A Message from Harriet Christian

by murphy on December 21, 2008

in PUMA, holy smokes

I received this in email a moment ago. I’m sharing it because Harriet wants everyone to know what is going on at TNA, as do I. And please don’t think this is about me. I couldn’t care less what TNA or any individual there thinks about me. This is about YOU — what power-hungry people say behind your backs about you; how dismissive elitists are toward people who don’t have as much money or the right sort of education or profession or accent.

If you’re too refined to care about Betty Jean Kling, too Upper West Side to stand beside Harriet Christian, and too polite for Puma, then what the HELL are you good for Amy?

Amy Siskind, why don’t you take a long walk off a short pier.

“Dear Friends,

On Friday, December 19th, two colleagues and I resigned as Founding members of The New Agenda.  Due to a conflict of interest we professionally and politely tendered our resignation.  Here is an excerpt from that letter:

 
This decision did not come easily and we wish you the best in all your efforts.  It just doesn’t work for us to be told that we can’t speak with certain people.  We would not work against the New Agenda but we have been a part of Puma from the beginning and need to feel free to support them as well.  Also, quite frankly, deep down the narrative about BettyJean being dangerous or a stalker just didn’t feel right to be a part of.  This whole situation started as a criticism to the New Agenda’s softening to the Favreau situation and snowballed out of control.  The irony is that BJ was ultimately right – allowing a “boys will be boys” attitude to persist leaves the door open for worse behavior – but that’s a separate issue.
 

 

Since that time, it has come to my attention that Amy Siskind has told the remaining Founders that SHE does not want Blue Collar Women or PUMA “Screamers” in HER organization.  I felt compelled to let members of the New Agenda know what the underlying agenda is – looking out for wealthy women and looking down on the rest of us.
 
 
Sincerely,
 
Harriet Christian
Original PUMA”
 

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:46 pm

A repost from downstairs.. :!:

Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:44 pm

brad mays 12.21.08 at 2:37 pm #346

Thank you for your reply, brad. I would not be suprised if that information was already posted somehwere on this blog and I just missed it. It’s a good video and thank you for making it. I am still disappointed about the release, but I do understand that “life” happens and we have to go with the flow.

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 2:47 pm

Murphy did you see my post #308 on the previous thread?

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taggles1 12.21.08 at 2:48 pm

do people read the post before entering?

LOL it cracks me up!!!!

;-)

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murphy 12.21.08 at 2:49 pm

reposting from downstairs.

yup — what Brad said.

and I agree with Brad’s vision, though I also know it is a debatable question, and I may be wrong.

While the film was not of use in the short term to our immediate political goals, and we knew that at the time, I do believe it will be an important, powerful, and useful document of our movement in the long term.

But again, I may be wrong and I may have been misguided in that. I take very seriously the criticisms of my judgment that I read here — and I mean that in a good way. Every thoughtful objection/disagreement gives me pause and makes me rethink my decisions — and often i find i was WRONG.

SO, I can’t change the past, but I do learn from it.

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murphy 12.21.08 at 2:50 pm

yes, hills — i read it with great interest — thank you for sharing it. I like your interpretation as well.

we often talk about a new third party — I think your dream is evidence that we are in FACT making a new party right here — organically, fitfully, and from the ground up.

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 2:51 pm

Amy Siskind isn’t my kind. She definitely wouldn’t like me because I screamed about caucus fraud in the bar the other night!

Amy Siskind sounds like the kind of woman you have to “act” a “certain way” around. You have to “act” like you’re perfect, instead of be yourself, which is what we’re all put on this planet to be. But maybe Amy has a really bad inferiority complex makes her extremely intolerant, or very controlling, or some such thing.

I say, pity the fool.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:51 pm

Confirmation number: 7VU340402088215
Amount: $10.00
Purpose: To Keep the Lights On

————
and no, I did not read the post YET. I wanted to make sure Brad saw my reply. It is nice of him to notice there were questions. And -NOW- I will read the post! :mrgreen:

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 2:52 pm

(((Harriet)))

You are THE Puma!!!

Standing by what is right, tell more about a person’s character, than standing by the money.

(((Murphy)))

We all learn together!

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 2:53 pm

“Since that time, it has come to my attention that Amy Siskind has told the remaining Founders that SHE does not want Blue Collar Women or PUMA “Screamers” in HER organization.”

I’m working class… a yeller, not a screamer… and above all else, I’m a PUMA. Three outta three… guess I’m out… not that I was ever in.
“well, boooo effin’ hooo.” ©2008 Taggles1

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 2:55 pm

Murphy, for me one of the most powerful moments in that dream was seeing a real PUMA come through our crowd, but one that was so down & out on its luck, and taking shelter with us. Regardless of the labels – Democrat, Republican – people are the same “under their skin,” or PUMA Fur, as the case may be!!

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taggles1 12.21.08 at 2:56 pm

Sunshine,

I was sitting at the dining room table reading the blog and laughing out loud all by myself. It just really tickled my funny bone. I meant no harm! Just my “different” sense of humor. Sometimes I find I’m the only one who gets my jokes.

:-)

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:57 pm

People like Amy Siskind need to experience the ’seedy side ” of life for a decade or two, then maybe whe wouldn’t be so quick to divide the “haves’ and the “have-nots’. Of course, now, this kind of elitism is what the new administration is all about.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:58 pm

taggles1 12.21.08 at 2:56 pm

‘S ok..I know exactly what you mean. I have noticed it time and time again! ;)

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:00 pm

Murphy,
After all this time running the Blog – knowing our principles & beliefs as well as you do – in your opinion, what do you think are the top 4-5 principles women in the Republican Party might have in common w/us?

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gypsy rebel 12.21.08 at 3:02 pm

Blue Collar Women

That is so sad!! So what kind of woman are they looking for? Not for Blue Collar women?? They should be ashamed of themselves!!

It’s so sad. I tried to post on the bottom thread something else. I received an email alert about what was going on in RedState. I never go there, but the subject was Gov Palin and women in general.

There are people who like her and those that don’t. I respect everyone’s opinion. What I didn’t like is the blatant misogyny concerning Palin and other women in general. One poster was wondering how many women made it to the top on their backs!! I’m really pi@@ed again. I don’t understand any of this anymore:

http://www.redstate.com/achance/2008/12/21/why-i-dont-like-sarah-palin/#comment-730

(contact@redstate.com)

If you decide to post anything, I understand it is real easy to get banned immediately!! Oh well!!!

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:03 pm

gypsy,
Sounds like a good site to recruit some new PUMA’s from, lol..

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:05 pm

NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 2:54 pm

356Dances: That is probably why I like the Choruses..it has always moved me that so many different people and voices can come togehter to create the beauty of song….but even more amazing is the person who creates all these parts and makes them work…Choruses make me remember what is possible if only for extended moments among people, I suppose…in this world and for that period of time one finds little moments of harmony…in the midst of the world’s often discordant cacophany …. NOPs idealism showing here!
——————
Shine on…

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gypsy rebel 12.21.08 at 3:05 pm

hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:03 pm

There’s a poster called Jaded that fighting the fight!!

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 3:06 pm

wow! You know, I did not have the best childhood (many had it much worse than I) but somehow, my parents did manage to instill in me that the $$ isn’t what makes the person. It’s the principles and the foundations that one builds one’s life on. I cannot say that I EVER recall feeling “better-than” someone else. I always say ‘There, but for the grace of God, go I”. How totally revolting that Ms Siskind feels these sentiments and how crass of her to express them publicly.

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 3:06 pm

What?? Against Blue Collar Women?

WHAT?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:10 pm

gypsy,
I’m not sure what you mean. You mean, this poster named Jaded posts like a PUMA?

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 3:10 pm

bbl..

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:11 pm

#19 Sunshinelvr,
Agree totally, it’s like the old saying “actions speak louder than words,” and also, money doesn’t make a person. Class is tied to character, not the other stuff…

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Nijma 12.21.08 at 3:11 pm

Dances, yes, I like the idea of a direct email, preferably not one that just anyone on the website might have access to. The person I think was responsible is on a thread right now–earlier discussing names individuals they want banned, with some advocating for banning anyone with an opinion they don’t like.

The Pumasphere does seem to be dividing….

Anyone who has her direct email, yes I would appreciate them forwarding a message. What email can I use?

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gypsy rebel 12.21.08 at 3:12 pm

hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:10 pm

Yes, sounds that way!! But most of the other posters appear to be men……….

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 3:13 pm

Me again. This is on subject. I found this from way back, trying to remember the roots of PUMA. Does anyone know where these folks went? I know where Normita is, but that is about it:

Goalucard4Hill on 06.07.08 at 11:59 pm (http://blog.pumapac.org/2008/06/07/thank-you-hillary-clinton-well-take-it-from-here/)

Casper Cat – I posted on the HRC website that did make it and had the subject line to Gay Guy, Gay Gal, Northern Girl, Normita and a couple of others to come on over here to us – as we needed their inspiration – I knew that Evy has already visited this site and I know Lucy from Missouri will be coming over after she gets back from vacation – now that will wake everyone up here that has never seen her posts – tomorrow I will go after Lilabet, Tutite, David Power, Silentreader, Patrollie, SparkforHill, Yoga82, AbigirlTex, I am Destiny and Today – that will be a majority of those that really participated hard with the campaign.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 3:13 pm

Murphy: At its inception, I looked on The New Agenda Website for a list of the Board Members and found none.
In an announcement on another blog, I read that there were 30women connected to various groups around the country.

I would like to know who are the current Board Members or whatever designation they have chosen to use.

If you have a list, please post it here.

I have always had a problem with any organization on or off line that does not list its Board and/or whatever group is supposed to be the participants.

There is no blog subject currently runnig overthere where I could insert a request for that there.

I think it is important that indiviudals know who in fact is affiliated with the group, simply as a matter of public interest.

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:14 pm

Labels and more labels…

There are no “Blue Collar Women”, just like there are no upper crust women… There are only 2nd class citizen women… Women are always the least responded to politically and TNA thinking that they will get more done because they have money is flippen laughable…

We as women are in this together, money or not and if you start separating us into groups you ruin any power you might have had.

Amy Siskind is trying to run a man’s game on a women’s group… Amy needs to get a friggin clue. The boy’s won’t let you play just cause you act like them… they don’t care, we are still women and just a headache they try to pacify and ultimately ignore.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:15 pm

I’m guessing it might not be a bad idea to spread ms. amy’s directive around the internet so that blue collar, working class, screaming, yelling, un-lady-like, Pumas realize who they’re dealing with… elitist Amy sounds like she’s internalized the prickdom mentality.

Maybe even post in the blog radio chat room… when is that program on? Let me check the action center radio schedule…
oh wait, that program listing has been removed from the weekly schedule.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:17 pm

Nijma 12.21.08 at 3:11 pm

Dances, yes, I like the idea of a direct email, preferably not one that just anyone on the website might have access to. The person I think was responsible is on a thread right now–earlier discussing names individuals they want banned, with some advocating for banning anyone with an opinion they don’t like.
The Pumasphere does seem to be dividing….
Anyone who has her direct email, yes I would appreciate them forwarding a message. What email can I use?
——————-
jesus…
just compose the damned email already and forward to murphy@pumapac.org

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 3:18 pm

How the hell can you be against blue collar women?? That’s also against working class women and the working poor women and poor women and homeless women and what? THE MAJORITY of women in my mind! The women who need to fight and be fought for the most in my mind!

Can’t stinking want Hillary Clinton for President and be against blue collar women.

Classist bullshit.

Wonder if “white trash” rolls off the tongue around there.

Meanwhile, I am POOR but I am well educated and a hard worker…so how do I fit? I need more loot to fit in?

What’s the rules? It’s ok to make 250 grand a year, but with only junior high school level education? Or can I be a total moron who married UP? Why should any of it matter as long as I am a woman who *gets* what the fight is about?

What’s the thing? What are the qualifications? Gotta have graduate school degree and work in a suit? And have at least a black card in their wallet?

I gave a blowjob on a yacht last week, can I join?

grrrr.

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puma.sf1 12.21.08 at 3:21 pm

Do we have a bus? What are we going to throw the New Agenda under?

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:21 pm

Kat in your Hat

“I gave a blowjob on a yacht last week, can I join?”

LOLOLOLOL….

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 3:22 pm

I have begun a bit of research re some of the items enumerated as goals for The New Agenda…had begun that after their inception. When I finish, I hope to be able to postulate that the New Agenda agenda far from being new is old and in fact out of sync with the current and future demographics of women in the country and that some of the goals they themselves have stated for themselves are, in fact, too narrow a take on the issues…of women

My initial reason for doing this was to ask The New Agenda to enlarge their goal section to fit current and future reality regarding women and the issues relevant for the next 40 years.
Now my reason is simply to reveal large holes re issues of women which for 30+ years have been missed or lost…but which are now fast becoming the issues of the preponderance of demographics…I speak if you do not know..of women 45 and 50 years and older…an issue which I know very much about over time from various work I have done.

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:23 pm

puma.sf1

We don’t have to throw TNA under anything… They already threw themselves in a pond of slime!!

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 3:23 pm

goofsmom!

LOL!

Maybe I should email that to Amy.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:25 pm

puma.sf1 12.21.08 at 3:21 pm
Do we have a bus? What are we going to throw the New Agenda under?
—————-
Throw them under an ice skate… by the time amy is finished eliminating women from her club, they’ll all fit under one blade.

Hi, by the way, good to see you!

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:25 pm

“I gave a blowjob on a yacht last week, can I join?,” LOL, Kat!!!

Gypsy: You wouldn’t believe what happened, I went onto that site you posted & saw Jade’s posts. So I went ahead & registered and everything, than I posted a post in support of Jade.

I got a mssg said “You have not been registered long enough to post”!

Yee-Gads, gypsy!

BTW, do you post there yourself? I say, let’s all start registering on GOP sites like redstate this week & next Year, and start recruiting these poor beleaguered PUMA’s-in-disguise…

“Give me your Tired, Your Poor,” etc., etc.!!!

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:25 pm

kat in you hat

Go for it…. :)

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 3:28 pm

Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:57 pm

People like Amy Siskind need to experience the ’seedy side ” of life for a decade or two, then maybe whe wouldn’t be so quick to divide the “haves’ and the “have-nots’. Of course, now, this kind of elitism is what the new administration is all about.

————————————————
So do you think when all the lowly bots that got hoodwinked into give give to barrys claim to fame will be wild when they are shitcanned!??
Do you think the new elite team will want that :”army”, boots on the ground for THEIR protection?
Will the seedy poor of the AA population turn on THAT ONE??

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:28 pm

hills the one

Excellent suggestion… do a write up and send to dances, that way Murphy can make a prowl out of it…

It’s called swelling the ranks.

If we are working on women’s issues let’s get all the women we can involved…

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:29 pm

TOPIC: Harriet sings it out back in May.

This is what I mean about being true to the person you are, she doesn’t put on any pretenses but it’s when we act from our own authenticity we are at our most powerful…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KACQuZVAE3s

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:31 pm

“The New Agenda will speak out for the millions of women in this great country who often have no voice.”

… unless they’re blue collar, working class, poor, homeless, battered, outspoken, screamers, yellers, PUMAs,
un-lady-like, uneducated, under-educated… or disagree in any way.

Millions? Looks more like they’re speaking for 15 bureacrats (© Murphy).

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 3:32 pm

(from downstairs)…
First of all, the vicadin took some of the edge off the pain, but it still hurts, LOL.
*******
Secondly, thanks for the link for the Robaxin, Brian…. since I will probably be going to see a dr tomorrow I’ll set it aside “just in case” I can’t get any help at the dr.
*****
Thirdly Hill’s dream… right on. You know, I don’t think that MLK would be in agreement with O’s method or idea. I honestly think MLK’s “I have a dream” was that of being a colorblind society. My “I have a dream” would be a “partyblind society”… I feel like Rodney King sometimes with “can’t we all.. can’t we all… just get along?” I know that when I was in the McCain blog MOST of us really didn’t care of you were repub, dem, or independent. Even though we knew we disagreed on some individual points, our basic goal was one and the same. That, I think, is where we need to be somehow. I know that there is NOBODY running for ANY office that I will agree 100% with. Also, we’re all individuals. Like I’ve said many times, there are gay repubs and gay dems; pro choice repubs and pro life dems… but we are all PEOPLE… and, for the most of part, we in puma are mainly women. There are some basic things that I would help we could all agree on. Like MLK I wish we could all look past the differences more and look at the things we have in common more. We really DO have more in common, whether AA or Caucasian; whether repub, dem, or independent; whether male or female; than we do differences…. and that is my strong belief and my hope for America. Maybe, in some small way, we could start that here in this group. I know there is some pretty strong feeling some members of this group have against repubs…. but let’s look at the bigger picture here, and see what we really do have in common; and try to set aside the hatred, and set aside the differences, and concentrate on what we all have in common and need…. and that is (IMHO) what MLK’s “I have a dream” was all about too…. are we ever going to get there?

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Seattlegirl 12.21.08 at 3:36 pm

I appreciate the straight info from Harriet and PUMA regarding the New Agenda. While I feel more aligned with PUMA I think that New Agenda is at least an improvement over NOW for elitist women. Amy at least recognizes there are other issues impacting women besides abortion and homosexuality which is more than you can say for NOW. The woman’s movement has been revitalized by the misogyny shown by liberal Democrats and by the corporate media. Lets face it until this last election representation of and for woman was in an apathetic and pathetic place. We are better off not speaking with one voice. There needs to be a sugar coated voice (Amy’s New Agenda) and a radical voice PUMA) for women. These are inevitable growing pains of a new woman’s movement as I see it.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:37 pm

here we go again…

“Also, we’re all individuals. Like I’ve said many times, there are gay repubs and gay dems; pro choice repubs and pro life dems…”

Difference: Registered Democrats havent supported nor enabled the party that is outspokenly anti gay/lesbian, anti-reproductive rights for women, religious right whack jobs.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 3:37 pm

Dances, how’d you get that copyright symbol? Is it on your keyboard? I’ve wanted to use it on my support group Library a few times, but couldn’t type it…

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goofsmom 12.21.08 at 3:38 pm

Things to do… bbl

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:41 pm

#43
correction:
bureaucrats (© Murphy).

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hillstheone 12.21.08 at 3:45 pm

goofsmom,
Talk to you later, have a good time wherever you’re going. I need to leave soon, too.

“Swelling the ranks,” now there’s a thought I can really sharpen my claws on, lol…

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 3:46 pm

Dances, can’t we look past the political party platforms and look at the PEOPLE? ..and when we look at the PEOPLE (and not just the platforms) we see gay repubs, pro choice repubs, as well as pro life dems and anti gay marriage dems… This is the same problem that MLK had- getting stuck at differences of stereotypes and not under the color of the skin. Can’t we look underneath the color of the skin, and underneath the voting records? People are people…. I can tell you that most repubs are very very angry about how Hillary was treated in the primary. We dislike how Hillary AND Palin were treated. MOST of us… not ALL of us, and not looking at political party headquarters. Just like there is no “one size fits all” when you look at dems, there is no “one size fits all” repubs or independents. (sigh)… I guess MLK’s dream, like my dream, will never be……. and will always just be a dream…………

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:48 pm

Speaking of too refined. One of the criticisms of Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg Kennedy is that she’s’s never travelled to Upstate NY.
Her PR question- answerers countered:
That’s not true. Ms KSK once mistakenly took the IRT express subway train and ended up at 166th Street!

;)

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 3:48 pm

Murphy and all others: Murphy did you see this online article re The New Agenda? It appeared on Aol news on August 21, 2008
title: “Obama Camp Warms to The New Agenda” by Tommy Christopher.

Everyone should read this…this was August…
http://news.aol.com/political-machine/2008/08/21/obama-camp-warm-to-the-new-agenda/

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Seattlegirl 12.21.08 at 3:51 pm

OH and I do not feel that time or money was wasted on the documentary. Women need story tellers. We need complex characters, mythology, literature, film, history of better times or coping strategies, and a place to perform them. I believe that is something woman have been missing for a long time and it would be a powerful way to lead the next generations. Any individual effort may not accomplish the original purpose but it works in a direction of women telling their real stories publicly as a habit. I also think reforming old corporate media is a waste of time but developing new media is very possible.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:52 pm

KarenWI
The Republican Party and those who enable them are against who I am… the core of my being. I’m not looking at the color of their skin, their sexual orientation, their gender, their religion…
I AM looking at the content, or lack thereof, of their character, and thereby reject them.

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mamabroad 12.21.08 at 3:52 pm

Before everyone gets too upset, please remember there is always more to the story, more than one side to an argument, etc. According to the letter, Harriet did not actually hear Amy say those words. She said it was brought to her attention. Sounds like hearsay to me. The New Agenda has some great ideas and strategies. I think Pumas have more in common with TNA than not. I don’t think we should let hearsay splinter a strong group of aligned women with similar goals. That does not advance our cause. It only distracts us. It is important that we stay united. If Amy and Betty Jean have a disagreement, let’s leave that between them. TNA, Heidi Li and this site are my favorite blogs and I read them every morning and night before I read anything else. They are my favorite b/c their goals are my goals. Our ultimate goals are to get more women elected to office and to end misogyny. Maybe Amy and Betty Jean have different ideas re how to achieve these but I say the more ideas and the more strategies going on, the more likely we are to achieve the goals. If they personally cannot get along, that’s fine. People don’t always get along. It is what it is. That doesn’t mean groups cannot still work toward the same goals using different strategies. Please do not let their personal differences divide us. Puma bashing or TNA bashing will only move us further from achieving our goals. Please, women need to stay united. It really is our only hope.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 3:52 pm

I would conclude from the article posted link at 53 that having not been able to copt PumaPac in contrast to their initial inclination to ignor us, they or some have concluded that the Pac can not be coopted. Good. No we cannot…
These women think they can out manuever Alynsky king?
They have already been taken in by him…one more set of bodies snatched in the ongoing 21st return of the POD Body Snatchers of Ojingo politics!

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 3:53 pm

@ #52 Dances.

Just in case it was missed:

“Geraldine Ferraro gave a thumbs down to Caroline Kennedy’s bid for the Senate”

http://www.nypost.com/seven/12202008/news/politics/caroline_slap_145098.htm?xid=rss-page

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taggles1 12.21.08 at 3:55 pm

Mamabroad #56

go see if you can post that over at the New Agenda.

Let me know, ok?

seriously……

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Mary Puma 12.21.08 at 3:58 pm

Harriet was the shining light to me on May 31, 2008, a day that I will never forget, the day the DNC abandoned the 18 million voices. Harriet defiantly told everyone how she felt, and who she was. The New Agenda is just new, nothing has really come out of them that I would support. They think they support women, but I quickly figured out that they support the special kind of women, who think they are feminists, but have never really confronted and dealt with truly ugly misogny (sp?).

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 3:58 pm

Dances, I don’t personally know anyone who is the republican party, any more than YOU are the democratic party. The parties are being run by shysters who have their own agendas. The people are not the parties. You, of all people, should understand that considering what the dem party did to Hillary. The party is not individual people.. why do you hold a party platform (or leaders of a party) against everyone? I do not hold Pelosi, Reid, or Obama against YOU. YOU are not them…. because no individual is “the party” of EITHER repub OR dem party. THAT is what I’m trying to hard to get across here….

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:01 pm

MAMABROAD: First, please go to the link I posted at post53 above. After you do that, please note that a written email from Amy Suskind called Betty Jean Kling “Insane”…among other designations. Why? Looks like she did not like Betty Jean’s Comments re New Agenda’s actions re the cardboard wonder boy speech writer groper…JF.

I do not see on the New Agenda site anything listed on their goals section that is new. And I concluded that when I first read it. So what is new? Their approach? Is the email re Ms. Kling…a new approach?

If you do read the article link I posted, one of the founders clearly at that time cited little desire for connection with PumaPac…What has happened between the groups via various moves of Amy Suskind simply in my conclusion bodies that out..
Go with the flow or Go..should be their motto.
Nothing new here, MamaBroad..as old as any women’s or men’s group on lthe earth. You should post this on their site not here.

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ChristineRI 12.21.08 at 4:02 pm

#55 DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 3:52 pm

‘The Republican Party and those who enable them are against who I am… the core of my being. I’m not looking at the color of their skin, their sexual orientation, their gender, their religion…
I AM looking at the content, or lack thereof, of their character, and thereby reject them.’
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How is this different from Amy Siskind’s view? Obviously she, too, is looking at everything and everyone only as it relates to herself and her beliefs which does nothing to further the causes of ALL women.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 4:02 pm

Mamabroad #56
Amy’s letter libeling (I will assume she also verbalized her attack) and slandering Betty Jean was not hearsay.
It was written, signed and emailed by amy.
Why is it that Puma is always advised to “rise above” in the name of unity, while the spokesperson for nothing new agenda gets the pass to continue her attacks?

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:03 pm

HP Boston 12.21.08 at 3:28 pm

Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 2:57 pm
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So do you think when all the lowly bots that got hoodwinked into give give to barrys claim to fame will be wild when they are shitcanned!??
Do you think the new elite team will want that :”army”, boots on the ground for THEIR protection?
Will the seedy poor of the AA population turn on THAT ONE??
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Some are immersed so deeply in kool-aid that they will never realize what has happened. But some of them already know. Some of them will turn away from him, some will not because of pride or kool-aid or what-ever reason. But, yes, ohhewhothinksheisking is not above using them to acheive his goals, he just doesn’t want to have to have actual personal contact with any of them. His other minions will deal with that. And he will continue to feed them the ’soothing’ stories.

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 4:03 pm

I think my point was missed. I will be direct. We have forgotten our roots. I think it would be good for all of us to go back and read the thread. It is not a walk down memory lane. At my own peril: “Those of us who withdraw from the Democratic Party and become Independents are still Democrats in our hearts. We are all Democrats. This is our party. The leaders did us wrong. They did Hillary Clinton wrong. They did our country wrong. But it’s still our party.”

http://blog.pumapac.org/2008/06/07/thank-you-hillary-clinton-well-take-it-from-here/

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sue66 12.21.08 at 4:04 pm

No blue collar women???? Who does she think started the woman’s movement. Society women got involved after a lot of fighting in the trenches by blue collar women who started this to fight for their lives. In the beginning it was about the right to live, not the right to vote. I don’t mean right to live in a symbolic sense either. Blue collar women took on the establishment, factory owners and their own unions. Later on it developed into the white dress wearing debs with their banners.
I checked out New Agenda quite awhile ago, and saw nothing. Checked recently and still saw nothing. Are we going back to the white dresses and banners, then back home for tea? Not on my watch.

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pooh496 12.21.08 at 4:06 pm

I am still here prowling! Lurking in the shadows, doing the pums action alerts. Spending more time with my family and still as pissed now as I was in February. Love you all!

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 4:06 pm

The party is not individual people.. why do you hold a party platform (or leaders of a party) against everyone?
———————-
Until this year, I enabled the Democratic Party’s platform by registering and voting the Democratic, just as registered Republican’s enabled/supported the Republican Party’s platform.
I’m not about to go around with you about this… republicans vs democrats… it was one of our major bones of contention when Murphy invited Republicans to join Puma PAC. Seems it still is.
Fini.

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 4:08 pm

KarenWI:

You make sense. I know it’s always good to look at the individual, and every person who is registered as dem or repub varies as far as their strength of alliegiance to party platform.

In general though, which party seems to be more conservative? More conservative religious? Less for women’s reproductive rights/ choice? More for gay rights? More for the poor?

These are general ideas…there’s a thought that republicans are for big money–big business–big church. And the democrats are more for the folks.

I know there is good and bad in each party.

I haven’t gotten too suckered by the “team” thing. Democrats Vs. Republicans is just a manufactured sport for politicians to play off of.

Sports teams need fans, right? Fans need rivalry. Rivalry is business. Votes are the name of the game.

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Nijma 12.21.08 at 4:10 pm

Dances: jesus…just compose the damned email already
LOL
Done.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:11 pm

Everyone …please go read the link I posted at post 53.
This was in August: At the onset, clearly from the article, The New Agenda, via at least this person quoted, had little or no inclination to affiliate with PUMAPAC or others among the JUst Say No Coalition…Clearly, as time went on and PUMAPAC was still here, I would suggest that somebody or bodies thought better of that first conclusion. And I would further posit that having realized this group ..PUmaPac, via its leader and a couple of others named , were not simply going to go along with all moves, were judged weight that needed to be jettisoned. Only we via our leader and others named jettisoned them first….Murphy…Sheri, Bj and Harriet, your moves were timely and appropriate. Thank you once again for your instincts and judgement!

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sue66 12.21.08 at 4:12 pm

NewOrleansPuma
Just had a read of the link at #53, the most interesting statement to me was “All indications are that the group’s support will go wherever the best deal is.”
I may not have money but I work my butt of to get everything I do have. I will work just as hard for anything I believe in.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 4:14 pm

ChristineRI 12.21.08 at 4:02 pm
How is this different from Amy Siskind’s view?
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It’s different in that amy’s view seems to reject those who would otherwise support the nothing new agenda’s support of women; while my view seems to reject those who enabled and supported those who have not supported women’s rights.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:14 pm

pooh496 12.21.08 at 4:06 pm

I am still here prowling! Lurking in the shadows, doing the pums action alerts. Spending more time with my family and still as pissed now as I was in February. Love you all!

++++++++++++++++++
Hello pooh! ;) Wishing you & yours a Very safe & happy & Merry Christmas!

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:14 pm

I have seen these kind of moves made more than once in my work with all kinds of groups here. That is nothing new under the sun…but what is unusual and excellent is the timeliness and the reasons for which this PumaPac acted. I said then it was a “grace” and here again with Harriet’s note is another indication of the accuracy of the moves made by this Pac via leader and others named, now including Harriet.

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DancesWithPumas 12.21.08 at 4:15 pm

Nijma 12.21.08 at 4:10 pm
Dances: jesus…just compose the damned email already
LOL
Done.
—————
LOL! Yippieeeeeeee!!
Hope RD replies to you.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:22 pm

kat, I do not agree with every single thing in the republican platform. I do not agree with everything repub politicans believe. I don’t think every dem voter agrees with everything in their “party” either. I vote for the person, not the party. I dislike the idea of voting for “party”… whether it be those in my area who ONLY vote dem because they are union and their union said to vote for it, or because they are repub and can’t see past their nose to decide for THEMSELF who to vote for. I don’t vote repub every time. I am not a “registered republican”. I never went in and said “I want to register as a republican”. I only called myself that because that was the way I voted the majority of the time… based on the candidate who was running. I guess in that way you’d say I’m more ‘independent’ than anything else. My point, though, is this…. if you don’t want to be labelled as being part and parcel of Obama and Pelosi, doesn’t that mean you don’t always agree with the dem leadership? As for platform, do you agree 100% with everything in the dem platform? Don’t you think the party “platforms” are more to try to get a certain group of people voting for them than anything else? For example, why is it that the dem party is the party of AA when it was the repubs whose president Lincoln freed them and who MLK was a member of? Why is the dems the party of women when it was the repubs who first got the vote for women? Again, it’s what the “platform” says- IMHO designed to garner votes from a certain group of people. The “platform” of either party isn’t alwasy what that party represented in the past, nor is it always the picture of what that party is generating NOW all the time… it’s just to get a group to vote for them. What is the ONE THING that is truly important? Is it the platform of a party? Is it the leaders of a party? No… it’s PEOPLE… people who don’t always vote just based on party, but on who they feel is best for AMERICA right then. When you allow repub in here, you are NOT allowing the “republican party” with it’s platform and leaders, in here… you are allowing PEOPLE in here… people just like you in so many ways. We need to look past “party lines” and see hearts and souls here…. I, for one, don’t look at any of you as dems, as much as individuals who I feel a kinship to because we (in many things) are after the same goals. I don’t have “repub” stamped on my forehead, on my hand, or in my heart… I have “human female” stamped there…. what do you have stamped on yours?

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:24 pm

Murphy: Moreover, still on the same subject, I also told you quite a while back to be careful of who and what will attempt to circle you…Your moves regading The New Agenda are an example of your making an accurate move…for according to the Aug 21 article I posted …you were circled…and you broke that circle…in a timely and appropriate manner.
So I say again here as I said at the time…Good for you..good for us…The New Agenda has officialy been coopted by Ojingo, the fools…if there is a Presidential Commission on Women, which I hope there is not, not under that aegis, it will include a number of them. This is the way of the world, Murphy…I have seen it all too much…

No matter…We are here and will proceed.

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 4:25 pm

mamabroad #56 I agree with majority of your post.

and taggles #59 is right. Can you post something like that over there?

Personally, if this is some kind contest of classes: the parasol usin’ tea drinkers vs. radical soldiers…the choice is easy for me. I’d rather get dirty. Don’t you know the fighters on the battle field are always the real sheroes?

I’ll let them do their thing…fight for women as they see fit. It’s their thing. I think it’s a huge business blunder to disassociate from fighters with heart and passion, but I’m not running it, so let them see what works and doesn’t work.

But if you declare war, you are going to need an army. They will see.

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normapapuma 12.21.08 at 4:28 pm

#53
New Orleans
I don’t know all the details, personalities, or timeline, but I know many groups were trying to “organize” after the Denver Debacle and I just took a wait and see attitude with them. Only PUMApac felt authentic to me, so I stayed.

That article is infuriating, btw. How long after that did they ask Murphy to join?

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Nijma 12.21.08 at 4:29 pm

Karen WI: how’d you get that copyright symbol?
Look for the “character map”. In Windows it’s under programs>accessories>system tools. If you use it often enough to want an icon, you can right click on it to get the option to export it to the desktop. Otherwise just click on the special character you want, copy and paste where you want it.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:29 pm

One more on this note…. I’m probably a pretty sentimental person. Of course having pain doesn’t help. But… for whatever it’s worth, the past couple of posts that I typed I typed with tears in my eyes…. and running down my cheeks… it’s hard when you’re just reading typed words on a page to get a heart shown. That’s why I’m telling you this. I’m telling you my heart here… or trying to, for whatever it’s worth.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:32 pm

Thanks Nimja… I never knew that! ©

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:33 pm

73sue66: I have seen these kind of MIz Astorbutts often…they all look and sound alike.

MIZ Astorbutts? a title created by my mama for the women in the Mother’s Club who always thought they were better than everyone else, who always had ideas for somebody else to do , and who thought like the Astors of the 19th century were after all …above it and all!

I met hundreds of these over 30 years working with organizing and running social service nonprofits..I got so good at recognizing them I could smell them coming almost a block away!

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 4:33 pm

“Those of us who withdraw from the Democratic Party and become Independents…” That was our very first action. In my opinion that is still the first action…switch to a freaking third party. Second action…vote third party in every election, local or national. The rules are set in stone…only a Democratic and Republican will ever get in the presidential debates…until the third party percentages increase. If the first action…switching from the Democratic or Republican party…was never taken all the actions thereafter are futile…in my humble opinion…which is often not interpreted as humble.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:35 pm

81normapuma: I do not know..need to ask Murphy.

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normapapuma 12.21.08 at 4:35 pm

#78 Karen
Heck, you’re long-winded. But you’re an excellent person and I like your PUMA attitude. We can always count on you, so who cares if you’re a Repub or not or maybe! I’m a moderate and I don’t agree with half the world, but I pick my battles and my comrades. You’re great, imo.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:37 pm

KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:29 pm

One more on this note…. I’m probably a pretty sentimental person. Of course having pain doesn’t help. But… for whatever it’s worth, the past couple of posts that I typed I typed with tears in my eyes…. and running down my cheeks… it’s hard when you’re just reading typed words on a page to get a heart shown. That’s why I’m telling you this. I’m telling you my heart here… or trying to, for whatever it’s worth.
++++++++++++====

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normapapuma 12.21.08 at 4:38 pm

#87 NOP
Yeah, I realized that as soon as I hit the button! Sorry. I was just wondering out loud because I remember someone said TNA asked Murphy to post over there and she was happy and then NOT and so on…
Murphy, Just wondering!

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 4:38 pm

KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:29 pm

I hear your heart beating Karen………I have a sister who thinks she is a Republican. She is not, her heart is that of a woman who has had a hard life. She does not realize she is a PUMA!

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taggles1 12.21.08 at 4:39 pm

I don’t think I understand how women working for money and power and using the “blue collar” groups and fringe groups to do the dirty is helpful to any woman.

Isn’t that sort of what we are fighting against right now. The power will remain in few hands. The hands that have the money.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:39 pm

OK, I guess it’s easier for Sunshinelvr to have her heart show up on typed words than it is for me, LOL :)

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windsun 12.21.08 at 4:39 pm

I have followed the development of TNA with interest but must say I am not surprised at what’s being reported here by Harriet C. I am taking a wait/see attitude but this kind of thing does NOT bode well for them. Thank you, Harriet and PUMAPac, for having the clarity and guts to let the world see the inner machinations of what held so much promise but is now revealing its true colors.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:40 pm

♥ like this with NO spaces… & hearts ;

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:42 pm

86gaygirl: One of the reasons Ralph Nader has continued to run is precisely to enable other parties to remain on State ballots without every year of election having to go through the same tedious and time consuming requirements of petitions to put names on the ballot.

I am a lifelong Jeffersonian Democrat and my party has been usurped. I will continue identification with that kind of qualification.

If Ojingo is successful in implementing the myriad bills he wishes to have implemented, there will no longer be an issue of thrid party or any other party. The 2007 Federal Voting Act has so diluted the standards for voter registration and registered voter voting that anyone and their dog will be able to vote. Right now, this party is in the hands of a horrific bunch and the issue of a Third Party has no timeliness at …this time…The issue is the containment against the destruction of this democratic republic.

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 4:43 pm

TNA isn’t that just Tits And Ass? The New Tits And Ass! :lol:

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:44 pm

&hearts:;

Hmmmm…

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:44 pm

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 4:45 pm

92taggles: Well said… that scenario you citesounds like the Donna Brazile philosophy to me…

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:45 pm

Got it! Don’t know if I’ll remember it though… probably end up having to type words while crying again in future, but thanks for that now! LOL ♥

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:46 pm

our own DancesWith Pumas has made it easy for us. she has listed everything is here:

http://pumapac.org/geek.html

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 4:46 pm

KarenWI: #78

Yes, I know you don’t agree with everything that is a part of the standard republican party. I am the same way with democratic party. There are big things I agree with that are normally associated with republican party, like strict national security, lower taxes, drilling, and a tough immigration stance. I’ve also changed my mind on guns and I am skeptical of abortion being only seen as a positive. I’m conservative about a few other things, like crime, drugs, prostitution and porn, and some other issues. So, I am my own kind of democrat–likely more Independent at this point.

you say:
“Don’t you think the party “platforms” are more to try to get a certain group of people voting for them than anything else?”

Totally.

I also know the true history and facts regarding republicans and blacks and women. Yes, but see the democratic party harnessed big power plays in the party: welfare and roe v.wade and affirmative action, etc etc. One can see why women and minorities would feel more “taken care of” and heard in the dem party. Is it to keep women and minorities in check? Is it to keep us dependent on the democratic party, maybe even a maneuver to maintain a sort of self-victimhood for gather votes? Sure. I see how that can be a play for votes and power. I do not see democrats as “good.” I know it’s politics.

you say:
“We need to look past “party lines” and see hearts and souls here…. I, for one, don’t look at any of you as dems, as much as individuals who I feel a kinship to because we (in many things) are after the same goals.”

I feel the same way, Karen. I am not hoodwinked by the party line thing. I am personally against organized relgion (for *me*) and so I have similar feelings about “parties”…

you say:
“I have “human female” stamped there…[on heart] what do you have stamped on yours?

I have nothing stamped anywhere, and definitely not “political party X”…

I see your point. I don’t disagree.

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:47 pm

“she has listed everything is” ..hmm.. she has listed everything! no ‘is” needed.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 4:48 pm

Sunshinelvr.. is there a link to that on the blog site somewhere, or is that something I need to “save” somewhere?

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murphy 12.21.08 at 4:48 pm

mamabroad #56. not true.

sometimes there are NOT two sides to a story.

Just ask Louisa Rodas.

It’s not hearsay. For Harriet to send out that email means that she has copies of emails from Amy that are explicit — explicitly obnoxious, divisive, and cruel.

I have copies of emails in which she calls Pumas “fringe” and “unprofessional” and smears Betty Jean with accusations of insanity.

Harriet is being somewhat circumspect in order to be discrete towards the women who shared the information with her.

There is only one side to this story — the new agenda is a sham and should be rejected unequivocally by feminists.

The single most daunting challenge we face as women is disunity. It is what keeps us weak and ineffective. How dare she reject blue collar women?

Seriously. How dare she?

And to the question of Republicans — I agree with KarenWI that there are many women who vote republican who are probably pumas at heart and dont know about us. She’s also correct that there are pro-forced-pregnancy democratic women and anti-civil-rights dem women.

BUT — dwp is also correct. The platform of the Republican party, at least with regard to women’s reproductive issues, is the most blatantly patriarchal and woman-oppressive platform of any organized group in the history of this country since the Puritans of Salem or the slave holders of the pre-Civil Wat era.

Republican women are women and we love them and want them to join us.

But they will have to unlearn the brain-washing they’ve suffered under the likes of people like Rick Warren, Phyllis Schlafly, and Ralph Reed.

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theamericanway 12.21.08 at 4:50 pm

Two items on google news:

Barney Frank thinks O made a mistake by inviting Warren.
and
Rep. Gary Ackerman of Queens said on CBS’ “Face the Nation” Sunday that the Kennedy legend and connections won’t be enough to make her a successful senator if Gov. David Paterson appoints her to the U.S. Senate.

Dems talking now that BO is out of country?

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Sunshinelvr 12.21.08 at 4:51 pm

it’s in the “action resources” listed on the left side of this blog under pages. just follow links to the ’smileys”

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 4:52 pm

Donna Brazile lol lol George Will kept laughing at her this AM as she spouted the line of Ill not able to afford a special election. She was getting pissed, and Sam Donaldson was giving her grief about the lynch mob after the Gov who has yet to be proven guilty! And Georgestepalotinit was glib and said he was “in” the briefing of BO and team and they did nothing wrong!! OY!!@

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mountainsong 12.21.08 at 4:53 pm

Hiya, Kat! How ya doing, Babe? :)

I’m sure glad our Founder isn’t a quitter. As a matter of fact, ours sets quite an example. It must be hard for her to just sit back and let everyone express their different opinions. But PUMA is alive and vital and TNA is dying on the vine.

Sheesh!!! So much SNOW!!! My back is gonna be KILLING me tonight. But it made alot of people happy. I just worry about these old people here. Two days ago, I was walking out the side door ( I live in a secure building so when someone comes they need me to go open the door for them), grumbling and moaning, and bitching cuz they woke me from a nice nap~~~~and when I looked out the door there was an old woman laying in the snow. She had been struggling with her car door lock, with an arm load of groceries when she went down. So, of course, I ran to help her up and hold her arm as she hobbled across the parking lot to her building.

So, when I was out doing sidewalks and cars I was wondering…..
Do you think it was just a coincidence? Or is there a God who truly works in mysterious ways?
I remember going to a church once. they wanted me to be an elder. Until they found out about me. Then they told me I wouldn’t be allowed in their church if I came as a woman.
I responded: That’s ok, wrong building. My God loves everybody. And thank God Jesus isn’t a Christian.
There are just so many people, hurting. Old, lame, sick, LONELY, ANGRY….. How did He do it?
Last night I was watching the History Channel and they were talking about “After the Da Vinci code”. I was so amazed, listening about ‘Gospels’ that were omitted, intentionally, from the ‘Bible’.
Like the Gospels of Phillip and Thomas. And, most significantly, the Gospel according to Mary. Apparently, until around 25 AD , the Gnostics worshipped Mary and women were generally revered and treated with respect. But after 25 AD, there was a concerted effort by the ‘Patriarchy of the Church’ to change all that by omitting those Gospels and especially the one concerning Mary. This seems to corelate with other things I’ve read, like in a book called, “The Lost Books of the Bible.”
I wont argue whether there is or is not a God. But I DO know, for certain, there are angels amongst us. And most times we don’t even know who they are. And, I tell people, that’s what I want to be when I grow up.
Anyway, whether you believe or not, if you are down, lonely, hurting:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trvtMSoW7dM

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murphy 12.21.08 at 4:55 pm

kat in your hat wrote:

“But if you declare war, you are going to need an army. They will see.”

exacto-MUNDO.

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mountainsong 12.21.08 at 4:55 pm

murphy 12.21.08 at 4:48 pm How dare anyone!!!

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 4:57 pm

NOP, I am from Louisiana. My mother calls people “Miss Astor” often. Call a debutante, Miss Astor, as she walks by. Miss Astor just assumes you to step off the sidewalk.

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murphy 12.21.08 at 4:58 pm

windsun, I’ve not seen you comment before — welcome!

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 5:00 pm

Murphy, I don’t remember who they were, but I remember reading some posts in here in past months from dem members who said they were pro-life. Are you saying that you must be pro-choice to be PUMA? I think if you want a large group you might be limiting yourself a lot there…. there are a lot of women who are very strong pro-women’s rights who may be pro-life. Women who get angry at attacks against Hillary or Palin, or against using a cutout to show their “manhood”. Women who want equal jobs, equal pay, who don’t want to be
2nd class or 3rd class citizens… but may feel that life begins at conception and don’t feel right about taking a life unless the life of the mother is in danger. I’m talking people who call them dem, repub AND independent here.

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murphy 12.21.08 at 5:00 pm

HP #99 — oh my gawd! I never thought of that — perfect.

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 5:01 pm

MountainSong, all the gnostic texts are here: http://www.gnosis.org/naghamm/nhl.html

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Nijma 12.21.08 at 5:01 pm

#45 Seattlegirl We are better off not speaking with one voice. There needs to be a sugar coated voice (Amy’s New Agenda) and a radical voice PUMA) for women. These are inevitable growing pains of a new woman’s movement as I see it.
YES. “Register”–the appropriateness of the language to the audience–can be very important when trying to convince someone. I love the profanity here and the particular kind of humor that goes with it (although I hate it on the Obot sites) but if I used it at work I would never be taken seriously. My mother would freak at this site, but she would welcome anyone who talked in educated tones about the right to birth control (but not abortion). You need something different to reach different people.

The most important thing about the Pumas is activism–they are doing something. Not all of us can be that without risk.

If New Aganda wants to work within the new administration why not. They certainly need some better voices THERE. At the same time there is a limit to what they can accomplish from within and they need someone on the outside pushing to keep them honest–Puma pressure can supply a good excuse for doing the right thing.

There may also be certain issues that have to be approached from the point of view of white/blue/pink collars. In the sixties before all our manufacturing went to China, there were specific blue collar issues that only those women could identify like the weight lifting restrictions and night shift restrictions that kept women from shift differential pay. There may also things specific to professional fields like law, business, that need to be addressed differently. Minority and immigrant women may have still other issues.

As for me, I have worked probably every kind of job there is and appearances don’t bother me. I can live with not swearing, wearing a white dress, and even sitting on the floor drinking tea and eating mystery meat with bedouins if it furthers my goals. If NA wants to drink tea and wear pearls, I say they should go ahead and knock their socks off.

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bqueen 12.21.08 at 5:07 pm

Ain’t it good to know
WE CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON HARRIET!!!

Rock on, sistah!

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 5:07 pm

113gaygal: Well then ..there you are!!! I think my mama added the butt part…she was very earthy! Hope you understand in my post to you that I do not disagree with your concept of third party but I am now clearly extremely concerned about what we will have left after Ojingo as the very nature of this country! LOL

gay gal..and watch out for the Astorbutts…!!

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murphy 12.21.08 at 5:08 pm

all you need to be to be a Puma is a feminist.

that’s all.

all you need to want is that women be united and that we work together to change our world.

I believe that forcing pregnancy and childbirth on women in this day and age of safe, pain-free abortion and birth control is barbaric and caveman. Allowing the state to further and explicitly restrict women’s agency is like yearning for the good old days of small pox and polio. It makes no rational sense to me.

I believe that this is TRUE, not simply a matter of opinion.

I also believe that as women communicate, educate, and inform each other — we will all come to this conclusion.

But no — you can be pro-forced-pregnancy and still be a Puma.

A Puma in search of and on the way to enlightenment.

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 5:08 pm

HP #99 — oh my gawd! I never thought of that — perfect.

#97

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 5:10 pm

#120… I’m more concerned about the BUTTHEADS than I am the “anything-else-butts”… those who use their butt for their brains; or, in other problem scenarios. those who use their penis’ for brains… whichever the case may be…. I don’t like either one… butthead or penisbrain… Hey! Do you think that’s where “peabrain” came from? They just stuck an “a” in there when it was supposed to be “pe*brain”?

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gay gal 12.21.08 at 5:14 pm

NOP: “If Ojingo is successful in implementing the myriad bills he wishes to have implemented, there will no longer be an issue of thrid party or any other party”. I believe this was one of the motives to for all the third party candidates to come together this election cycle to create a platform of common goals. It is an interesting read and seemed quite preemptive.

On the other topic: Coming from the poor white trash that I do, my mother could relate to “Astorbutt”. As my sister pretends her roots to be otherwise, at times, my mom puts her back in her place by calling her “Pissellen”. I think it is on the same vein.

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Fiona 12.21.08 at 5:15 pm

murphy
thank you for having the courage to say that.
women must respect each other’s reproductive privacy, period.
this cannot be negotiable.

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HP Boston 12.21.08 at 5:16 pm

I believe that forcing pregnancy and childbirth on women in this day and age of safe, pain-free abortion and birth control is barbaric and caveman. Allowing the state to further and explicitly restrict women’s agency is like yearning for the good old days of small pox and polio. It makes no rational sense to me.

I believe that this is TRUE, not simply a matter of opinion.

—————————————-
Wow Murph I say that ALL the time! Bravo great leader!

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sue66 12.21.08 at 5:17 pm

NewOrleansPuma
MIz Astorbutts I Love it. The visual is perfect and just what I was trying to express.

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GoPumaGo 12.21.08 at 5:17 pm

we often talk about a new third party — I think your dream is evidence that we are in FACT making a new party right here — organically, fitfully, and from the ground up.

+ + + + + + + + +

Thank you for the above Christmas Present. Hooray.

Go Puma Go

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kat in your hat 12.21.08 at 5:19 pm

@ #110
mountainsong: hey there sweetie. :)

I think I watched the same Da Vinci Code special on Discovery/ History or which ever a few years ago. Very interesting. I felt like women got robbed, for sure. It made me sad. It doesn’t surprise me though. I know the Lie has been spun from loooong ago, that women are inferior. One big ancient lie. People believe in the Lie now and don’t even know that they are helping the ancient ones keep the secret.

One day all women will see the math. If they cannot see outside the TV and their mate now–all the hocus penis pocus, I have hope they will come to see the MATH. I hope it hits them like a ton of bricks. There are more women on the planet. We outnumber men. We live longer. One day all women will come to see the stark reality of that…and then it might hit them. Together nothing could stop us. Nothing.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 5:23 pm

KarenW: Could be!

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murphy 12.21.08 at 5:24 pm

the habit of freedom posted.

take it upstairs!

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Seattlegirl 12.21.08 at 5:24 pm

I do not believe that women need to be united in our tactics to gain equality and representation in government. We only need to be united in our most basic goals. New Agenda at least is looking toward 52% of government being made up of women because we are 52% of the population. This represents a significant improvement over NOW who had some weird goal of far, far out in the future getting to 30% women in government.

Women should not allow any political party to count on our votes. Both parties should worry endlessly about whether they will get the womens support. That is how you use your power. We probably can’t form a new political party but we can form and interest group big enough that our demands must be considered. That should be easier than making the religious right or the Black caucus or Hispanic caucus a group to be reckoned with for the simple reason that women are the majority in the population and we vote in higher percentages than men. Both political parties need to court us and be endlessly afraid of who we might endorse.

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Nijma 12.21.08 at 5:25 pm

NPR did some interviews a few years back–one with someone who was forced to have a baby and another forced to have an abortion, all against their will. Both tragic stories. What could be more special than the relationship between parent and child–and how can you “force” a relationship.

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NewOrleansPuma 12.21.08 at 5:25 pm

gaygal: Sounds like it, gay gal.

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mountainsong 12.21.08 at 5:35 pm

Ya know, this election puzzles me a bit. Now that men have the ‘power’, so to speak, they are not about to relinquish it. And, if there was anything left of this country worth having, I don’t believe for one second that WHITE men would have given it up. Obama just wouldn’t have happened. But, alot of people united behind his message of change.
I absolutely agree with Murphy about ‘disunity’ being the bane of Feminism. If I knew what to do about THAT, I’d be close to walking on water……….

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GoPumaGo 12.21.08 at 5:39 pm

I have gained a wonderful education from this election. I have changed my mind on many ideas and also formed opinions on others. I now see the political scene in a more corruption way. I now like the view of George Washington in his farewell address on the dangers of Political Parties. I see the dangers he mentions facing us all too strongly.

I now see the parties as all too self serving. the politicians as totally self interested. Everyone is ripping off the money at the federal level. There is simply way too much money floating around Washington DC.

It might be nice to experiment with NO POLITICAL PARTIES but all candidates and elected officials are independent. All are dedicated to voting their ethics and working as hard as possible for the betterment of our country.

My view is that the entire US political scene is one of Pay to Play. Our elected officials are elitists and out of touch with the common person. The country is filling up with little family dynasties. We are missing the leadership of those with the most talent who have worked hard and proven they are good people.

It may be impossible to control the corruption and therefore the size of the government must be minimal. How did this country ever exist as a beginning country with only a few people running the show. Now we have almost the entire population working for the government.

The larger the goverment the more money running through Washington the more corruption we will always have. Therefore we must minimize the government.

I ask the question. Has any President ever left office with a smaller government then the size when he took office?

Also the gov has taken powers that were not given to them by the Constitution. This should stop. I have the greatest fear of the Democratic adminstration now wants a Continental Congress which will have the power to rewrite the constitution WITHOUT being ratified by the states. This is too big a risk. Obama wants to destroy the Constitution. Remember the purpose of the Constitution is to LIMIT the Government against the people. If we allow a continental congress this country will come to an end for sure. The power of the ruling class will become absolute. And absolute power corrupts absolutely.

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KarenWI 12.21.08 at 5:49 pm

In my personal opinion outside of rape I don’t understand why we’d even need abortion in most cases with all the birth control measures we have available now…. If people USED the condoms, and pills, or WHATEVERS, they wouldn’t need to make that decision. My mother’s mother had over 6 abortions (before they were legal). She didn’t want the abortions, but her husband didn’t want the kids, just the sex. She went to an abortion clinic to have mom aborted too… it didn’t “take” or else I wouldn’t be here today. Back then they didn’t have all the methods to NOT get pregnant that we have today. If they had had them she I am sure she wouldn’t have gotten pregnant so many times and wouldn’t have had so many abortions. …and, I’m sure, mom nor I would be here today…. LOL.

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Dhyan 12.21.08 at 6:38 pm

Thank you for forwarding the message. People don’t have to be with me, but I need to know who’s against me.

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Headclunker 12.21.08 at 7:29 pm

Apparently the New Agenda has an old agenda. Just call me “trailer trash,” better that then a fauxminist.

PUMA forever.

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Zee 12.22.08 at 4:25 am

I concur with Nijma and Seattlegirl… “We are better off not speaking with one voice. There needs to be a sugar coated voice (Amy’s New Agenda) and a radical voice PUMA) for women. These are inevitable growing pains of a new woman’s movement as I see it.”

I am sorry for the infighting and back channel break ups, but that is not how The New Agenda conducts its business in public, and the women who go there know nothing of this back and forth behind the scenes, so you all might think twice before gleefully bashing women who go there as “faux” feminists. Riverdaughter, over at the Confluence, has shown some incredibly poor judgment in allowing attacks and in censoring and banning. I chose not to go there, but in no way would condemn the regulars there.

And mamabroad, I was glad to see you post #56. Ditto, gay girl #66….thanks for the reminder.

You should definitely keep posting here!

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Stray Yellar Dawg 12.22.08 at 6:37 am

Wow. I am so sorry to see a group with such potential infighting.

But, then, it’s not unusual… when strong minded people get together they are bound to disagree.

I stand by Harriet… and a folk hero of HUGE import for the future of blue collar Feminism.

And I stand behind Amy….as she spearheads a new, communal, voice for Feminists in Politics.

It is possible to respect both sides. And it is critical that we not start eating each others limbs off… as the Obots are now doing over the Warren pick.

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glennmcgahee 12.22.08 at 11:59 am

PLease keep in mind there are some guys like me who are PUMA and consider myself a feminist. Maybe because I’m gay or maybe because I saw my mom and sisters eaten alive by the horible Catholic Church doctrine as they were ordered to obey the father. My father, an abusive, alcoholic who the church ordered my mother to live with and tolerate. When my sister’s turn at marriage came and she told me about the counseling sessions before her marriage that involved obedience to the male, that was enough for her and me. We finally left the church. I fault most misogyny to the church. Not just the Catholics, but most denominations. As I watch the Kennedy’s, Chris Mathews and media and politicos talk about the Pope as if he is God’s personal penpal and they dictate how a woman can live her life or condemn homosexuality. Unlike Obama, I choose to move in the other direction. I don’t care to join with the Evangelicals to have a dialogue, I’ve heard their side and know they don’t care about mine. Its time to claim our country from these religious zealots. They can practice their religion but keep it away from my government.

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Nina M. 12.22.08 at 3:06 pm

Dear everyone,

I heard about this post and sought it out to read it for myself. I am writing to say that I am very sad, very sad and hurt, to read it and many of the subsequent comments. For your information, no one has asked me to read this, much less to comment on it.

Like all of you, I was outraged by the ‘war on Hillary.’ I was doubly outraged when I saw what was being done to Sarah Palin. I did everything within my power (which is pretty limited, but nevertheless) to counter the lies about both women, both on a one-to-one basis with family and friends and through the internet.

I was thrilled to join The New Agenda, and I am thrilled to be a member now. I understand there have been some strong differences of opinion among feminists as this nascent organization takes shape, and I respect that.

What really hurts is to see feminists attack other feminists as if they are the enemy. You may not like the way The New Agenda is developing, but we are part of the same family. We are not the ones trying to hurt women, to hold them back, to belittle them in public, and to ensure their failure. We are not the real enemy.

The real enemies are the news executives and anchors who continue to spew their sexism without any negative repercussions. The real enemies are calling Favreau’s despicable photos “silly” and Larry Summers’ theories “no big deal.” The real enemies are promoting misogynistic music and television and movies and video games, redefining both “femaleness” and “maleness” in ever more restrictive and degrading ways. And as you know, I could go on and on.

I was raised by a feminist mother, a single woman, blue collar, sometimes on welfare but most of the time working two and even three jobs at a time. I have spent my entire career working and volunteering in the feminist movement. What’s really wounded me here is the rhetoric about blue collar women not being welcome in The New Agenda. Hello! Here I am! I exist! And I am taken every bit as seriously as any other woman.

The other thing that wounds me is this – this election cycle, I had the horrible experience of seeing feminist leaders I know personally repeated attack Hillary Clinton on the pages of Slate and Salon, while admitting privately that they “couldn’t stand her” because of some slight they perceived a decade before, some perceived insult when so-and-so wasn’t invited to the White House or so-and-so wasn’t thanked at the signing ceremony. These leaders went to work for Edwards and Obama because their own feelings were hurt, and to get back at Hillary they were willing to trash a movement that meant the world to so many other women.

Please don’t go down that path. There are a lot of people who seem willing to believe the worst possible interpretation of a sister’s actions, and who seem eager to indulge in “mean girls” type behavior rather than take the high road. I know everyone feels passionately about these issues. But instead of tearing each other down, instead of watching and waiting for someone to slip up and pouncing on them at the earliest opportunity, we should have our eye on the real problems. Because as far as I know, no one has been held accountable for the despicable behavior we saw over the past year. Not one person. And the pattern continues.

Its not like misogyny is taking a break for the holidays. Sometimes I think its getting worse and worse every single day.

I offer this comment in a spirit of respect for the sacrifices so many of you have made to defend women – to defend the truth – when it seemed like the whole country had gone nuts.

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FreeMeNow 12.23.08 at 10:39 pm

All I can say is this agenda is not new. The behavior does not fit the Mission statement which claims to speak for millions of women who can not speak for themselves. That is false and hurts us more than helps us.
Please keep in mind this rift started because they TNA chose to do a 180 on Jon Favreau. First they spoke for us when they called for his job then the next day did a 180 and turned into enablers which is how women end up abused – then when we spoke up for ourselves they manhandled us rather then listen to us.

Read the mission stement and know this was and continues to be mishandled and now in spite refuses to cover the pre meditated attempted murder of one of their own members daughters over the dispute. How does that square with you? New Agenda- I’ll say – the only thing new is that it is worsr than the old- it does not even pretend to be for the everyday woman.

BettyJean Kling
Free-Us-Now.com

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