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Blessing-in-Disguise/Barbara-Rommer/e/9781567185850

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FLBarbara 01.06.11 at 7:38 pm

I am enjoying all your stories so thanks.

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TexasTigress 01.06.11 at 8:07 pm

Zee- Bacon Paradise on Travel Channel ! ;)

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BigCatLover 01.06.11 at 8:46 pm

I had the scary oujji board experience too. I was with my sister again (she’s a bad influence). My ex husband and kids were camping and I was alone with my sister. I think the attraction with the O board is that the pointer flies over the board seemingly by itself. Anyhow, it turned really nasty after some info about out past lives, etc. It was so bad that I took the board out and put it in the trash. My sister agreed.

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Zee 01.06.11 at 8:49 pm

Thanks for the link, FLBarbara! Negative, too…scary… I like the warm stories, tho…

TT! hahaha, thanks for the tip. I just had a vegan move out. She would not even stop by and meet people for Thanksgiving and say hi…in case she saw the ham, who knows? I offered her buttermilk to make “cornbread” for her meal with family, but no…it’s animal slave product. I said, but it’s from a local organic farm (true) but she said she could not be sure what happened to the cows after they stopped producing. Personally, I think it’s up to meat-eaters to patronize the local organic farms and tip the larger commercial ventures toward more humane practices.

It is a paradox, tho…

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Zee 01.06.11 at 8:53 pm

omg, BCL….I was threatened once, and told never to return to that other plane…my ex, in his dream, fought off the same spirits, woke up and brought me out of that “conscious” state…that was it for me.

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Dragonfly 01.06.11 at 8:59 pm

love all of these stories – FL Barbara – did you nearly die when you had pneumonia? Sounds as if you had an angel holding you.

Funny you mention Aquarius Sun, Zee and Dances. I am an Aquarius Sun, but my North Node is in Pisces, and I have some things in my chart that relate to these topics.

I actually have a lot of stories on these topics – here are some:

My mother was psychic. She did not like her dreams because they disturbed her. I remember as a child I had terrible nightmares, for years. I asked my mother what she dreamed. She told me she did not dream or that she did not remember them – I am not sure which – but I remember I knew she was lying. This was before I was six years old. The only dream I know about, the only one told to me, was pretty innocuous. She was floating above a person on an operating table, and the person was the mother of our next door neighbor. The surgery was in the abdominal area. That morning, my neighbor and Mom had coffee together, as was their habit, in my mom’s kitchen. Mom asked my neighbor, how is your mother? and the neighbor said that she thought her mom was fine, hadn’t talked to her in several days.

later that day, the neighbor called Mom and said, why did you ask me about my mother? What did you dream? Apparently the neighbor knew about Mom’s dreams. Mom told her the dream and then asked her what she had heard about her mother. My neighbor said that her mom was going to have a hysterectomy.

I remember telling my mother that I wanted her to tell me any dream she had about me. She just smiled and looked away. I knew she never would.

She had an uncanny knowledge of people. She understood people. She urged me to follow the path I am on though I resisted it. She kept saying I needed to be financially independent just in case something happened and I had to support myself and my children. I don’t know if she dreamed it, and she died before this happened, but I married a person who was financially a disaster and who continues to borrow money from his aunt and his mother and live off his girlfriend because he just can’t manage I guess. Something just happened with him – the child support is late and obviously the mortgage is due.

Her mother was psychic too but had no words for that I suspect. She had died giving birth to my mother, but the doctors revived her after several minutes (not sure how long). My grandmother (I never got to meet her, she died when my mom was 12) said (she was a devout Christian) that she had seen the light and Jesus was waiting for her, but that he had told her she could return to be with her children for more time if she felt she should go back or she could come with him. She came back. She supposedly had some sort of amnesia after this and did not remember being pregnant with my mother. She was put in the mental institution in Tuscaloosa AL for six months. I’m sure that was an experience. Anyway, shortly before she died, she told my mother and her friends, who were all in the car together, about a recurring dream my grandmother kept having. SHe asked the kids what they thought it meant. The dream was this: my grandmother wakes in the night to a crying sound. She leaves her bed and checks on each of her children. all are sleeping. then she follows the sound downstairs and sees out the window a cat on the diving board of the swimming pool in the back yard. she knows the cat will drown if she does not get to her. she follows the stairs down and goes to the back door to the pool, but by the time she gets there, the cat has drowned. That’s how it always ends. The family had no cats, by the way. Well, the day she told my mom and the friends this dream was Halloween – it was some function my grandmother was helping with for the middle school kids. In the wee hours of November 1, my grandmother drowned in her sleep – she had congestive heart failure.

Delle, your story reminded me somewhat of my friend Virginia, who saw her father at the foot of her bed the night he died. She was not living in his house, so the night he died she was asleep not knowing anything was wrong. She realized her dad was trying to talk to her and so she sat up in bed and talked to him. He said he came to say goodbye.

After my mother died, I had very interesting dreams about her. One was a recurring dream. I was in different settings – sometimes a grocery store (one that I have been in for other dreams, but not one that is in my waking life), sometimes an old house with a wraparound porch (this house I never saw in my waking life), sometimes our old house where I grew up. I kept hearing her talking or laughing and realizing, oh, Mom is here. I want to find her so I can ask her what it is like after death. In the dream, I knew she had passed and I was trying to contact her. I never did for the longest time. Finally in a dream I realized she and I were together, not in human form but as spirits. She was telling me that we had been together for much longer than my life now and that we would be together again. I realized I was in a womb as she said this, that the pink all around me was actually a womb. It was very peaceful there, very softly lit and I could even hear the rushing of the blood around as a buzz or a hum. I felt so much better as I realized she had never really left me.

When I was 16, I dreamed about my grandmother. She died when I was 11, and she was my fulcrum. Losing her was so much worse than my parents’ divorce. I literally thought I would die because she was dead. Why it took so long, I don’t know, but we were together in the dream. I was in her backyard, which had always been a magical place for me when I was a child, and it was deeper in color, brighter and darker at the same time. She was distant yet with me. I knew she was not with me yet I knew she wanted me to feel that she loved me and missed me. Her eyes were not the blue they had been in life, but black with stars in them. Sounds scary but in the dream I was awed, not frightened.

now I need to cuddle with the dragonflies, but thank you for this thread. About 95 percent of our brain we don’t use. The pineal gland is assumed to be useless after puberty, but actually it is the physiological bridge between our body and spirit. It is the source of our psychic gifts, and if we are meditating on a regular basis, and we use a psychic shield, maybe if we get in touch with a guide or a totem animal spirit, the astral plane can be safe for travel.

Roar On PUMAs! Love to all!

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Zee 01.06.11 at 9:00 pm

FL Barbara…I’ll have to find that book. “Less than positive” experience…what a mild way to denote “negative.” As tho, with a little more effort, it could reach the positive, too.

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Dragonfly 01.06.11 at 9:07 pm

I have a freaky ouija board experience too but I’ve already written too much. did want to add that I knew the gender of my children as soon as they were conceived – for my son, it was the day i took the home test. For my daughter, the day she was conceived, I had this intuition that I was pregnant. three monoths before I got pregnant, I had dreamed about having a little girl, and my daughter looked like the dream girl when my daughter was 14 months old. My daughter’s soul actually came to me in that dream in April of 2001. She talked like an adult while in this toddler body I was holding, and I talked to her as if I knew her soul. I told her, I like your new look. It’s kind of funny.

gotta go now but again love the topic, thanks!

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Zee 01.06.11 at 9:11 pm

Dragonfly! My son’s north node is in Pisces, too. I thought this to meant that later in life he will be looking to balance his life with more spirituality.

I wasn’t always fearful of the astral plane and dreams. When I was pregnant I guessed the gender of my baby by dream. I dreamt a small boy picked me up and carried me. Since dream-mind loves puns I interpreted that as “I’m carrying a boy.”

Thanks for sharing your amazing stories. Good call on this topic at this time, murphy!

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 10:07 pm

I’m enjoying everyone’s stories.

My premonitory dreams are place or event dreams that involve someone close to me or me. I have had these dreams since childhood. They are different than regular dreams because they are so much sharper and include touch and smells.

I used to keep a diary of them and the event would usually occur within 2 to 4 months after the dream.

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DancesWithPumas 01.06.11 at 10:29 pm

Good call on this topic at this time, murphy!
————–
Murphy must be psychic… :)

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 10:31 pm

#37 – LOL :lol: :lol:

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 10:34 pm

Off Topic… My new word for the day… Kleptocracy

Kleptocracy, alternatively cleptocracy or kleptarchy, from Greek: κλέπτης (thieve) and κράτος (rule), is a term applied to a government subject to control fraud that takes advantage of governmental corruption to extend the personal wealth and political power of government officials and the ruling class (collectively, kleptocrats), via the embezzlement of state funds at the expense of the wider population, sometimes without even the pretense of honest service. The term means “rule by thieves”. Not an “official” form of government (such as democracy, republic, monarchy, theocracy) the term is a pejorative for governments perceived to have a particularly severe and systemic problem with the selfish misappropriation of public funds by those in power.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kleptocracy

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freddiebrown 01.06.11 at 10:56 pm

Good News… I’m not going to NY myself. Thanks to all for good wishes.

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Theo Mastema 01.06.11 at 10:57 pm

I think it’s good that at last serious scientists might start studying these experiences.

Maybe we need another ten or twenty year and then there are enough properly documented natural explanations for these experiences.

However, when I read the comments on this page, I have little faith that facts will make those people change their supernatural minds.
Something like: “You say science has proven the world is a sphere, but I can see with my own eyes that it’s flat. My friends think so too.”

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goofsmom 01.06.11 at 11:15 pm

freddiebrown,

#40 – Yea!! :grin:

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DancesWithPumas 01.06.11 at 11:57 pm

G’night, Pumas.
Keep your forks.

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goofsmom 01.07.11 at 1:54 am

Night Dances and PUMAs.
The best is next to come.

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 2:37 am

via The Daily Dance with Robin Carlson
A Celebration of Robin’s Life is planned for Sunday, February 6th, 12-2pm, at the New Center for Psychoanalysis, 2014 Sawtelle Boulevard, Los Angeles. They have graciously offered us their beautiful room as a gift to Robin. She continues to be blessed. We will start planning next week and let you know then how you can help with the event.

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Delle 01.07.11 at 6:39 am

After relating my own experiences yesterday and reading all the other interesting comments, I was almost afraid to go to bed last night. But I slept well and I am back with another memory. This one more recent.

Last autumn my husband and I drove down a local street where we saw an old friend of the family outside his home raking leaves. I said to Hubby “There’s Bob”. We both waved.

Sounds ordinary so far, right? Unfortunately our family friend Bob passed away about ten years ago. It took Hubby and I a few minutes to realize what had happened. We still talk about it with family and friends. They believe us, but have no explanation.

Either Hubby and I saw a ghost or we were both having an hallucination at the exact same time.

BTW take care easterners. The snow has already begun falling here in NY.

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Notyoursweetie 01.07.11 at 6:48 am

In today’s Morning Sneeze – WaPo measures just how far left is …Obama?
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2011/01/07/the-morning-sneezethe-optics-of-obamas-far-left/

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Notyoursweetie 01.07.11 at 7:30 am

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honora 01.07.11 at 7:53 am

Delle (45)– rest assured that if you see me 10 years after my (untimely) death, I will be sitting in a restaurant drinking beer and eating cheeseburgers.

I am jealous of all your stories, I got nothing.

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Dragonfly 01.07.11 at 8:21 am

honora

you may have a story you have forgotten . . . do you remember your dreams? I agree with Texas Tigress. We are all psychic. We just may not have that door open or it may open and close.

I love that you will be eating cheeseburgers and drinking beer. Delle, Bob must have taken good care of his yard! I don’t think anyone will see my ghost doing yard work.

My daughter who is 8 reports seeing a ghost. She was at a house that is about 100 years old, and her stepgrandfather has lived in it all his life. His mother died in the house. The room where she died is connected to a bathroom. My daughter was in the bathroom and she looked over to the bedroom and saw an “old lady on a walker” and described her clothing, everything. She told this to her grandparents, and my mother in law was quick to tell me about it as she too is fascinated by the paranormal. She had an aunt or a cousin who was clairvoyant.

So, my daughter apparently saw the ghost of her step-great grandmother!

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Delle 01.07.11 at 10:01 am

#49 Dragonfly

That sounds like a true ghost story, such as is seen on Haunted History.

I hope your daughter was fascinated by her experience, rather than frightened. She was very young at the time and could have been encouraged to learn more about the paranormal or persuaded to ignore the subject completely out of fear. I hope she chose the former.

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FLBarbara 01.07.11 at 10:27 am

Zee
The LTP “less than positive ” experiences that are in Dr Rommers book “turned” the lives of those experiencing them around which is why she refers to All out of body experiences as “Blessings in Disguise”. It is more fascinating to read the LTP and then see how each persons reacted to it. The LTP experiences are not usually talked about but do definitely occur. I highly recommend the book.
Something interesting to add I have an
Auto graph copy and when Barbara dated it she wrote Jan 20, it was actually July 5th she said ” she felt directed to write Jan 20″ well..Jan 20 is my grandmother Lillys Bday and July 5 is the day she died.

So I guess, we should all bring a fork because the best is yet to come.

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HP Boston 01.07.11 at 10:38 am

Mmmm all so very intersting, flashes of life lived and forgotten.
Lived and remembered in flashes and dreams.
I still feel as if some one ran away with my fork AND my spoon!
I got nothing either Honora…nothing.

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freddiebrown 01.07.11 at 10:39 am

It is snowing cats and dogs at 10:30 am in NY now. Been snowing since we arrived at 6 am. It looks like white confetti coming down. Had already taken a walk to La Bergamot to get fantastic French pastry for breakfast. Hotel staff brought fruits/sparking water and ice and there is a huge deep soaking tub in the bed room with great view of downtown.. early check in…Someone is smiling on me today :) Thank you !!

So it was very uneventful at leaving San Diego airport for JFK. No pat downs, no nothing… same as before,,,you just walk through the x ray “frame” like one always does and that was that. We joked that Fred (my dog that flies with us) would love to have a pat down and if anyone wanted to grope his junk, he’s all for it. Maybe leaving JFK may be different.. or maybe late night flights they figure it is low threat.

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HP Boston 01.07.11 at 10:45 am

http://thedailypatdown.com/

Gee Freddie I thought that was you in in tthe black sweater, looking like you were not enjoying your pat down!

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:12 am

freddiebrown
Does Fred fly in a seat with you? I don’t know what the regs are about pets flying in the cabin, but Uppity did a column the other day on the dead and disappearing pets with Delta airlines. I’m pretty sure these animals were flying in the baggage hold.

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:14 am

Delle
The sheer number of your experiences are spooky.

I have always had very long complicated vivid dreams with a large cast of characters, but have never had a clue what they might mean.

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:19 am

There’s been bedlam in the House of Reps this morning as Rep Weiner challenged the Speaker Designate (not Boehner) on some of the rules and procedures they’ve been following. I guess this is normal to challenge the new party in power, but looks bad to the public.

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freddiebrown 01.07.11 at 11:22 am

Hi Big Cat – Fred flies in the cabin with us – under the seat where my feet would be – we would never never put him in the cargo area. It is not good as it gets too hot / cold etc. I can imagine all manner of mishaps happen – we travel mostly with Delta. I believe if the pet is 15 pounds and below, they can go under the seat. Fred is pushing 15 .8 pounds

It is snowing so hard now – it is like white feathers – huge.. and visibility is not very good.

HPBoston – after seeing all 4 pages of the daily pat downs, I think TSA should start profiling – racial or otherwise.1

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:27 am

Several cats were killed or escaped (supposedly) in the Delta incidents and they are small, so their owners must not have paid for a seat for them? The dogs were larger, even a German Shepherd. As long as airline personnel don’t ever touch the carrier, I guess it could be safe to fly with pets. So far, I’ve never had to take one when I fly.

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:29 am

freddiebrown
I just reread your answer to me and you said Fred flies under the seat, so you don’t have to pay for an extra seat. That’s good to know.

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 11:33 am

I may have told this story before but when I flew to Italy with the local art museum, a woman on the plane flew with her Siamese cat (I didn’t see it but the museum director was sitting across the aisle from her and met the cat). The funny part was that the woman who was elderly was flying with a young male companion and he had to sit in another section of the airplane.

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Delle 01.07.11 at 12:03 pm

#56 BCL

The experiences I’ve described on this page happened over the last 30 to 35 years. Spread throughout that time period, the number doesn’t appear that great.

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 1:54 pm

I have a few experiences to share but I’m interested in the reasons so many are reluctant to open ourselves to, to embrace our ability to experience phenomena of other, albeit simultaneous, planes.

I tend to believe that the crusades, the burning times, patriarchy, especially as promoted via patriarchal religions, have created and promoted the deeply seeded fears that have been carried down through generations of women.

Men are not excluded from this. Many who returned from Viet Nam with PTSD, reported paranormal experiences. I’m certain others did and would not share their experiences, by reasoning of being diagnosed as schizophrenia or some other clinical diagnosis that would impact or disable their future plans, in the military or otherwise. See WBD’s comment at #1.
In another time and place we and they would have been honored as seers, shaman, witches…

Children seem to be the most open, but are also discouraged / trained at an early age to abandon their ‘imaginary’ friends, etc.

As I said above, I have had many psychic experiences through a variety of forms throughout my life. The most intense, vivid, and consistent period lasted about three years, maybe 20 or so, years ago. [So much so that Michael Harner invited me to join his advanced journeying workshop without going through the requisite beginner/intermediate workshops]. BUT, after my curiosity, interest, and novelty wore off, I became frustrated knowing that I wasn’t bright enough nor insightful enough to recognize nor apply these phenomena to any useful purpose, and given that, I just didn’t see a point to any of it so I closed myself to it.

I still have experiences, they come and go, I notice them, I try to glean some sort of significance from them, I let them slide down into my memory bank, and I move on with the activities of daily living.

I do wonder though, what we can do about those who, through the ages, have conspired to keep us from our powers? I wonder what we can do to encourage people to accept these experiences, to normalize them in everyday life without having to abandon chosen lifestyles to join those who allow and cultivate these gifts. I mean, we’re all not going to relocate to Northern California, or other ‘underground’ communities, etc.

Sorry this is so long and I hope you can follow my rambling, and thank you for sharing your experiences.

Just my 6th cents ;)

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Notyoursweetie 01.07.11 at 2:02 pm

The “Obama is a lot smarter than you” edition of the DUdies
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2011/01/07/dudies-of-january-4-7/

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 2:13 pm

Theo Mastema 01.06.11 at 10:57 pm
I think it’s good that at last serious scientists might start studying these experiences.
Maybe we need another ten or twenty year and then there are enough properly documented natural explanations for these experiences.

However, when I read the comments on this page, I have little faith that facts will make those people change their supernatural minds.
Something like: “You say science has proven the world is a sphere, but I can see with my own eyes that it’s flat. My friends think so too.”
——————-
Just so you know, scientists have been studying these experiences for a long time.
Are you saying after millenia we need ten or twenty more years for ‘serious scientists’ to validate our experiences?
I hate to use your flat earth example, but, are you sure the earth is an orb? Is it possible that we experience the physical based on agreement because we couldn’t handle, nor operate, in random chaos?
And, aren’t you being a party to the flat-Earther perception by denying the existence of phenomena that perhaps you haven’t experienced first hand?

PS If the intent of your comment was to insult or patronize, I can tell you those attitudes are not welcome.

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 2:21 pm

#65
My personal fav:
In response to:
Just what is our President smoking?

26. Locking
To suggest that the President is using drugs, whether meant rhetorically or not, crosses the line, in our opinion.
cbayer
DU Moderator
———–
Seriously speechless.

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 2:26 pm

PS
“Democratic Underground” is an oxymoron in and of itself.

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goofsmom 01.07.11 at 3:41 pm

Dances,

#64 – The tendency to repress the exploration of our natural gift is multifacted. You are correct that children are more open to the experiences. In my case it was religious, societal and peer repression.

There was no repression exerted by my family, both sides of the family have and had experiences and they did not look unfavorably on these experiences. They in fact were quite supportive.

The religious was diverse in its approach to discouraging these experiences. Background for me, I attended a Protestant Jr. High and a Catholic High School.

If you notice in the bible the only seers or visionary’s are men, women here in the US had the Salem Witch trials. These items played a large factor in why I would not talk or explore more information about it during my formative years.

Peers during the teen years were of course friends from these religious backgrounds and had the religious trained in negative response to discussions about it. One of the big events during High School was the movie “The Exorcist” which really had an impact on fearing exploration with the Oujii board. It is still a hang up for me I’m afraid.

Societal pressures are the fact that if you talk about it, you are shunned. Partly because so many people see it as a mental affliction as opposed to a gift. Science has killed the psychic because if it can’t be measured or quantified then it must not exist. Where as it might be the fact that they just haven’t discovered a way to measure it yet, doesn’t seem to factor into the discussion. I do believe at some point they will be able to find a way to measure the way the brain works differently for those with innate talents. Hopefully before we completely lose the ability to use it.

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Delle 01.07.11 at 5:15 pm

Before this thread is closed and a new one started, I’d like to thank Murphy for choosing this topic. It’s absolutely fascinating and has led to some very interesting conversation.

For the last two days I have felt as if I’ve been watching a ‘One Step Beyond’ marathon.

For those of you who are still youngsters, One Step Beyond was a great television series from the early sixties. The stories were based on supernatural and paranormal events which claimed to be true. When I watched the episode about Abraham Lincoln dreaming that he was at his own wake, I was hooked on this stuff.

Considering my interest in the stories I’ve read here, I guess I still am hooked.

Thanks to all those who shared their stories and personal experiences.

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goofsmom 01.07.11 at 5:57 pm

Delle,

#70 – Thank you to you too!

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 6:59 pm

DWP
Are you going to share your experiences?

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 7:49 pm

BCL
No, I am not.
They are too numerous and detailed to give them the justice they deserve, and are not for public consumption, especially in this medium.

I’ll tell you this much only:
When I handle certain items I ‘see’ the history or circumstance of the owners. I do not touch things when I am in thrift stores.

I’ve had sacred visions.

I’ve dreamed the past and or future lives of others, down to specific locations and dates and have had those dreams validated.

I’ve seen ghosts/elemental souls (I usually tell them I think they’re stuck and to follow the light).

I’ve astral traveled, which I believe is very common.

The psychic readings I’ve had by others have been 95% accurate to date.
I am careful in choosing readers though. I base my selection on their reputations in terms of accuracy and their spiritual “status” (for want of a better word).

That will have to suffice.

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BigCatLover 01.07.11 at 7:53 pm

DWP
That’s plenty. Astral travel is common? I’d love to know why you say that, but won’t pry since you feel so protective of your abilities.

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stoney42 01.07.11 at 7:55 pm

Interesting stories Pumas. I think everyone has some ESP, they just are not open to it.

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Theo Mastema 01.07.11 at 8:30 pm

DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 2:13 pm
“Are you saying after millenia we need ten or twenty more years for ’serious scientists’ to validate our experiences?”
———–
No I don’t, because I disagree with the idea that those experiences have been properly studied for millenia.

Furthermore, quite some of the resarch that has been done and that I’ve read points into a different direction and dismisses the supernatural claims.

However, I have also read a lot of stories and explanations that do accept supernatural causes, but I have always had problems with their way of proving their right.
So did the scientific community, so much even that they hardly ever looked into the matter.
I’m glad they’re doing it now and that at last these ideas come under scientific scrutiny of peer review.

I used the flat earth example to show that sometimes an explanation seems to go against common sense and experience.
The “friends remark” was added to underline te influence of group processes.
I consider the earth a sphere because it’s the best explanation available.

“PS If the intent of your comment was to insult or patronize, I can tell you those attitudes are not welcome.”
—————-
Why do you say that?
My intentions are honest, I simply have an opinion and try to argue for it.

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 9:01 pm

When Science Goes Psychic
[Debates}
http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2011/01/06/the-esp-study-when-science-goes-psychic

Bwaaaaaaaahahaaha
Look at who’s debating… all men!!

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 9:10 pm

However, I have also read a lot of stories and explanations that do accept supernatural causes, but I have always had problems with their way of proving their right.
===
I have a problem with the way ‘scientists’ go about trying to prove / disprove paranormal reality. It’s a nuisance and damaging in that they tend to use ludicrous methods, it’s damaging because it reinforces the negative attitudes towards psychic realities and keeps those experiencing it in the closet and or underground, for the most part.
Just another way for teh boiz to keep the power of women fromus.
===

“PS If the intent of your comment was to insult or patronize, I can tell you those attitudes are not welcome.”
—————-
Why do you say that?
My intentions are honest, I simply have an opinion and try to argue for it.
————–
Then you have the benefit of the doubt.

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Theo Mastema 01.07.11 at 9:56 pm

DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 9:10 pm
“I have a problem with the way ’scientists’ go about trying to prove / disprove paranormal reality.”
———–
Isn’t that what this article is all about? The fact that The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, a scientific magazin, will publish an article concerning this subject?

I consider the scientific method the best way of trying to understand reality, even though it will never provide a complete answer.

As a human male, and I can only speak for myself, though I expect I’m not the only one, I don’t consider myself of the superior sex. I don’t believe there is such a thing.
I do agree that a lot of men think otherwise, and consider women as frail and irrational creatures. Their loss.
Female scientists is just one phenomena that proves they’re wrong.

Just one last thing.
You wrote:”Bwaaaaaaaahahaaha
Look at who’s debating… all men!!”

That made me think of something you wrote before: “PS If the intent of your comment was to insult or patronize, I can tell you those attitudes are not welcome.”

I don’t feel insulted, but I think some people would think otherwise.

P.S.: I’m sorry for the errors in my English; it’s not my native language as you already might have noticed.

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Headclunker 01.07.11 at 10:21 pm

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 10:23 pm

Theo
I laugh at males debating things of a psychic nature because, and of course I’m speaking on general terms but hate to waste my time with disclaimers for those with frail egos, anyway, male have laughed off / dismissed women’s ‘intuition’, old wives’ tales, almost everything female, so to see that the debaters are all male, makes me feel like puking. Aside from listening to males mansplain that which most women already know. The majority of men seem to be one dimensional, whether through socialization or inherently. I’m just sick of seeing them, hearing them, watching them take on the mantle of authority, and dominating all things through no virtue of their own.

Don’t worry about your language, you are getting your points across.

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Headclunker 01.07.11 at 10:26 pm

BO has done for the Dems, what Bush did for the Republicans

http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2011/01/06/dem-id-down-five-points/

Keep in mind, that Gallup has been changing their polling methods, also.

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Theo Mastema 01.07.11 at 10:45 pm

@DancesWithPumas
“The majority of men seem to be one dimensional, whether through socialization or inherently. I’m just sick of seeing them, hearing them, watching them take on the mantle of authority, and dominating all things through no virtue of their own.”
——–
I think you are right and I can understand.
Challenge them. (or is that too competitive and is my advice distorted by my “masculine” look upon things? ;)

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DancesWithPumas 01.07.11 at 10:53 pm

I think you are right and I can understand.
Challenge them. (or is that too competitive and is my advice distorted by my “masculine” look upon things?;)
——————
Heh!
I keep an eye on the ways in which the patriarchy expresses and reinforces itself, but mostly I focus on my relationships with and in support of girls and women. Life is just too short. :)

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Zee 01.07.11 at 11:56 pm

FL Barbara…yes, I got that about LTP from the reviews on her book…how wonderful about the dates on your autographed copy!

One more story from me…when a friend moved to an old part of Boston she had a dinner party and while we were eating I saw a cat cross the floor. “I didn’t know you got a cat!” I told her. She gave me a look. I looked back down for the cat…no cat. I said, “Oh. Do you see it, too?” And she answered “No, but I hear it…and once I felt it brush against me when I opened the door.”

My grandmother told me a funny story about sensing these things, too. She said siblings born in the same month meant one could see ghosts and the other see them. She had such a sibling and once heard creaking…but the sibling saw the rocking chair moving. Presence of their grandmother…

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Zee 01.08.11 at 12:05 am

freddiebrown, I about laughed myself sick over how your canine companion would be happy to have someone touch his junk. :)

BCL, I’ve flown with my hound, too. They do charge for that, at times it rivals the cost of my seat! I’ve thought about getting some kind of doctor’s note that my pet is a service dog for my anxiety…in that case not only would his travel be free but he would not be consigned to the space under the seat by my feet.

They have to fit under the seat in front of you. The criteria as I understand it is that the dog has to be able to stand up in the carrier. My dog is much larger than most allowed to fly with the people…the only reason he can stand up in the carrier is he’s a dachshund, short legs…other than that he’s very long and very heavy to lug around, and I found probably the only carrier that could fit him and fit under the seat. He’s a good traveler, tho….and once the flight attendant let him stay on my lap under a blanket during a delay before takeoff.

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Zee 01.08.11 at 12:11 am

dwp…can’t tell if I’m frightened all over again, or just drained…I would not want to be able to read such energies…more to say but feeling inarticulate.

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Notyoursweetie 01.08.11 at 7:14 am

The Morning Sneeze: Obama’s pride in the Bush cuts “he fought for”
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2011/01/08/the-morning-sneeze-yeay-bushs-tax-cuts/

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Notyoursweetie 01.08.11 at 7:15 am

Saturday’s tabloids: the epic victories in mythicl wars edition
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2011/01/08/tabloids-bloombergs-victory-obamas-victory-mens-victory/

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Headclunker 01.08.11 at 10:04 am

Somewhat, but not entirely off topic, I had made a post on the on the feminism discussion on Dakinikat’s blog referencing Obama’s attitude towards women as being Muslim. I received a negative response and did not pursue it, at the moderators request. However, in defense of science, I must say that whenever I get my wires crossed on emotional issues, I revert to science and statistics for clarity.

Yes, statistics can “lie”. They can be biased to support a point someone else wants you to buy in to. And they may only tell you something with limited confidence levels. Some thinks you just cannot know for sure.

However, being particularly inclined to math and statistics, I can usually tell when the analysis is valid or not. More to the usefulness of science and statistics, if you are seeking the reality of the situation in order to determine a productive and effective course of action, you just want them to tell you the “truth”

So, how about that term “Muslim Extremism”? To a statistician, that means people who are outside certain limits on a bell curve. Conventional statistics usually draws this line at about 95% of the population.

Using 5% of the population as a rough guideline, can most religions dismiss their violent or otherwise harmful behaviors as such being extreme?

In that perspective, looking at the limited amount of information on Muslim “extremists”, I have to view such dismissal of radical Islamic beliefs as bullshit.

OK, so you know some nice people who are Muslim. And there is no excuse for harmful behaviors towards them. But the information I see on the levels of the Muslim population that believe in violence towards others is appropriate, is too prevalent to dismiss as an extreme and is, in fact, part of the norm for the population.

Feel free to disagree, but please show me your data. Most I found is about 5 years old and indicates between 30% and 70% of the Muslim population has attitudes that many are trying to dismiss as extreme.

And, I could find NO info on Muslim opinions on Women.

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Zee 01.08.11 at 2:20 pm

Headclunker, you have to be kidding. Penis-Americans of all stripes are condescending little pricks.

Xtian fundie shits treat women like chattel, as well. Just because they don’t behead and stone and publicly beat and drape them, they still rape and murder and lord it over them in every arena. So do Mormon shits, who have harems here on earth and also in their pus-filled idea of “heaven” where women have to be pulled into “heaven” by men who are gods of their own planets while their harems of women pump out spirit-babies to “populate” their planets. Catholics? Please. “Progressive” new age secular men? Double please.

Zerobama’s sneer-filled attitude and treatment of women came from not only his absent Muslim father and Muslim stepfather but also his white grandfather, who taught him to belittle the grandmother raising him.

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Zee 01.08.11 at 2:26 pm

Oh, and for the record…Zero’s attitude toward women is most solidly rooted in 1950′s Americana. If your assertion is that globally, extremism toward women is the Muslim norm, you’ll get no argument from me. But to equate Obama’s mad-men era pontificating that the First Lady is a “mom first” with Muslim barbarism is to undercut your own assertion. Being an asshole is not the same as burying a raped child up to the neck and stoning her by LAW. Not even close.

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murphy 01.08.11 at 2:30 pm

Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords of Arizona was shot at close range in the head at a public event in Tuscon, Arizona,

Take it upstairs.

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DancesWithPumas 01.08.11 at 2:43 pm

#92

Ditto

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