Why is this picture not okay?

by murphy on December 7, 2008

in profound question of the day

And this one?

Now this one’s a bit tricky. Be sure to tie your thinking caps on nice and tight before attempting to answer why THIS picture IS okay:

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zephyr 12.07.08 at 10:52 am

For KarenWI from previous thread…
I agree a lot of people have left the blog. But we don’t know all the reasons for their leaving. Some may have left because they have no sense of mission now that the election is over….others, yes, may have left because they felt offended. I don’t mind a lively or even heated debate on a subject and that is what happens here mostly. Personal attacks are another matter..and it does happen and it is offensive to me even though it may not be directed at me. I just overlook the “f” word…for some it is just part of their vocabulary…not mine…but I am not personally offended. Most of my posts fall into the “no response” category…and often I have lurked and not posted because of that. Often there are multiple conversations going on and it is hard to navigate through 300 posts. Whatever…the important thing is that PUMA still is active. Sometimes I feel we are like a team throwing darts at a battleship….but a part of me still feels we are having some effect in this world.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 10:53 am

Aside from demeaning the person depicted, the contexts reinforce an underclass status stereotype, regardless of these persons’ actual accomplishments and advancements of their general class as a people.
The images are a slap down to the lowest common denominator of the person’s natural biological unchangeable characterists.
Clumsy, but you get the gist.

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Anna Belle 12.07.08 at 10:55 am

Dead on with the lawn jockey pic. I want to scream, “Can you hear me now?”

I said this over at the confluence on the replacement-women pictures:

They still won’t get it with any of these picture, because they’re all still women, and as we know from this year, you can do whatever you want to a woman and it will not register as immoral in a misogynist. What you want to do is replace those females with pictures of Obama himself, or Joe Biden, or the Rahminator. Homophobia they get; misogyny they do not.

I’m sure it wouldn’t take much to photo shop that breast-cupping arm down low, if you know what I mean…

Just putting that out there. I don’t have photoshop myself, or I’d do it.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 10:57 am

The images are the racist equivalent of the portrayal of sexist images of women, that disregard the accomplishments of women.

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gojoyknocks 12.07.08 at 10:58 am

What am I missing? I find all three photos equally offensive.

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sue66 12.07.08 at 11:00 am

from downstairs – I think the “official response” to this is where the problem lies. To ignore it and say he’s interested in the state department of whatever is an insult to all women. Not appropriate, not ok, and that means both the original picture and the official response to it.

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Anna Belle 12.07.08 at 11:05 am

I have to agree, sue. While I understand the motivation behind Clinton’s reaction, I still don’t like it, and I think it’s (to borrow a phrase from the campaign) boneheaded. You can’t just slough this off like so much water on a duck’s back. It means something to stand up to it, call it for what it is, and suggest that it needs to stop. And maybe it would begin the process if John F. got his stupid ass fired as a result. I mean, come on.

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taggles1 12.07.08 at 11:16 am

I give up today. you all have got me.

Listen to the show and I’ll tell ya how I really feel about women who think their shit don’t stink and their way is the only way.

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cjv 12.07.08 at 11:21 am

OK, I’ve been lurking as I really try to saty out of ’spirited’ discussions. That doesn’t mean I am without opinion. My habit of being too opinonated and outspoken where by this god forseaken male dominated society where by ‘most men’ have often gotten me into trouble.

Anyway. It’s possible that HRC’s statement carries a different meaning. And we just don’t know. My immediate intepretation was essentially “Oh yeah, Fraveau, is this is how you’re interested being a speechwriter? Well OK, let’s see…And I have your resume right in front of me…which I will promptly put into the trash.” Just saying. We don’t know where she was coming from on her statement that was regurgiated by her spokesperson.

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sue66 12.07.08 at 11:22 am

Trishfromcanada
I haven’t heard from woodie for awhile. The last I heard was the money was not enough for the surgery her cat needs and they were going to try a less invasive procedure. My e-mail is festival55@live.ca, and I can give you her e-mail address

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pa dem 12.07.08 at 11:25 am

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 11:33 am

sue66 12.07.08 at 11:22 am
Trishfromcanada
I haven’t heard from woodie for awhile. The last I heard was the money was not enough for the surgery her cat needs and they were going to try a less invasive procedure.
—————–
do not want to dwell on cat owner (teh cat is innocent).
last I heard Jenn was going to pay the balance, so teh money wasnt the issue.

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pa dem 12.07.08 at 11:42 am

I understand the reason for the DB picture, but I still find it revolting. Hopefully the obots will too.

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TrishfromCanada 12.07.08 at 11:43 am

its so cold here today and the winds are very high, i think i’m going to bake cookies today, might make gingerbread men, that look like Obama so I’ll get some pleasure when people bite off his head

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Lorey 12.07.08 at 11:44 am

At the end of the day we must ask ourselves is we did all we could to defend this nation from the enemies within.

Personally I don’t believe we did. We did not defend Hillary against the liberal media during the primaries when she and Bill were attacked, we failed to make an effort to unite all the PUMAS across the country and bring together all disgruntled Hillary supporters,

We failed to build a true coalition of 18 million voters. We failed to reach out and take our message beyond the confines of hundreds of internet sites built by Hillary supporters. We failed to share the information gathered in theses sites about Obama with mainstream America.

We failed because we were too content and comfortable with discussing the issues amongst ourselves and forgot that a few hundred or thousand do not decide elections. We forgot that there is strength in numbers and that united we could have changed the course of history.

Now we must face an uncertain future with a complete unknown in charge of this great nation of ours and a House and Senate under the control of democrats people like Nancy Pelossi and Reid that have demonstrated beyond the shadow of a doubt that they have no respect whatsoever for anyone, and that they are willing to destroy their own if they stand in their way like they did to Hillary who they betrayed.

If they did this to Hillary and Bill that was the one if not the best President and brought so much prosperity to this nation imagine what they will do with unchecked and unlimited power.

Now is the time to lament and to reflect on what on earth went on and why Americans were so willing to elect this enigmatic person with no experience. And to regret we didn’t do more.

Personally that is why I left. I don’t know about the others.

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TexasTigress 12.07.08 at 11:45 am

Tag – I was lurking and trying to follow the conversation , and I think you have some really good points .
I also , think it is difficult for most people to see beyond the reality of their own life experience .
Obviously each individual views the world from the prism of their own existence and tend to project their own (what they would imagine would be ) response to stimuli ,whether it is positive or negative , onto the subject .
No one ‘knows’ Sen. Clinton so anything that individuals determine she ’should say’ or ’should do’ is ONLY a projection of their OWN experiences and how it affects THEM .
We have to figure out how to look past our own experiences and respect that we cannot know what has shaped another woman’s world view .
In an environment like the one Sen. Clinton is in (being one of VERY few powerful women in politics) each of us would address situations like the cut out differently .
Some would scream and fight , other’s would recognize that screaming about it may be a sign of weakness (as in can’t you take a joke) others would smile and file it away to use to fight another day .
The point is that , no matter how wrong the circumstances are in Sen. Clinton’s case , her responses are based on HER life experience , not any of ours .
Is there a better way to do things ? Yes , there ALWAYS is and the ‘best’ answer is viewed from the life experience of the individual .
When we can stop projecting our individual experiences onto other women , then we can view positive resolutions as they apply to our entire gender rather than our individual selves .

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Anna Belle 12.07.08 at 11:48 am

cjv-you have a point. We also don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes.

I don’t know if there is an carry-over argument going on about Clinton’s response (there appears to be, judging by comments). For myself, I love Hillary Clinton and recognize in her a political talent that this country desperately needs. That does not mean that she is beyond reproach for me. I am critical of the actions of people I support all the time. It’s part and parcel of maintaining critical thinking skills. It is possible to hold the two points of view simultaneously.

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gojoyknocks 12.07.08 at 11:49 am

I wonder if Obama’s thesis was on Chester Arthur.

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cjv 12.07.08 at 12:00 pm

Anna Belle

There was a small amount of carryover so I decided to get my 2 cents in. I hunch we will have no final clue as to the true interpretation of her statement. For all we know the media may have also designed a deliberate editing to exclude a part of her response.

Right now I have become ambivalent towards HRC. I guess it’s part of the numbing process that’s been going on these days. I am now keeping an eye on this Caroline Kennedy potential appointmnet in Hillary’s place as it’s taken legs and I wonder if the media is trying to force her into the New York Stater’s face.

Oh Trish, if you haven’t baked Obatic’s cookies yet, the winds are now coming my way….brrrrr.

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invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 12:00 pm

Good morning pumas,
I spent most of yesterday sending out the link of DWP pictures that had other faces on the cardboard cut out…. I sent the link to all non puma sites…news sites that allowed comments….pro Owehavehadenought sites etc..etc….

well this morning I woke up to a email folder full of responses: Took an hour and a half to read and delete them all, some are not repeatable…but most are like this:
____________________________________________________________
:: use of women’s faces

Hi,

I really do understand the point that you are trying to
make by replacing HRC’s face in those pictures, and I think
you are well-intentioned, but I also think there is a real
problem with the method you are using.

You are subjecting the women whose heads you have
superimposed to a sort of mental violence. At least, that
is how I would feel if I saw my own face used in such a
way, no matter how good the cause. Honestly, I think that
using women of color is worse given that women of color
face even more violence than white women do.

I’m not trying to censor you at all. I haven’t reported the
images as inappropriate or anything like that; I’m the sort
of person who supports freedom of speech no matter how I
feel about what is said. I just hope you’ll take this
perspective under consideration.
____________________________________________
the funny part here is that I thought I had made it so that I couldn’t get any responses ….guess I need to work on that a bit……

Still the point is, although not one of them agreed that it was just as “funny” to have others in the same position as Hillary’s picture was….there was certainly no outrage of the original picture…only the altered ones……go figure…….wish just one of them would have explained exactly what methods would have worked better

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Sunshinelvr 12.07.08 at 12:05 pm

DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 10:53 am
____________
I agree with you Dances,but why use a ’shoe-shine’ person..?
‘Shoe-shining’ is a legitimate occupation for some and is quite honorable. One is tipped/paid depending entirely on how well one performs one’s job. So to lump it in there and label it as “lowest common denominator of the person’s natural biological unchangeable characterists” is insulting to those who take their craft seriously.(even though I do understand the ‘bigger’ thought here)

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Alex01 12.07.08 at 12:05 pm

Another question is: Why did the DNC run an unqualified, ineligible candidate? If you answer one, you can answer the other. I’m saying this as a former Yellow Dog Democrat who is genuinely baffled by the whole thing.

Anyhoo, I’m here to give you all an invitation to light a candle at http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Truth, to direct light to the Supreme Court’s decision-making process concerning BO’s eligibility. They MUST do the right thing, or this country will be thrown into a Constitutional crisis. Thanks in advance for your help!

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MamaPuma 12.07.08 at 12:07 pm

Hey Dances
I was watching you talk about me.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:09 pm

Lorey
Thank you for sharing. Obviously you’re speaking for yourself, and reflecting on your own failed agenda.
I know you don’t speak for me, because I did not fail.

The PUMAs I now consider my friends, did not fail. Most of us, and all of those I consider friends, did not fail. We may not have reached the goals to which we aspired, but that isn’t the way I measure failure.

I gave 100%. That’s all I could do. I’m not in charge of anyone else. Agree or not, I’m sure they did the best they could do on any given day.

I’m still giving, although it’s closer to 75% (my new 100%) now because I’m worn out. I’m here for the long haul. I’m not going to retreat because one game in a series was lost.

I’d be doing the same with or without PUMA, although perhaps not as effectively. I couldn’t live with myself otherwise.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:12 pm

MamaPuma 12.07.08 at 12:07 pm
Hey Dances
I was watching you talk about me.
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I was afraid you might be and that’s the reason I edited most of what I wanted to say. ;)
Good morning, pretty Mama.

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Sunshinelvr 12.07.08 at 12:12 pm

invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 12:00 pm
“Honestly, I think that using women of color is worse given that women of color face even more violence than white women do.”
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why would anyone believe this? It is not true, how could it be true?? It might be true if applied to lower income people as compared to higher income, but not neccessarily to the color of people. I do not believe this at all. Why do people persist in breaking everything up into ‘colors’?

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:17 pm

Sunshinelvr
As long as you understand the overriding concept, I don;t feel teh need to explain the shoeshine racial stereotype.

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Sunshinelvr 12.07.08 at 12:19 pm

Lorey 12.07.08 at 11:44 am
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Some people may feel they ‘failed’, however I saw that many on this blog worked their butts off and lost friends and argued with family trying to push our agenda. I personally did everything I could and I still do, and I do not consider what any of us did as ‘failure’. we may not have reached the “mountain-top” but we were trying and continue to do what we can. That said, the blog does seem to have lost some of it’s co-hesiveness. (speaking strictly for myself) but I also do have as much time to spend here as I did, so that may speak to the feeling of ‘lost’ that I feel.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:20 pm

Zephyer #1

Hi Puma’s,

I am back. My computer crashed due to the API site and I have been lurking because my old computer would not let me post, however, some of us are still here and in fighting form. Now is the time we have to stay on top of this guy. My friends on the left are making excuses for him, friends on the right falling in love. It is a constant battle. Obama is still the guy who screwed Alice Palmer and “thugged” his way through the primaries. We can and will make a difference.

BTW, my old computer is working, thank god. It was fairly new when it crashed and money is tight.

Peace all.

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Sunshinelvr 12.07.08 at 12:21 pm

Yeah..gotcha Dances. I just felt the need to stick up for the ‘little’ guy again! Not that some of those ’shoe-shiners’ need it! Some of them make quite good …..

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prplvette85 12.07.08 at 12:22 pm

Good morning Pumas.
Just dropped in to say I have not left. I still lurk every day, and do prowls etc. I was totally worn out, and have had some personal issues I need to deal with. I am also responsible for helping out financially not only for myself, but for some members of my family. I will be back when I can devote the time needed, with a clear head.
I do not believe we failed. We passed on more informative information, made more people aware of the truth. We gave people the empowerment to take control, some just chose not to. I know I gave all I could and more. I am here for the long run. Just because I am not posting, does not mean I am not keeping up.
Love to you all. BBL

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invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 12:23 pm

Sunshinelvr 12.07.08 at 12:12 pm
oh believe me it didn’t surprise me that probably 50 % said what I was doing was “racist” or had a “racist tone”….as a puma if I am not questioned about my actions being racist at least once a week ,,, I question weather I am doing enough Puma work…….
__________________
one response made me laugh out loud when they questioned how could I “use the future first lady’s picture in such a demeaning way”……” Did I have no love for my country”……..wonder if they realized that Hillary is a former first lady too??????? (was truly a WTF moment for me)

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:26 pm

Lets remember that we are in between administrations. Bush is done and Obi is just rambling. When he is forced to actually make a decision, we will have a little more focus. In the meantime, find a battered women’s shelter like Haven House. This is the worst season for women due to the holiday’s…the worst day of the year is Superbowl Sunday. If you ever lose sight of why we are here, that will give you some perspective. Women are battered and raped every blessed second in this country and no one care’s. Obie just does it with more style.

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sue66 12.07.08 at 12:26 pm

KarenWI,check downstairs, I found the book and listed the author and isbn number, it’s near the end of the posts
I will admit the first made me laugh when I saw it. Don’t see many of those lawn jockeys anymore, the goddess Demeter is the biggie here.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 12:26 pm

As a woman of Hillary’s vintage and having lived through a time when a woman couldn’t get a loan without her husband’s signature, I cut Hillary a lot of slack here. There are tons of people just waiting for her to fail as SOS. Had she reacted in a matter that could be portrayed as “overreaction,” imagine the “reaction” from the press and all the goons out there waiting for her to take a mis-step. In my youth, those of us who considered ourselves feminists were routinely ridiculed, and worse.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 12:27 pm

oops, should have been …reacted in a manner..sorry, got a little excited.

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murphy 12.07.08 at 12:30 pm

hey there prplvette.

oh yeah invalid, the wtf moments are coming fast and furiously.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:32 pm

“one response made me laugh out loud when they questioned how could I “use the future first lady’s picture in such a demeaning way”……” Did I have no love for my country”……..wonder if they realized that Hillary is a former first lady too??????? (was truly a WTF moment for me)”
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goes a long way in explaining at least one of the reasons this android is now the president-elect.
gwbush was our first clue, elected for a second term was the 30th clue. The majority of americans are morons.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:33 pm

WTF moment’s, LOL
Hi Murphy :)

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cjv 12.07.08 at 12:35 pm

VTcat #35

I agree with how women are ridiculed, etc, which is in essence my comment about getting in trouble as I dared to stand on my two feet on my ealrier post. The frustrating part here is, that it (sexism, etc) is being perpetuated. As I said earlier, I am not sure what HRC’s true meaning was in her statement. Regardless, the media is perpetuating the sexism and mysogyny like we haven’t seen in years. And it’s unbelievable that the general population ignores it, doesn’t understand it, doesn’t care, is a part of it, etc. No, I personally can’t accept any of it and no I can’t provide excuses for anyone as it needs to stop.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:35 pm

DWP

GWB was not my President.

BHO is not my President.

These men do not speak nor represent me.

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TrishfromCanada 12.07.08 at 12:35 pm

DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:09 pm

I have to agree with Dances here. Puma’s didn’t fail, didn’t even come close to failing. We opened people’s minds, even changed minds, brought forth issues that were uncomfortable for some, petitioned the government and its leaders, fought against sexism, racism and inequalities in several areas. We are still fighting. We defended and supported Hillary. Joined other Puma groups to spread the word.

Yes we debated but don’t confuse debate with a lack of action, from these debates came action.

And all this on a very tight budget.

I know I can only speak for myself, but I’m damn proud of Murphy and everyone who worked with her to move the PAC frward and I’m more than proud to be a Puma

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carol 12.07.08 at 12:40 pm

At the end of the day we must ask ourselves is we did all we could to defend this nation from the enemies within.

Personally I don’t believe we did. We did not defend Hillary against the liberal media during the primaries when she and Bill were attacked, we failed to make an effort to unite all the PUMAS across the country and bring together all disgruntled Hillary supporters,

We failed to build a true coalition of 18 million voters. We failed to reach out and take our message beyond the confines of hundreds of internet sites built by Hillary supporters. We failed to share the information gathered in theses sites about Obama with mainstream America.

We failed because we were too content and comfortable with discussing the issues amongst ourselves and forgot that a few hundred or thousand do not decide elections. We forgot that there is strength in numbers and that united we could have changed the course of history.

Now we must face an uncertain future with a complete unknown in charge of this great nation of ours and a House and Senate under the control of democrats people like Nancy Pelossi and Reid that have demonstrated beyond the shadow of a doubt that they have no respect whatsoever for anyone, and that they are willing to destroy their own if they stand in their way like they did to Hillary who they betrayed.

If they did this to Hillary and Bill that was the one if not the best President and brought so much prosperity to this nation imagine what they will do with unchecked and unlimited power.

Now is the time to lament and to reflect on what on earth went on and why Americans were so willing to elect this enigmatic person with no experience. And to regret we didn’t do more.

Personally that is why I left. I don’t know about the others.

I agree with most of this. I checked this site daily before the election for information and moral support. I still ckeck the site but there is not much information and to what prupose?

I think that the PUMA’s should change their name to something that works well as a national political action group or start a reform democratic party. There is important info regarding this election that needs to be put out there to a larger audience. Many of us who work don’t have time to engage in blogging banter and, honestly, there seem to be a core group of people who know and care about each other. Some of the blogging is very personal and sometimes seems clique ish.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:42 pm

cjv

When I was a younger women, I had a very coveted job at the William Morris Agency in Los Angeles. Covering a literary desk straight out of college was a big deal for a women, agent training program was very hard to get into. During a meeting with a famous film director, myself and my boss, I was asked to stand and show them my knees, and upper thighs. I froze. I was told they bet that they were like juicy grapes. I wish this were the only story like this that I couyld tell you, but it is not. Hillary is still in nomination, this is how the boys let you know who is the “boss”. Suck it up bitch! That is the message.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:43 pm

“I think that the PUMA’s should change their name to something that works well as a national political action group or start a reform democratic party.”
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Why is a name change neccesary to accomplish these goals?

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murphy 12.07.08 at 12:46 pm

hiya hillary2008 — so glad your computer is up and running.

Fail?

HA! we didnt fail. 9 million democrats voted against obama. He had NO coattails.

george bush FAILED. george bush LOST, obama didn’t win.

Hi VTcat — that’s a very good point. I do wish she’d craft an incisive general response though. (and i know that her supposed “response” may not even be real). But it would be great if she were a bit more feisty. I dont know. I watched her in NH when those freaks from my local radio station were heckling her with the “iron my shirt!” line and she looked rattled and unprepared. I’m not BLAMING her — i just wished i could jump through the TV and help her out. Give her some ideas on how to fiht back WITHOUT opening herself up to ridicule. Something funny and impersonal.

Like, “It doesnt bother ME personally (even if it does, but she probably IS impervious to it after all these years) but I do think those sorts of images are demeaning and violence against women at college is a very serious issue. Images that echo that sort of violence should be rejected. I’m surprised Mr. Favreau didnt have the sense to realize that when he grabbed my boob.”

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:46 pm

Trish from Canada

I agree, we just got together in June. We are fighting a battle that has had no real resistance since NOW, PP, and the rest of the feminist groups gave in to the “Roe” manipulation. We are not fighting a losing battle, but it will never be easy or quick.

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murphy 12.07.08 at 12:48 pm

What sort of name Carol?

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carol 12.07.08 at 12:48 pm

I think that a name change could bring more clarity to the purpose and possibly attract and unite more groups. Many press accounts described PUMA as People United my Ass, not People United means action.
A name change could clear any misconceptions or baggage.
I want to add that I really respect what happened here and I would hate to see it disapate. sp? This contry is in serious trouble as we are losing our democracy. How to compete with pay to play political governance is the question.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 12:49 pm

Hillary2008: Exactly. One of my frustrations is that few realize how it was back in the good old days. One of the only good things to come out of how women have been treated during this election cycle is that younger women can understand better where the movement came from. It was ugly!

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carol 12.07.08 at 12:50 pm

Independent democratic Party
Reform Democratic Party
Democratic women of america
I don’t know but something that is serious and communicates a political group that would be a force to be dealt with

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:52 pm

carol 12.07.08 at 12:48 pm
I think that a name change could bring more clarity to the purpose and possibly attract and unite more groups. Many press accounts described PUMA as People United my Ass, not People United means action.
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Oh, I see what you’re saying. The trade-off would be having to establish a new brand and all that that entails. Puma is a brand that has gained somm recognition over the past 6 months. I think it would be easier to build and redefine the existing brand. Your point is well taken though.

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cjv 12.07.08 at 12:54 pm

hillary2008

Yup! Been in corporate America my entire career having similar circumstances that were at times frightening. Going up the corporate ladder proving to ultimately end up with so so results as I refused to put up with ‘their’ shit. Fortunately, there are a few (real men) out there that support will you for who you are and what your skills can bring to a company, but it’s still a minority in that respect. Now comes along the age discrimination……Geesh. All I can is thank goodness I have other things in my life that brings great fun and satisfaction that I didn’t have to dwell on that crap as much anymore, or else go insane with it.
Yet, that doesn’t mean I will stand aside either. I made a promise to myslef a long time ago to continue with the fight on these types of issues and I feel that PUMAPAC is really the right place to be.
Hey lurkers! It’s just a time out (for many different reasons)! We will be here when you are all ready to return!

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 12:54 pm

Murphy: Liked your suggested response, especially the last sentence! Are you a young person or an old warhorse like me?

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 12:55 pm

Annabelle #3
I’m sure it wouldn’t take much to photo shop that breast-cupping arm down low, if you know what I mean…
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Done. Forwarded to Murphy.

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gojoyknocks 12.07.08 at 12:56 pm

I take great pride in knowing that information I gleaned from this site led directly to a half dozen pledged delegates signatures on the 300 petition. They also held fast in Denver voting for Hillary in the roll call. A thank you to all Puma.

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carol 12.07.08 at 12:56 pm

One thing a name change could do is move away from the campaign and into the future. Just the act of PUMA uniting with other groups could bring a new round of press attention and new respect. It would also signal that we are moving forward and are VERY serious abour real change.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:58 pm

Carol

I understand how you feel, however, the msm knew that we were not party unity my ass. Even Greta knew. They liked that better, they are morons looking for ratings. They will never be there for us unless they can try to make us look like fools. I applied the serenity prayer sooooo often during this election. It kept me sane! I am not a religious person, but life has a way of paying back. Time takes time. We keep our focus and change the world one person at a time.Look at OJ.

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pa dem 12.07.08 at 1:02 pm

First of all, I blame the conservative media for the mess we are in. During the campaign, we were going up to Republicans who had no idea of anything that was said during the primaries. They simply weren’t paying attention. However, all the conservative media was constantly blasting McCain. So many Republicans chose not to vote because McCain would “ruin the reputation of their party” as a moderate.

Democrats *were* paying attention during the primary, and there was a considerbly large defection than was seen in normal years. We PUMAs countered the Republicans that didn’t vote, and I still believe that we will have an usurper claiming to be President until his citizenship is clearly resolved.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 1:06 pm

carol

To those who hate us, we will always be “dried up old bitches”. To those who believe in are cause, and there are many, they know who we are. We will always be known as puma’s no matter what! We have been branded. This is a good thing. Believe me, when a women stands up for herself now, she is referred to as a puma! I werar this as a badge of honor, we did not drink the kool-aid. If you get down, rent Billie Jean Kings bio and documentary. She was the original puma!

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kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 1:08 pm

carol #43:

You do not speak for me. “We” includes me, and I don’t identify with your statements. As far as your first point, defending Hillary and Bill against the “liberal media”:

-Oh yes we did defend Hillary and Bill against the liberal media. I personally responded to thousands of articles and websites as a Hillary Rapid Responder and Puma Responder. I wrote letters to the editor; I started a blog calling OUT the media; I constantly called and emailed and complained. I blogged day and night defending Hillary and Bill against the biased media. Oh, and people physically protested against the media, in NYC, and in Denver, and in LA, and in states all around the country. On top of that, nearly everyone boycotted/ turned off certain programs and stations, like MSNBC. And people took out ads, and started pacs, and started women’s groups to defend Hillary against bias in the media–people took time out of their lives to get on TV, on the national stage, to defend Hillary against the disgusting media. People made important youtube videos *proving* the bias. People have published articles on it. People have started radio shows to combat the Obot-media. On and on–yes! Pumas defended Hillary and Bill non-stop! To the point that pundits got suspended or had to apologize or got demoted–AND, the worst of all: they became *jokes*…destroying the credibility of their word and their profession overall. More Americans than EVER now see the MSM as slanted and stupid and mean and lying.

Did you think PUMA was going to entirely shift the sexist culture of our COUNTRY in only a few months? Seriously? It’s ingrained. It’s IN all media. It’s IN everything. We are fighting against brain matter and circuits in the brains of millions and millions of people who are brainwashed and cultivated to think that sexism and misogyny is ok–even many women think it’s ok. Also, TV is the teacher, mommy and daddy and God in this country. People don’t question a LOT of what is on TV. Do you know what kind of mind-**** it is for people to GRASP that the MSM is a LIE or that the MSM has an ulterior motive and agenda? Some people *can’t* understand it, ok? Because they are STUPID. Sometimes you can’t fix STUPID.

Do you not know we are dealing with American Zombies and Obots? How exactly is it possible to completely control the “liberal media” and the masses who absorb it, and only in a few months? Whatever answer you give, we have *done it.* And we will continue to fight against the crooked biased propaganda.

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carol 12.07.08 at 1:11 pm

Off topic and I hope this isn’t inappropriate or offensive, but I recently took advantage of an offer from the U of Mich Alumni site to offer discounts from my web site to other UM Alums. I would be happy to make a similar offer to any PUMAs who are shopping for special gifts.
It was 10%off and free shipping, but on my book, The Dog Lovers’ Guide to the Good Life i will do 2 for 1 with free shipping or halfprice plus media ship. http://www.saxestudio.com

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 1:11 pm

what kat in your hat said.

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TrishfromCanada 12.07.08 at 1:25 pm

Carol:
I agree with most of this. I checked this site daily before the election for information and moral support. I still ckeck the site but there is not much information and to what prupose?

carol 12.07.08 at 1:11 pm

Off topic and I hope this isn’t inappropriate or offensive, but I recently took advantage of an offer from the U of Mich Alumni site to offer discounts from my web site to other UM Alums. I would be happy to make a similar offer to any PUMAs who are shopping for special gifts.

looks like you found your purpose.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 1:26 pm

kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 1:08 pm 61

I really do admire the way your mind works and the way you express your thoughts. So much that, occasionally, I copy and save them for future reading. Like this time. I hope you don’t ‘mind’.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 1:29 pm

I believe the people who we lost were women. Women conform too easily to be liked. It is in the DNA. We are the freaks, the ones who don’t revert to type. I am now hearing from my gay friends that if the DNC does not speak to their needs, they will also go their separate ways. As I have always stated, the dems play the same “gay marriage game” as the republicans. I am hoping that we can somehow merge our efforts with the gay community.

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carol 12.07.08 at 1:30 pm

Trish from Canada

No. That is not my purpose. I have been coming to this site for months with no purpose other that those cired above.
Just sitting here working and thought it would be nice to give a friends and family price to anyone here who wanted it.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 1:32 pm

Kat in your hat

ditto :)

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ChristineRI 12.07.08 at 1:32 pm

What’s the point of having women rise politically if they, themselves, are still afraid/unable to voice opinions/outrage at the negative ways in which women are depicted and regarded? The excuses, which range from ‘she doesn’t want to open herself to ridicule’ to ‘she doesn’t want to be seen as not being able to pay hardball’, are holy horseshit. When you are the object of ridicule, it’s time to play hardball!

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zephyr 12.07.08 at 1:34 pm

Nice to see some new “old” posters here today!!!!

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 1:36 pm

Texas Tigress~~~~ This last line of your also left an indelible fottprint in my mind.

“When we can stop projecting our individual experiences onto other women , then we can view positive resolutions as they apply to our entire gender rather than our individual selves .”

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kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 1:37 pm

“fail fail fail…”

what sort of language is this? what sort of outlook? how is this helpful? why is only the negative being valued? what sort of survival skills are these? embracing and fostering the word “fail” and then accepting it as reality is the antithesis to evolution and progress. what is this? give up talk? i suck talk? this is loser talk. this is weak talk. this is demoralizing and spiteful. this is insensitive. this is pathetic talk. fail? quitting is failing. trying is not failing. why would anyone try to put down people who fight? is this leveling? someone feels weak and they can’t rise up, so they want to bring others down to them? i’m staying where I am. and I am no failure.

you can look at what needs to be improved with a critical eye, but when you ignore the positives, then your criticism becomes void. there is more than one perspective. you have to look at the whole picture.

BBL.

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ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 1:38 pm

Mountainsong Two Spirits

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Berdache

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 1:38 pm

ChristineRI

Acceptance is a part of recovery. We must “recover” from the myth that we are “equal” in the eyes of the law.

We must “recover ” from the idea that we can be anything that we wnat to be.

We take one step forward, and get punched back 5.

When you hear good people, enlightened folks tell you to “just get over it”, he is doing a good job, about a man who is actually in between jobs and has not done anything, you realize that you are on your own. The collective consciousness has not caught up with us yet. We will be here when and if that ever happens. It may not even be in our lifetime, it takes time. We are doing the best that we can.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 1:39 pm

footprint*, even

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cjv 12.07.08 at 1:41 pm

ChristineRI

“When you are the object of ridicule, it’s time to play hardball!”

That is what is so important to do! Or else this crap will just contunue! And I feel we need to realize that changes will not happen overnight. Just be persistant and don’t give up! I think we also need to allow when the frustations come along but avoid coining it as defeat, rather, begin to analyze it and to learn where we can get better.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 1:42 pm

ChristineRI: Having read Murphy’s suggested response above, perhaps she might have responded to some degree, however, the most important thing I think she can do for all women is do the best darned job as SOS that’s ever been done. Had she really gone off on the oaf, I can just hear the MSM, et al, questioning her suitability to be SOS.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 1:43 pm

FYI
email from goofsmom to BC/NBC and actioncenter@pumapac.org :

Good Morning Team,
Busy day here at the Goofs household. We are getting Goofsdad ready to leave for DC tonight. Goofsdad has been invited to the Press Club news conference at 1:30 PM EST Monday.
If you didn’t already know this is an important news conference. A number of the attorneys representing the BC/Natural Born Citizen cases will be speaking to
the MSM Press Club. It was made clear to Goofsdad in a conference call on Thursday that a number of the attorneys would appreciate his presence there, considering the fact that he has been one of the main voices on the radio speaking out in support of
their many cases.

Also, during the trip Goofsdad will accompany Dr. Orly Taitz to the Supreme Court and be present when she files her case Lightfoot v. Bowen with the Court…

In the mean time, please read this attached article from the Canada Free Press. It sums up the importance of what is being done and how it effects the Constitution.

http://canadafreepress.com/index.php/article/6789

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 1:44 pm

ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 1:38 pm Yes, thank you, Ladyhawke :) I would agree that describes me, as perfectly as anything can.

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Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 1:49 pm

Hillary’s response to this picture is weak and stupid. She needs to take a strong position now, condemning this as an act against all women. I suggest we put Chelsey’s picture in that shot, and send it to Bill and Hillary, with a prowl to Hillary to take a stand on this. Her inactions are reprehensible!! What does she have to lose now, she is already the SOS elect? I bet she would have something to say if we blasted Chelsey’s picture on there!!!!

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 1:50 pm

Carol,
My two cents on changing the name and purpose of the PAC.

Changing our name from PUMAs because the media wanted to attach the “Party Unity our Ass” plays into their lack of authentic reporting. Many of us called ourselves PUMAs, and didn’t care if that tag was put on the meaning because there was no party unity in the election and the proposed unity on teevee was a sham.

There are some tight groups here, for many reasons, some folks bond more on their own experiences, some met in Denver and bonded, some bonded because they are on the blog day in and day out no matter what happens. That is a good thing to the group, more of that needs to happen instead of less. If no bonding is better, it would be called a HuffPO type of blog.

Purpose of the pac is in flux right now, we knew it would be at the end of the election. Murphy and the PUMAs decided that the pac would work on changing what corruption happened during the election and would help fix the Democratic party so in the future PUMAs would have a voice again and could go back to the Democratic party were the ‘older’ pumas came from. Then things took a twist, Denver was a sham roll call no matter how hard we tried to support the delegates and Hillary.

McCain picked Sarah and some of the PUMAs saw she and her family were trashed the same way Hillary was, some PUMAs defended her as a women and yet not as a candidate.

Then the blog opened up to Republicans and I think this is where the idea of fixing the Democratic Party went off the rails. Republican’s are not interested in fixing the Democratic Party and the only common ground on the blog between the two parties was the sexism, bias MSM and common anger at the Slick Rick Obama.

I think some of the disjointed goals of the blog are natural as we try to define our direction and more people leaving the blog is due to that struggle.

If the blog decides to become just a place to point out sexism and doesn’t keep the main goal of fixing the Democratic party, many more may leave. Changing the name or starting a third party won’t make it stronger.

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invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 1:52 pm

failed?? no, I believe you are mistaken…My for-pay-job is sales…I do it a bit differently then most…I tend to get customers to come to me instead of me going after them…(mostly because my own insecurities would make it difficult for me to approach strangers)

I use this same technique to talk to strangers about Puma…I have a make-shift puma sticker on my laptop, for all to see, people come to me at airports, after meetings in boardrooms, pretty much anywhere I have had my laptop out …and ask me about that sticker…….DWP is right, we are a brand… And because strangers have heard about us they are curious ……yep, some think it is “party unity my ass” but that is ok, gives me the opening to explain how much more we are then just “the not falling in line group”….. I am not ashamed of our past…and the last thing I want to do is hide from it….I can not come up with one time where we were in the “wrong” side of any line. I am unapologetic for any of our actions and our history…quite the opposite.. I’m very proud of PUMA and everything we have done…..The conversations of what we have done and fought for in the past are a perfect opening for what we are doing now, and how that stranger can get involved…
There is no failure here folks…there is just alot more work to do…Use our history to our benefit ..there is nothing in that history to hide from…it is a sound foundation to built upon.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 1:52 pm

What about the perpetrators and their enablers (OBAMA).
If Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton isn’t saying what you want her to say, stand up and say it for yourself.

Yeah, the woman was sexually assaulted but didnt say what I wanted her to say, so let’s sexually assault her daughter now, and see how the woman likes that!

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 1:53 pm

Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 1:49 pm

Hillary’s response to this picture is weak and stupid. She needs to take a strong position now, condemning this as an act against all women. I suggest we put Chelsey’s picture in that shot, and send it to Bill and Hillary, with a prowl to Hillary to take a stand on this. Her inactions are reprehensible!! What does she have to lose now, she is already the SOS elect? I bet she would have something to say if we blasted Chelsey’s picture on there!!!!
—————-
How about we put your picture on it and mail it around? Stop the blame game with Hillary already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We have spend two days on this subject and every time something comes up in the news that is sexist against Hillary the darts towards Hillary’s responsibility starts again!
Stop it!

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goofsmom 12.07.08 at 1:53 pm

Mountainsong

You have mail…

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 1:54 pm

DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 1:52 pm

What about the perpetrators and their enablers (OBAMA).
If Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton isn’t saying what you want her to say, stand up and say it for yourself.

Yeah, the woman was sexually assaulted but didnt say what I wanted her to say, so let’s sexually assault her daughter now, and see how the woman likes that!
——–
Yea Dances!!!!!!!!!!!!

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goofsmom 12.07.08 at 1:54 pm

Dances

Ditto….

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kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 1:55 pm

Re-wire and Re-Map the brain! When you find a problem, and you complain about it, don’t just get angry or sad. Find the solution–find a way to fight against the problem or fix it.

Make the brain simultaneously connect “problem” with “problem solving.” Don’t just complain or Question. Answer. Then Do.

Motivate your mind.

XYZ sucks. Fine. So what do you want to do about it?

**
Now, I am going to go eat lunch. Why? Because I am hungry.

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taggles1 12.07.08 at 1:55 pm

Why are people still discussing what Hillary’s response should be?

Isn’t the real question, “What is Barack Obama’s response?”

Hillary has to meet with male leaders all over the world and here in her own country Obama’s head speechwriter is grabbin her tit and another hack is forcing a beer down her throat?

What is his fuckin response?

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 1:58 pm

Gotcha, goofsmom :)

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Pumas Unleashed 12.07.08 at 1:58 pm

Oh-Oh- Goofsmom..

Better bookmark this pdf for reading as an insight into what the plan was all along for Obama’s non-citizenship argument should it come up during the campaign or post election, pre-Inauguration…
My comments on the pdf..

Stand alone pdf created in 04′ for Obama’s benefit.

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murphy 12.07.08 at 2:00 pm

VTcat #54 — I’ll be 40 in February — so that makes me in the middle I think. Too old to be young and too young to be old.

i feel old though. in a good way.

the thing that fascinates me about Hillary is that I think she’s had what I like to call (or what V. Woolf called and I picked up as a perfect motto) the “habit of freedom” for a very long time — going back to her college days. She is for herself and her agenda. She does not necessarily see herself as a role model or, even more difficult, a symbol of all women or for all women.

This is very tricky because of course she IS a role model and she IS a symbol. The existence of Hillary Clinton and what it means for American women is different from what it means for Hillary Clinton.

She may not have had yet had the opportunity or wielded enough power of her own to be more than just herself yet. And when I say “just herself” that implies quite a lot. Being just myself, for myself and my agenda, is very rare, extremely rare, for women.

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Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 2:01 pm

The reason Hillary needs to respond is because the damange was done to her. I learned that if you ignore this behavior, it will only continue, and stronger the next time. If it had been done to me, You bet I would respond, and strongly. In the corporate world, I did respond, and strongly. I had one of my employees call me a “f… b… once, and only once. I took him outside, alone, just he and I, and I made it clear I would never accept this behavior or this language. It did not not happen again…

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:01 pm

taggles1 12.07.08 at 1:55 pm
Why are people still discussing what Hillary’s response should be?
Isn’t the real question, “What is Barack Obama’s response?”
————————
No goddamned kidding! It’s almost as if they are accessories to the freakin’ crime.
‘maroons’.

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 2:03 pm

Carol, one more time from Kat that puts it so well………..

kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 1:08 pm

carol #43:

You do not speak for me. “We” includes me, and I don’t identify with your statements. As far as your first point, defending Hillary and Bill against the “liberal media”:

-Oh yes we did defend Hillary and Bill against the liberal media. I personally responded to thousands of articles and websites as a Hillary Rapid Responder and Puma Responder. I wrote letters to the editor; I started a blog calling OUT the media; I constantly called and emailed and complained. I blogged day and night defending Hillary and Bill against the biased media. Oh, and people physically protested against the media, in NYC, and in Denver, and in LA, and in states all around the country. On top of that, nearly everyone boycotted/ turned off certain programs and stations, like MSNBC. And people took out ads, and started pacs, and started women’s groups to defend Hillary against bias in the media–people took time out of their lives to get on TV, on the national stage, to defend Hillary against the disgusting media. People made important youtube videos *proving* the bias. People have published articles on it. People have started radio shows to combat the Obot-media. On and on–yes! Pumas defended Hillary and Bill non-stop! To the point that pundits got suspended or had to apologize or got demoted–AND, the worst of all: they became *jokes*…destroying the credibility of their word and their profession overall. More Americans than EVER now see the MSM as slanted and stupid and mean and lying.

Did you think PUMA was going to entirely shift the sexist culture of our COUNTRY in only a few months? Seriously? It’s ingrained. It’s IN all media. It’s IN everything. We are fighting against brain matter and circuits in the brains of millions and millions of people who are brainwashed and cultivated to think that sexism and misogyny is ok–even many women think it’s ok. Also, TV is the teacher, mommy and daddy and God in this country. People don’t question a LOT of what is on TV. Do you know what kind of mind-**** it is for people to GRASP that the MSM is a LIE or that the MSM has an ulterior motive and agenda? Some people *can’t* understand it, ok? Because they are STUPID. Sometimes you can’t fix STUPID.

Do you not know we are dealing with American Zombies and Obots? How exactly is it possible to completely control the “liberal media” and the masses who absorb it, and only in a few months? Whatever answer you give, we have *done it.* And we will continue to fight against the crooked biased propaganda.

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murphy 12.07.08 at 2:03 pm

oh and i agree with Billie Jo — the important thing here is what is obama’s response?

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Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 2:03 pm

Yes, Obama should respond also. But I find that most men do not. If they can get away with not doing anything, they will. It is a rare event, and truly heroic, to have a man confront this kind of behavior

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goofsmom 12.07.08 at 2:05 pm

Dances, #78

Thank you for posting the Team email here… I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate, considering it was not on the thread topic… (((Hugs)))

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:07 pm

Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 2:01 pm
The reason Hillary needs to respond is because the damange was done to her.
————–
She’s been the target of this crap for 16+ years…
she isn’t damaged. Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton doesn’t “need” to do anything. It is you who “needs” her to do something for you.

If you witnessed 2 men beating up and then leaving a woman on the street, would you demand that she get up and fight, because that’s what she “needs” to do, or would step in and do it for her?

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taggles1 12.07.08 at 2:10 pm

Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 2:03 pm

You so easily accept how a man is, but a woman you have no understanding?

It’s her fault for not speaking up.

I will say again, I would hate to be around this board when someone posts that a rape victim does not want to testify.

That really is it for me now.

Have a good day.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:10 pm

goofsmom 12.07.08 at 2:05 pm
Dances, #78
Thank you for posting the Team email here… I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate, considering it was not on the thread topic… (((Hugs)))
———————-
It was short and informative, and the blog was slow enough that I thought it might be okay. Didnt realize you were around either. Also thought you might be reluctant to brag on Goofsdad.
I also posted it in the PumaPAC BC/NBC Forum.

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Pumas Unleashed 12.07.08 at 2:10 pm

The Obama camp needed a distraction away from the fact, we are in a Constitutional Crisis, because Obama is for all intents and purposes by his omission and silence does NOT qualify under the Constitution to be a US President.

If they can busy us worrying about the groping of a cardboard cut-out representing Hillary…Well, alrighty then! Mission accomplished!

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 2:11 pm

Good morning, PUMAs. Am I still welcome to post here? I’m not sure, but I think I may have inadvertantly set off a firestorm last night, with my comments on HRC. I know many who think I’m too judgmental about what she has done and is doing now, but damn it, she has the world’s attention, and she has clout, and she doesn’t use it, not the way she needs to use it. As I said before, she’s a politician, first and foremost, and her actions have shown that undeniably. For anyone who thinks I’m too young to understand what she’s gone through, you’re mistaken. While I’m not a senior citizen, I’m no youngster, despite having young kids; I’ll be 48 next birthday. So, I’ve faced some stuff myself, especially when I did my hitch in the Army back in the early ’80’s. And bunches of other times, going through law school, opening my own practice in a small town that was filled with rednecks who still thought women should stay home and keep their mouths shut. But I’ve always fought back. When I was in high school, I signed up for an elective called Vocational Agriculture. No girl had ever done that before and I was told I wasn’t allowed to take the class, because I was female. I raised hell, had a meeting with the principal, and by the time it was over, I was the first girl ever in the history of our high school to take VoAg. Was I resented? Hell, yes. Did I care? No. I boldfaced it and eventually, after a lot of grumbling and mumbling, the boys accepted me. The next year, that class was flooded with girls and the boys got over it. I know, big deal, a class in a small town high school. But I just tell you all that to let you know that I’m willing to lay it on the line, get aggressive and in their faces, and live with the consequences. And I have very little power. So, when a woman with the kind of power that HRC has, lays down, tucks her tail and gives belly, of course I’m angry. Appeasement time is long over. It’s time to get mean and loud, in whatever way we can manage. No more nicey-nicey, no more apologists.
Oh, I have always thought that this election was the start of PUMA, not the end. A bucket of cold water in the faces of slumbering warriors. Time to wake up and fight.

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catsden 12.07.08 at 2:12 pm

Obama at the party photo(shopped) at the catsden.wordpress.com

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EWard 12.07.08 at 2:12 pm

Response to Lorey #15

I disagree with your post that Puma Pac did not do everything in their power to defeat BO. This group and others were on the frontlines telling the truth about this fraud. However, journalists and corrupt money played a big part in his selection.

I had three intelligent friends tell me that Palin was unqualified to be the Vice-President. These friends are by trade a financial planner, CPA, and an attorney. When I went into detail about the caucus fraud, present votes, illegal campaign donations, etc., there were normally two reactions. First, why haven’t we heard this before or a silent response.

The corrupt and abusive Fourth Estate played a major part in elevating BO to the Presidency. When intelligent and caring voters in the country are listening to propaganda, it is hard to get our message out.

Fast forward to the post election period and read and hear the spin about his appointments. Where is the scrutiny and investigation about his campaign platform and agenda? It is all about how these appointments make him “appear” great. What a bunch of garbage!

I have no idea why HRC accepted the SOS position. However, Samantha Powers is back and now he want to elevate the UN position to a Cabinet position. Even if HRC does a superb job, she will not receive credit because the media is working for BO.

Until the Fourth Estate wakes up and starts reporting the truth this nation will continue to go downhill.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:13 pm

Hillary, we’ll take it form here.” –D. Murphy

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:13 pm

“from”

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 2:14 pm

murphy
the thing that fascinates me about Hillary is that I think she’s had what I like to call (or what V. Woolf called and I picked up as a perfect motto) the “habit of freedom” for a very long time — going back to her college days. She is for herself and her agenda. She does not necessarily see herself as a role model or, even more difficult, a symbol of all women or for all women.

This is very tricky because of course she IS a role model and she IS a symbol. The existence of Hillary Clinton and what it means for American women is different from what it means for Hillary Clinton.

She may not have had yet had the opportunity or wielded enough power of her own to be more than just herself yet. And when I say “just herself” that implies quite a lot. Being just myself, for myself and my agenda, is very rare, extremely rare, for women.
———
There is a big difference in someone working for the people, and someone like obie that works for themselves.
Obama is all about his image, his ego runs the show.
Hillary is all about working for the people, darting between the bullets that are shot at her daily to stay alive and get her ‘work’ for the people done.
PUMAs can’t force her to be the Woman Symbol for their own sake. Hillary isn’t about ego, she is mother, daughter, wife and hard working woman for the country she loves.
Media sees her has hard because she is a survivor, a fighter for getting the work done, not as a symbol.
Did Mother Teresa worry about being a symbol……….nope, she worried about the poor she tried to save and about keeping her charity work alive.

Maybe these two women are so admired because they do not take on the roll of symbol and represent the women in all of us that keeps getting knocked down and standing up and doing the job to support and love people in our own lives against all odds.

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Puff 12.07.08 at 2:14 pm

I am here and have not left. I have been reading the posts. I read them most everyday but have not posted a comment. I just felt I needed time after the election to come out of my depression and so much I read makes me more depressed. I can’t say enough how upset I was when “that one” won. As for Hillary and the boys, I really think if she doesn’t take a stand, it does little good for all of us to. I really always thought she had balls but I am beginning to wonder. She needed to stick up for herself in the primarys and again now.
I am digusted with the media to no end. I stopped watching tv and also listening to talk radio. Just have to take a break.
I did all I could to help McCain win. Lost friends, some family etc. The hope dope was really in veins and no amount of reason was going to change this. Gee, I hate that word change. I can’t look at BO or MO’s faces on TV, they both make me sick.
I tell everyone now that I am in the resistance unit and will not go down without a fight. Some of my so-called friends sent me sympathy cards after the election! Just sick to death of the whole thing and so sad that this empty suit will be running our country. Nope, not ready to join in the blog yet but I do the prowls when they come across my email.
HOPE you all have a wonderful Sunday afternoon. Gee, that’s another word I have come to hate.

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goofsmom 12.07.08 at 2:14 pm

Pumas Unleashed,

I have read the article. Thank you for posting your link… it is important and the attorney’s are aware of the argument.

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HP Boston 12.07.08 at 2:15 pm

hillary2008 12.07.08 at 12:35 pm

DWP

GWB was not my President.

BHO is not my President.

These men do not speak nor represent me.

—————–DITTO!————————

Anna Belle #3
Agree.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 2:18 pm

I have to run. Listen, we are all entitled to our opinions. This is a safe place for me in a world that I am having more and more trouble understanding. I love you guys.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 2:18 pm

Murphy #92: Old is good in many ways but it would surely be great to get up in the morning without all the creaking. And you’re right, I guess I am projecting myself and my experiences onto her because in her place, good or bad, I think I’d be aware of my role as a role model, but that’s just speculation as well. As for your last point, good point, being just yourself can be a life long journey.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve observed some anger here and was, at first, a little put off. Then I remembered how truly angry I was in my youth and, frankly, how enraged and frustrated I’ve been and remain during this election cycle. I’ve also realized how different, and how much the same, the issues are for young women as opposed to the battles we fought. Thanks for the conversation.

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hillary2008 12.07.08 at 2:19 pm

HP Boston :)

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PUMAbear 12.07.08 at 2:23 pm

Brian H.,
Your #347 from last thread.

I guess I’ll be the first to fire.

Hillary is the victim. Obama and his press establishment are the perpetrators. It’s as simple as that. You are blaming the victim and pouring more gas on the flames of denigration. An indignant letter to her for failing to be a proper role model.PULEEZE! Hillary gets a thousand attacks a day and can’t be expected to hone in one one for special scrutiny. Any complaint she makes well be described as whining and crying, Your efforts would have been better served writing to Obama, members of his staff and the misogynistic press, the MEN’S magazines about their shameful conduct instead of denouncing a real hero to women. A shout out to men from a man would be helpful.

If you are not or were not a Hilary supporter then your mean spirited letter on “behalf” of her supporters is misguided.

p.s. “kiss my grits” from your yesterday post was cute. Thanks, but no thanks.

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Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 2:23 pm

Okay – enough of discussions on what Hillary should or should not do. Or what Obama should or should not do. I am just speaking from experience, that this kind of behavior needs to be stopped at the source. I do not need anything from Hillary, and I do not condone men’s behavior. To me, I was stating what I have seen to be true. When I experienced this kind of behavior at work, I learned quickly that I needed to take care of it myself. Did I like the fact that men did not help or take sides, of course not. Could I change that, and keep the fraternity behavior under control, no! Perhaps Hillary does not need to do anything. Hillary is still a woman to be admired, but if I were her, I would handle this situation differently. I was faced with this many times, and I took strong positions to curtail it and support the young woman who were also experiencing this behavior in the workforce. This is the only thing that worked.

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goofsmom 12.07.08 at 2:24 pm

Dances,

You are so awesome… thanks for posting to the Documenting “O” forum also…

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carol 12.07.08 at 2:25 pm

Billie Jo

I also did the puma prowls every day and did all that I could to help Hillary and work against Obama.
I was responding to those who worry that the blog is losing people and who questioned why that was and what might be done about it.
I work in a very competitive filed full of rejection, but have been successful. Those artists that I know who are defensive and resistant to change and feedback have not generally fared as well.
Please don’t take this as a personal attack. I believe that PUMA has been hugely successful. Kudos to all those who made it so. The question for the PUMA leadership is what now? What kind of organization will it be or become. How far beyond the blog sphere will it go?

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TexasTigress 12.07.08 at 2:27 pm

MTN- thanks for your comment on my post #16 .
I’m kind of trying to work all of this out as I go along .
I’m trying to step back and see things (even this blog) as a part of the whole .
I was affraid that what I said only made sense to me :)

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TexasTigress 12.07.08 at 2:29 pm

murphy 12.07.08 at 2:03 pm

oh and i agree with Billie Jo — the important thing here is what is obama’s response?

________________________________________________
What is PUMA’s response ?
I saw that Dances posted the quick list ,and I thought that was a positive step .

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EWard 12.07.08 at 2:32 pm

Hypocrisy of Obama and the Fourth Estate

The economy seems to be the #1 issue in the media. Yet, BO is spending $240 million on 7 days of Inauguration festivities while saying the economy is going to get worse. This is obscene! However, do we have the press reporting the discrepancies between his spending and our bad economy? No, they are too busy kissing his a@@!

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HP Boston 12.07.08 at 2:36 pm

Mary Puma 12.07.08 at 1:49 pm

NOT!

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pa dem 12.07.08 at 2:36 pm

One of Hillary’s accomplishments that I had completely forgotten about: White House Smoke Free Zone

http://www.reuters.com/article/politicsNews/idUSTRE4B61GF20081207

Website http://www.cigaraficionado.com says Gerald Ford, who served from 1974-77, was the last U.S. president to use tobacco on a regular basis. The White House no-smoking rule was imposed by former First Lady Hillary Clinton, now Obama’s nominee for secretary of state.

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kat in your hat 12.07.08 at 2:37 pm

carol #118:

Can you please answer instead of just questioning? What solutions do you have, or what definite steps do you personally want to take? We are all leaders, so you can lead too. Do you have any substantive plan for action that we can agree upon and work together on? I’ve come up with specific “next step” ideas, as well as others. I’d be open to hearing what you are interested in. Then we’d have to figure out if it is feasible and effective.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 2:41 pm

goofsmom 12.07.08 at 1:53 pm
You have mail back! :)

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BillieJo 12.07.08 at 2:41 pm

carol
Billie Jo

I also did the puma prowls every day and did all that I could to help Hillary and work against Obama.
I was responding to those who worry that the blog is losing people and who questioned why that was and what might be done about it.
————
If you did the prowls with us then you know how hard we all worked.

I don’t see the PUMA movement as weak at all. Murphy mentioned that 9 million Democrats and Independents that supported Hillary did not vote for BO, that is huge. It would have worked, except 20% of the Republican’s did not vote! I blame BO’s win on the Republican’s and not on the PUMAs.

I think each of us has the hopes of where we want the pac to go, but Murphy needs to go with the majority of the blog to make it work. That may cause some to drift away, maybe others to join.

I think the main thing we need to do is not expect someone else to do the work for us, no symbol seeking Hero…but us. We are still fighting against the odds when the media has their own agenda. Maybe the door will open to our issues when Obama takes the reins and the love affair of the obots starts to fade. It is just a matter of time before the left wing and AA’s realize they were used for their votes.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 2:44 pm

I think this article aptly shows what we are really up against:

http://canadafreepress.com/index.php/article/6789

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bqueen 12.07.08 at 2:44 pm

I’ve read most of these posts but not all, so if I repeat something someone else pointed out…

Obama’s response: Has Obama EVER responded to misogyny? Nyet. I remember 1 time: nappy headed hos (and he probably was responding to the nappy headed part, not hos…)

Hillary’s response: if people are still bothered by her non-response, or her associate’s stupid response, why not continue to hash it out? We’ll never know what she’s truly thinking…and she’s certainly done 100 fold for all women more than most of us will accomplish in our lifetimes. Maybe she’s just tired of fighting at the moment. She knows obi won’t fire the jerk, so maybe she’s thinking “whatever…”

The Name: Keep PUMA. The general population finally recognizes it! Plus the pawprint is such a clear and stunning Logo…

The Fotos: I liked the one of Michelle, just to see if anyone in Barack’s camp (like Obama maybe?) gets po’d…but in general I cringe to see any woman’s face on that cardboard. Lowering the hand to the groin and putting Obi’s face on it isn’t the same. 2 guys groping a woman and getting her drunk, grabbing her hair and laughing about it all are the visuals of the beginning of a gang rape. It horrifies me.

That’s, for me, the difference between the “demeaning black” Obama images – they are not degradation coupled with implied violence.

The MSM keeps calling this “frat antics”. I was told by a student in Edinboro University that high school girls living near Penn State have to take self defense courses. What a great idea, right? Unfortunately it’s because so many Penn U boys are rapists and gang rape (more than 1 guy) happens a lot. So yeah, the guys were acting like frat boys, but someone needs to explain to the general public exactly what that means.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 2:48 pm

Oops!!! I did try to stop that!!! I’m sorry.

Goofsmom sent e this article which I think aptly shows what we are really facing here in America, in re: this election as it relates to our constitution…..

The Divided States of America

http://canadafreepress.com/index.php/article/6789

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bqueen 12.07.08 at 2:49 pm

mountainsong: canada free press article had some great points like this one:

“Every elected official who is an Obama supporter should be challenged to declare whether they would support inauguration of Obama were it proven that he is not a natural born citizen. Those who would support Obama in violation of the Constitution should be targeted now for removal in the next election.”

but the author wrongly describes the case repeatedly. She needs to go to Donofrio’s site and get her facts straight! Thanks for that link.

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pooh496 12.07.08 at 2:49 pm

What puff #109 said! Also, I don’t believe we failed. We just have lot’s of time to go. The work will never be finished by any means. Thank you to all PUMAs!

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:50 pm

“…why not continue to hash it out?”
——————-
why hash out a gazillion potential scenarios / statements that paople “wish” HRC would make? To what end?
Why not plan 5 realistic actions/ Prowls © instead??

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 2:52 pm

kat in your hat: I made some suggestions ages ago and only got one or two interested responses. I feel frustrated, kind of like the “herding cats” syndrome when trying to feel out PUMA P.A.C. for “where do we go from here.” I really wish we could organize meetings in the flesh, in each state, if possible, and get to know each other personally, rather than mostly virtually. I would do my best to get there, even without much money and very little child care alternatives.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 2:52 pm

From flip flopping to back-pedaling:

Obama: Economy ‘a big problem, and it’s going to get worse

http://news.yahoo.com/s/politico/20081207/pl_politico/16279

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Pumas Unleashed 12.07.08 at 2:53 pm

goofsmom 12.07.08 at 2:14 pm

Pumas Unleashed,

I have read the article. Thank you for posting your link… it is important and the attorney’s are aware of the argument.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
goofsmom…
could you post an update on the outcome of the news conference at Pumas Unleashed. I really am curious what the reaction is…of course, no one will question the validity of Obama’s Birth status, right. That would be too much of an embarrassment for Obama to answer such a ridiculous question.

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Atoke Moon 12.07.08 at 2:55 pm

I’m a lurker. Have been since before the election. I’m speaking up now because of comments regarding a name change, which might, as others have said, clarify organizational mission. I’m just wondering if another step could come before a re-naming: a clarification of the mission of pumapac. I’ve been drawn to this blog because I’m a woman and I feel the media subjected Hilary to abuse this election cycle and has done so for years, when she shattered the public mold of “first lady.” I’m also progressive and womanist in my political and personal philosophies. At the same time I don’t agree with the prevailing thought on Obama. I voted for him in the G.E. – before I am pilloried for this, let me point out that like many life-long democrats who voted for the Republican ticket, I, too, voted on principle. I have ardently supported Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton since she was my First Lady and I think we can all agree that core values and political convictions are not interchangeable with those of Senator John McCain or Govenor Sarah Palin. I voted on the strength of my belief in core Democratic values. I resent being categorically attributed as an “Obot” a “Hopey-Changey Kool-Aid” drinker as punishment for voting Democrat. It pisses me off that I’m a marked woman. At the same time, if the energy and drive that puma has generated is driven (as it has sometimes been) toward political action on behalf of women — putting support behind women candidates for office, promoting women as shareholders in the political process, holding members of the incoming administration accountable for its actions (like the speechwriter, Favreau), becoming an alternative voice in the media — then I want in. But if all puma.pac is going to be about is Election ‘08, if the puma mission is going to be centered around Obama as opposed to the Presidency, and attacking and excluding other women like me as opposed to engaging in discourse, then there’s no reason to change your name, and their seems little reason to strive for growth as a group. What is puma about? Is it about women’s rights? Is it about ousting Obama? Villifying all his supporters? His wife? Is it about exposing media perpetrated misogyny? What, exactly, is the future here?

***I also want to point out that while the photoshopped images of Obama as a porch ornament/ shoe-shine definitely get a reaction, I think the overall representation here completly bungles the point that you’re trying to make, which (I think) isn’t so much about offensive imagery as it is about offensive and unacceptable ACTION. The image of Favreau is offensive because of what Favreau is DOING in it – violating HRC in effigy. This, to me speaks to his character, this is someone that I want nowhere near the office of the POTUS.

But you put up these images of the shoe-shine and the porch token and Favreau is gone, the statement on his casual yet brutal misogyny is gone, too. You’re trying to say (I think) is “What if the shoe was on the other foot? How would you feel?” And you set out to show us. But the message is gone – All that’s left are these caricatures of a brown person, stereotypes that cause further abuse to brown people, brown women like me (not to mention shoe-shine guys), you violate me to show me how you and HRC have been violated (as if I didn’t know that she was violated, as if, as a woman, I WASN’T violated by Favreau too!) So now all I’m looking at is (righteous) anger projected (unfairly) at other people. And with the images of Brazile and Michelle Obama,in particular, you just pay Favreau’s abuse forward. Is it impossible to make the individual here accountable for his actions without attacking other women and entire groups of other marginalized people?!

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:55 pm

Griffin
I really wish we could organize meetings in the flesh, in each state, if possible, and get to know each other personally, rather than mostly virtually.
——————–
Have you attempted to manifest that in your state?
I’m sure the Puma PAC regional morderator could help you get the word out for your state or region. Sorry, I know you’ve mentioed your general location but I can;t recall what it was.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 2:57 pm

goofsmom…
could you post an update on the outcome of the news conference at Pumas Unleashed.
——————-
Could you do the same in the Puma PAC BC/NBC Forum?
Thanks.

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lilibet 12.07.08 at 2:59 pm

I thank BillieJo and Murphy for standing up for Hillary. The argument with Mary Puma will never be won, as she does not ignore any opportunity to diss Hillayr that comes along.

Murphy:
On being old…Picture a very soon to be 83 year old lady, trnsferring a 15 lb cat from the computer chair to a lazy boy chair that rocks and has a blanket that partly rests on the floor. Well the soon to be 83 year old lady had just got up from a long nap, was still groggy and stumbled on the misplaced blanket and took a resounding crash into the door frame breaking some ribs. So now, who do you think finally really considers herself old. This happened on Friday so I have a long way to go to recovery.

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PUMAbear 12.07.08 at 3:00 pm

Maybe this is an action center thing but…..I’ve seen some real good vdeos showing the endless attacks on Hillary (attacks on women) and get them viewed by younger women. Younger women have been immunized against misogyny and believe we live in a post-feminist world.

We need to break out of the closed and ignored blog into the general public maybe with a cutting edge YouTube. Do we have ANY friends in the media.

I know this has all been thought of but…just sayin’

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 3:02 pm

Dances: I’m in Gold Bar, Washington, about an hour outside of Seattle. I’m not sure how many PUMAs there are in Washington, although I suspect that Seattlegirl, for obvious reasons, may be one of them, and maybe Mountainsong. What I really meant, though, was a PUMA-wide effort, in each of the states, on or about the same time. I realize that’s asking for a lot logistically, though, and since I’m not in charge of anything but my own life (as much as a “mere woman” can be), I haven’t made too much noise about it.

By the way, are there any West Virginians in PUMA? I’m a transplanted hillbilly and some days I’m so homesick, I could break out into a plaintive Hank Williams song. My neighbors are thankful that I haven’t. LOL.

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Atoke Moon 12.07.08 at 3:04 pm

Know, what, nevermind. It was ridiculous for me to post. Peace, all.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 3:06 pm

Griffin,
Good idea. I think one step at a time could work. Maybe you could send out a call through your regional moderator… and from that group, strategize as to making the same thing happen nation-wide.

This is the email address of your regional moderator:
west@pumapac.org

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TexasTigress 12.07.08 at 3:07 pm

LILIBET !!!!!
Oh , I hope you aren’t in too much pain . I wish you were in Texas ! I hope you get well quickly .

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 3:07 pm

You are the one you’ve been waiting for

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HP Boston 12.07.08 at 3:08 pm

lilibet 12.07.08 at 2:59 pm

——————————
Oh lilibet so sorry you are hurt, you are not old!
You are clumsy! :lol:
I am merely recovering from a cold that turned into bronchitis, compounded by my PMR which is treated with a steroid which breaks down my immune system. I am old and clumsy!

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 3:10 pm

Griffin #140: I was born in West by God Virginia, lived in Vermont, and now reside in KY about 2 hours from where I was born.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 3:12 pm

lilibet: Very sorry for your bad fall, where are you located?

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 3:14 pm

Dances: Thanks. You’re right, one step at a time. So, I just sent out a short “feeler” e-mail, as my first step.

Hey, West Virginia PUMAs! Are you out there?

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Notyoursweetie 12.07.08 at 3:16 pm

OK, I’ll bite! My answer to the quiz: the last photo is OK, because these people are Donna’s base – the young and educated. it would have not been OK if the guys were, say, working class. But since she courted the like of them while sending waves of hatred to women, I guess it’s from her homies – she should like it.
And my take on the Kennedy dynastic claims
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2008/12/07/ted-wants-caroline/

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 3:16 pm

VTCat: Yahoo! Another transplanted hillbilly? How long did you live in WV before you left?

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 3:20 pm

Okay, I’ll check back later. I promised my kids we’d make sugar cookies. Actually, they’re going to make them, while I supervise, so they can learn at least general competence in the kitchen.

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hillstheone 12.07.08 at 3:22 pm

PUMA’s it is very empowering to get together w/like-minded people. This year I connected w/PUMA’s in Portland, Denver, and last month in Atlanta GA. A few of us are about to finish a top secret prowl, haha. Well who knows what will come of it but you can’t know until you try.

Griffin I’m in Oregon & get up to Washington from time to time, usually not much farther than Olympia though. Anyway if you want to connect sometime give a shout out.

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TrishfromCanada 12.07.08 at 3:22 pm

In case anyon has been following this, the jury just gave a verdict on the first of three men accused of killing Jane Creba on boxing day three years ago.

http://network.nationalpost.com/np/blogs/toronto/archive/2008/12/07/guilty-verdict-in-creba-trial.aspx

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lilibet 12.07.08 at 3:22 pm

Thank you, TEXAS and Boston. I know Texas that if I were with you I wouldn’t be able to gt better care. AS it is, if something falls on the floor, it stays there Anyone who has had broken ribs knows excruciating the pain can be, but you do find little ploys to make it more bearable. No pain killers as yet, other than the shot they gave me at the ER. I have always tried to get along without pain killers. The one thing is the kitty litter. It is electric but t does have to be emptied. My niece emptied it for me when we came back from the hospital but I’m trying to figure out a way to lift it off the floor so that I can do it myself.
The doctor, a very nice lady, said the pets will get you every time. Her mother broke a hip stepping over her dog. Well, now I am always careful to know where the cat is before I take a step backward.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 3:25 pm

Okay. I’m out.
Going to search for the fragments of my pre-HRC, pre-Puma PAC life, and try to reassemble the better parts of it.

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VTcat 12.07.08 at 3:25 pm

Griffin:

My Mom relocated us, trying to outrun a truly dangerous husband who was also a police officer, when I was 9. No such thing as women’s shelters in those days. Funny though, being in KY just feels like home. As I said, I’m only about 2 hours from where I was born and the people are pretty much the same. Where in WV are you from?

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freddiebrown 12.07.08 at 3:25 pm

Lorey – # 15 – While I hear your comments and how you rate failure, it is still a valid comment even though not shared by others. However, leaving and becoming permanent lurkers is just like saying”I’m leaving the battle to you guys. When you’re on a winning streak, I’ll come back out to join you “? Where will our help come from if not from all of us ? Every snippy, snappy, grouchy, lazy, nasty or sweet and sappy one of us is needed if we don’t want to appear to be as one of you said “throwing darts at a battleship”.

As for attacks, I think it is good to disagree and sometimes raise our cyber voices, even get a bit belligerent depending on how passionate our thoughts. But at the end of the day, lets not threaten to leave. I’ve had my share of disagreements but if you ask me with whom, I couldn’t and wouldn’t tell cos it is not important. We go on for the greater purpose. I’m out of here for the day tantrum is fine but to threaten to leave the site is not good. Why cut off your nose to spite your face ? We are here to effect change for all the issues that is important to us (not just women’s issues) not for our fellow Puma folk friends. So keeping that in mind will make our skin a bit thicker and more tolerant of harsh climates, so we keep working (not playing) in the same sand box after the harsh words are over – because we have important work to do here.

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DancesWithPumas 12.07.08 at 3:27 pm

Lilibet
Happy pre-birthday, and many more to come!!
Speedy recovery.

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freddiebrown 12.07.08 at 3:29 pm

AND — I really think if we do like Team Sarah.org in the forums page and have little photo’s of ourselves posted next to our comments, we would, might, could be more careful of our words. Sometimes knowing that we are communicating with actual folks with actual faces do help tone things down.
P/S: I never said I was not guilty :)

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invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 3:30 pm

Dances….there was life before PUMA?????
lol…distant memory…

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bqueen 12.07.08 at 3:31 pm

“…why not continue to hash it out?”
——————-
why hash out a gazillion potential scenarios / statements that paople “wish” HRC would make? To what end?
Why not plan 5 realistic actions/ Prowls © instead??
++++++++++++++++

because it might make some women clearer as to their own reactions when something like that occurs in their life.

Action & thinking aloud on blogs don’t eliminate each other.

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hillstheone 12.07.08 at 3:32 pm

Have a great day, Dances!

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freddiebrown 12.07.08 at 3:35 pm

Hope you feel better Lillibet !
Watch out for life’s potholes.

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invalidresponse 12.07.08 at 3:36 pm

nobama picture added, a link to share with others
http://www.flickr.com/photos/think_about_it/

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lilibet 12.07.08 at 3:38 pm

DANCES:
Thank you!!!!

BOSTON: A mere bronchitis!!! If any one has had a bad case of bronchitis you know how serious it is.I do hope that your medicine kicks in and gives you a speedy recovery.

VTcat: I’m in Omaha, but don’t feel too sorry for me. My nephew and his wife live only five minutes away and they have given me instructions to keep my cell with me at all times.

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 3:38 pm

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lilibet 12.07.08 at 2:59 pm
I’m so sorry to hear of your unfortunate accident and I dope yor pain is small and your recovery swift.
I live in an apartment complex for ’seniors’ a dear friend who is your age, also fell in her apartment and is on the mend.
My next door neighbor is a frail, but feisty, 94 year old. She says she’s ‘adopted’ me as her lil sister and always refers to herself now as my “Big Sis”
At first, I didn’t like it here because I am the youngest and ‘they’ never let me forget it or claim to be ‘getting old’.
But, they are people, just like us, with the same feelings, and dreams. Many are so lonely my heart just breaks, so I try to give some tme to many of them. And they have proven to be wonderful teachers, sharing their experiences and things they’ve learned “the hard way” over the years and now I absolutely trasure and adore each and every one of them~~~even the grumpies.
Just wanted to say all that as a way of letting you know how much you are appreciated here. Get well soon, ok?

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 3:39 pm

Ooops, lol hope* even~~~not ‘dope’

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hillstheone 12.07.08 at 3:41 pm

good one invalid! But I still long to see a member of the press pull those dudes before a camera and do an interview, “WHAT were you thinking?!!,” really call them on the carpet. Along the lines of what Imus had to answer those same questions. Geeky creepy Yahoos!

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ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 3:41 pm

I’m still trying to uncover something about Obama’s mother, her passport application, his, anything. I did find this about his grandmother:
http://www.genealogybank.com/gbnk/obituaries/?lname=Dunham&fname=Madelyn&minit=&kwinc=&kwexc=&formDate=&location=HI

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hillstheone 12.07.08 at 3:43 pm

Off-topic but this song is so beautiful, I loved it in the movie “Seven Years in Tibet” w/Brad Pitt.

Isn’t it strange I finally bought it on iTunes only to discover the younger generation is listening to it, I think I read it is in the movie Twilight (which I’m not especially interested in seeing even though a friend wants me to go)…

proving I guess music is sometimes a common denominator of sorts, isn’t it?

Anyway here’s a beautiful song for whatever ails you:

Claire de lune
http://1stpiano.com/claire_de_lune_debussy.php

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hillstheone 12.07.08 at 3:44 pm

Off to take care of kid errands, BBL…

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 3:44 pm

Hi freddie :) I think that’s a great idea…….

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Changes4me 12.07.08 at 3:45 pm

Hi Puma’s,
I’ve been very busy lately with family birthdays and anniversaries,Thanksgiving, a wedding coming up, Ugh!!!

Anyway hope everyone is fine. I see people up top of this blog are worried that people are leaving but, like me maybe they are really busy.

I just wanted to see if anyone heard on Fox news today that the D. C. area government in Washington said that they are expexting 1-4 Million people for inauguration of Obama on Jan. 20, 2009 and they want to EXTEND the hours a bar can STAY OPEN from 2AM to 5AM!!!!! What!!!!!

And they mentioned four days for the extention.

Now I can’t ever remember in history when we needed the bars in Washington to extend their hours. Since when!!!!

I don’t understand and am outraged by this as one government leader has said that if they go ahead with this they will need extra police on duty. I guess this is just the beginning of things to come.

I think this web site will be very busy next year when Obama is put in office.

Trying to keep in touch,
Busy Puma

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lilibet 12.07.08 at 3:49 pm

MOUNTAINSONG:
Thank you so much. And to think, you have a great mission without even leaving your apartment complex. I am the last member alive of my immediate family so I make it a point of being near this one nephew and his wife who have been a part of my life for such a long time. When I taught In Texas I seriously thought or retiring in a community in the Highland Hill Country near Austin. But then, family won out. I so understand what it must be like for people who have lost most or all of their family members. So, it is a wonderful and compassionate work that you do to make these people feel less lonely and unloved.

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HP Boston 12.07.08 at 3:51 pm

Gee CHANGES4ME,
You must understand people will need to DRINK! MY good god 4 days of a drunken stupor seems only fitting for such a depressing event.
I am going to stay drunk myself!!

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Griffin 12.07.08 at 3:53 pm

Okay, first batch of cookies in, so I’m checking in for a moment.

hillstheone: I hope I can get to Olympia some day soon. It’s beautiful there, I love the national forest.
VTcat: I grew up in Grafton(born in Texas, though) lived all over the state during my time there, and last lived about 12 miles outside a little town called Mannington. We had some land and a log home down a holler, with about five families on a two-mile dirt road. I loved it, even if it was damned inconvenient at times. I can see why Kentucky would seem like WV, they are basically identical in their physical features.

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freddiebrown 12.07.08 at 3:53 pm

MountainSong – which is the great idea ? :) The one about posting a small photo ? They are tiny but you get a sense of who they are.

I am glad that you are there for the ladies at your apartment. I HATE seeing really senior people get the shaft in life after their work is done. Whatever happened to their kids ? Too busy? Anyway, please don’t comment as I don’t want to go off track.

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pa dem 12.07.08 at 3:57 pm

I think PUMA needs to weigh in on this. Petition to appoint Janice Schakowsky to the Illinois Senate:

http://action.firedoglake.com/page/s/Schakowsky

More info on Janice Schakowsky:

http://www.govtrack.us/congress/person.xpd?id=400360

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mountainsong 12.07.08 at 4:01 pm

freddiebrown 12.07.08 at 3:53 pm Yeya, the idea about the small photos…..

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turndownobama 12.07.08 at 4:16 pm

About lurkers etc.

Many ‘hit counters’ keep a detailed record at their site of much information about EVERYONE who opens your site, even if they don’t post anything. What site they came from last, who their ISP is, what computer system and software they’re using, much more.

With some work, it would be possible to compare that info for an old poster to info for current lurkers, or to compare current lurkers to the WHOIS info for the ‘Fritzy’ site or whatever it is.

One ‘hit counter’ with a lot of free service is
http://www.sitemeter.com/

(I’m not suggesting spending energy tracking down ‘Woodie’ as she sounded sincere to me, I’m just offering a resource for the future agaisnt serious trolls or cons.)

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AniEm 12.07.08 at 4:18 pm

Just some thoughts on some of the comments:

1. PUMA is a newborn movement and we are the midwives, whatever our gender. We need an iconoclastic forum (which is provided here) because our institutions are failing and need to re-group and re-form.

2. I would prefer PUMA to focus on empowering women politically perhaps in an alliance with The New Agenda. Both political parties have to be made accountable.

3. Personally, I am grateful to PUMA for making me aware of what a sewer the MSM is. The prowls were a necessity in helping me to express my anger. I’ve learned to avoid CNN and MSNBC and am glad to reclaim that time for myself.

4. I am also grateful for the strength demonstrated by PUMA power in the results of the last election. Obama has no mandate; neither do his supporters. We’ve left paw prints all over his messiah-complex and this is just the beginning.

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turndownobama 12.07.08 at 4:20 pm

ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 3:41 pm said: I’m still trying to uncover something about Obama’s mother, her passport application, his, anything.
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At my site ironmyvote.com scroll down and there are some very good references on Obama’s early life, his mother, etc.

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goingtoMcVote 12.07.08 at 4:33 pm

I think a lot of PUMAs have gone from posters to lurkers because of the holiday season and the lack of a deadline to fight (election day). There is a lot of holiday pressure on some to produce Martha Stewart style event (new deadline). As for me, we threw up the tree last weekend and we’re done. Simple is good. :) I’ve just had a lot going on at home keeping me away from the computer. :(

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scarlet 12.07.08 at 4:49 pm

#177

Supporting Obama

Schakowsky, who represents the 9th Congressional District in Northern Illinois, serves on the House Select Intelligence Committee; helped found the Out-of-Iraq Caucus in 2005; is a long-time Obama supporter and serves as co-chair of his campaign, endorsed Obama over a year ago, on October 2, 2007:

“Barack Obama … is the only one [running for president] who really has the capacity to send a very different signal around the world, someone who can effectively go to capitals of both our allies and our adversaries and create a new new tone that creates the space for peace.”

In RBO’s October 22, 2008, post about Obama and the radical members of Congress, we listed U.S. Representatives who are members of the Congressional Progressive Congress. This includes Jan Schakowsky.

Trevor Loudon first wrote about Schakowsky in February 2008. Recently, he mentioned Schakowsky’s husband, Robert Creamer, who is a board member, along with former SDSers, husband and wife, Paul Booth and Heather Booth (Chairman), of the Chicago Annenberg Challenge-funded Midwest Academy.

Her husband runs Camp Obama.

http://therealbarackobama.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/jan-schakowsky-obamas-radical-campaign-co-chair-and-replacement/

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TerryDo 12.07.08 at 4:55 pm

128
bqueen 12.07.08 at 2:44 pm
…………
Obama’s response: Has Obama EVER responded to misogyny? Nyet. I remember 1 time: nappy headed hos (and he probably was responding to the nappy headed part, not hos…)

The Fotos: I liked the one of Michelle, just to see if anyone in Barack’s camp (like Obama maybe?) gets po’d…but in general I cringe to see any woman’s face on that cardboard. Lowering the hand to the groin and putting Obi’s face on it isn’t the same. 2 guys groping a woman and getting her drunk, grabbing her hair and laughing about it all are the visuals of the beginning of a gang rape. It horrifies me.

I absolutely agree with you statement regarding the photo-shop of Michelle in place of Hillary.
I have emailed it to everyone asking they email it everyone they know, with the question is that how to a First Lady should be treated?…
Most people remember Hilary as the Jr. Senator from New York, or as the Democratic candidate for the presidency and forget that she was the First Lady..WTF
So, May I suggest again, for everyone to copy the photo-shop picture of Michelle, and send it to everyone on your email address with the question,
“Is it true that no matter what level and prestige a woman accomplishes, she is still subject to male obnoxiousness? Sent it to everyone and let us hope that the Obabots pick it up as a true photo, or even a possible photo. And revolt!

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TerryDo 12.07.08 at 4:57 pm

BBL, Family have arrived , time for me to get Sunday evening meal prepared and also to have more wine. :)

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Headclunker 12.07.08 at 5:08 pm

Murphy – What the FEC?

You have mail. The attached file is kind of big so I hope it goes through. It is a draft of a final complaint to the FEC about BO’s bad money. It consists of a 2 page letter, a one page summary and 63 pages of details. Feel free to embelish on the letter.

The FEC would like you to send 2 copies and the original. That should come to about 200 pages and I think we should send them all by express mail. I will cover costs with a donation – let me know how much it costs you.

BO has been very bad.

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Changes4me 12.07.08 at 5:10 pm

#174 HP Boston

I understand your need to drown your sorrows. Just hope no one gets hurt doing so.

Cheers!

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KarenWI 12.07.08 at 5:12 pm

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murphy 12.07.08 at 5:15 pm

EXCELLENT Headclunker — the mail came through just fine.

Nope, we have money in the budget to send it certified.

very exciting!

fluffer posted, take it upstairs!

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HP Boston 12.07.08 at 5:27 pm

I bless the time I lurked on Puma site, it was like coming home to Jesus for me! I became a BAP (born again Puma)and my first act was to donate. I can not remember exactly when, end of June?, signed on in July, Praise be to Pumas!!!
I picked up the site from someone posting on an MSM site as I was actively screaming my head off everywhere I could.
Am now SPAM on CNN and msnbc and ABC! I do reciprocate, they are banned in my home. No cable channels and I never go to their sites on the net!
Puma has more intelligent people than all the empty headed suits on TV, not one is worth 5 seconds of my time, lies and hate are the MSM creed.
I have learned so many things from Puma posters and Murphy is Puma Extraordinaire! She inspires me and I know she is an inspiration to many.
When she gets her dander up and reams us with a post so devastating in its stark and brutal truth, well she takes my breath away and makes me THINK!!!

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ipotter 12.07.08 at 5:59 pm

Haven’t been keeping up. Sorry. But am very glad that this site exists. Have been around off and on from the very start. Still have a hard time believing what happened in the primary and election, and still don’t believe ovomit “won”. I worked the election and did not see a win. Rules were altered; tally sheets turned in without numbers, etc. My personal experience was in a very democratic part of a very red state. The numbers in that precinct should have been a blowout for bo, but it was a tie. I was told that this precinct was almost always a reflection of the entire county. With so many dems voting repub, I don’t see how he won this very blue county or this very red state. Even when dems vote dem, rarely does a dem win here. I do believe the outcome was perdetermined, as it was in the last two elections (don’t believe Bush won either of those–ie, fl & oh) But the outcome did not surprise me.

I don’t know the answer, but I do know we have to work to find one.

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ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 6:02 pm

#103 Griffin You’re a woman I can relate to! Good for you!

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ladyhawkke 12.07.08 at 6:20 pm

I absolutely do not think the Pumas failed. Pumas did all they were asked to do. We spoke out against sexism, against BO, wrote thousands of letters and made thousands of phone calls. We had no control over the massive voter fraud and ACORN. Furthermore, McCain and Palin failed because their own party didn’t support them. We did the best we could under the circumstances. Every one of us should be proud of all we have done.

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joan of arc 12.07.08 at 6:33 pm

heard this on the blogs:

TO BE ANNOUNCED TUESDAY, or soon: Chris Matthews signed to a long-term contract at “Hardball.”

No way he can run then for senate?

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atypical 12.07.08 at 9:54 pm

Body Language
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/87421/dating-101-decode-his-body-language/
From this article, do you recognize anyone?
On-the-Rocks Body Language
He shifts in his chair or taps his fingers. These nervous ticks may make it seem like he’s just plain nervous, but if they’re done while he’s explaining himself to you, they actually indicate that he could be fibbing.
He toys with his ears or his nose. If youre guy starts toying with his ear or nose (and he doesn’t have allergies), be suspicious. When a guy is being deceptive, it’s common for blood to rush to his face. His nose and ears will get warm and begin to itch, causing him to unconsciously rub or scratch them.
He looks up and to the left. The next time you ask him a sticky question or he wants to explain himself to you, notice which way he looks. If his eyes move up to the right, he’s recalling information from his memory. If he looks up to the left, there’s a good chance that he’s inventing the answer.
He averts his eyes. Because animosity is so hard to conceal, your guy will reduce eye contact. He’s subconsciously aware that one peek into his peepers will reveal his inner grrr. For a clue as to whether he’s miffed at you or someone else, look into his eyes (since he won’t look into yours). If he stares you down the second you catch his gaze, you’re probably the object of his ire.
His jaw is tense. Check out the spot where his jaw meets his cheekbone. If his mouth is rigid and you can see his jaw flexing, it’s a sign he’s fuming.
He covers his mouth with his hand. This guy is probably lying. When he unconsciously obstructs your view of his lips, it’s a sign that he’s trying to block the truth from slipping out. In addition, he might lick his lips and look away from you — directing his eyes down and to the right.
He turns his cheek mid-convo. Occasionally averting his eyes or scanning the room is normal, but if you find yourself talking mostly to his profile, you’re in trouble.

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BrianH 12.07.08 at 10:45 pm

PUMAbear 12.07.08 at 2:23 pm

Brian H.,
Your #347 from last thread.

If you are not or were not a Hilary supporter then your mean spirited letter on “behalf” of her supporters is misguided.//
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Just can’t give up on the m-fing, huh?
My “Duh!” exclamation was mocking the observation that BO’s supporters were mostly juvenile and immature, as in, “What was your first clue?”

Sorry if I was too subtle for you.

And if “loyalty to Hillary” is the touchstone for PUMAPAC, I acknowledge that I’ll fail. But she’s an important actor in breaking lots of barriers to genuinely “fair” politics. Lots of her policies leave me cold, but that’s because I gave up on the left after they wimped out following 9/11. (I was pulling hard for Gore to win in ‘00, and came to be very grateful he didn’t.)

p.s. “kiss my grits” from your yesterday post was cute. Thanks, but no thanks.

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BrianH 12.07.08 at 10:48 pm

Oops, the “p.s. in my #198 post was “hiding below the fold” from my copy/paste. Not intended to be there as a repeat. ‘Pologies.

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BrianH 12.07.08 at 10:57 pm

bqueen 12.07.08 at 2:49 pm #130

mountainsong: canada free press article had some great points like this one:

“Every elected official who is an Obama supporter should be challenged to declare whether they would support inauguration of Obama were it proven that he is not a natural born citizen. Those who would support Obama in violation of the Constitution should be targeted now for removal in the next election.”

but the author wrongly describes the case repeatedly. She needs to go to Donofrio’s site and get her facts straight! Thanks for that link.//
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The author was describing issues picked up on by other cases, not Leo’s. There is no reference to any specific case there.

That said, Leo’s points that a) Obama Sr.’s status as a British Subject fails the “two American Citizen parents” test, and b) Obama Jr. inherited British Subject status at birth, which is when he needed to qualify as “Natural Born”, are indeed different, and make the BC and Indonesian issues secondary or “fall-back”.

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Zee 12.07.08 at 11:53 pm

#20 invalidresponse— well put:

“Still the point is, although not one of them agreed that it was just as ‘funny’ to have others in the same position as Hillary’s picture was….there was certainly no outrage of the original picture…only the altered ones……go figure…….wish just one of them would have explained exactly what methods would have worked better”

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Zee 12.07.08 at 11:59 pm

carol #43….you should check out The New Agenda…Murphy posts articles there, too. They are strictly info-based and without the cliques and banter.

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BrianH 12.08.08 at 12:06 am

murphy:
Yoiks! #201, or whatever the # would have been, was a “leaky” copy paste. Kill it! the real post I wanted is very short:
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Griffin 12.07.08 at 2:52 pm

kat in your hat: I made some suggestions ages ago and only got one or two interested responses. I feel frustrated, kind of like the “herding cats” syndrome when trying to feel out PUMA P.A.C. for “where do we go from here.” I really wish we could organize meetings in the flesh, in each state, if possible, and get to know each other personally, rather than mostly virtually. I would do my best to get there, even without much money and very little child care alternatives.//
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There is a tool that would allow 10 people to meet “virtually”. It’s $50 for the ‘lite’ version:
http://www.megameeting.com/personal.html

More powerful packages are much more, though.

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BrianH 12.08.08 at 12:10 am

carol;
Every PUMA and NObama-type site is calling for unification, almost. But the question is, who is first among equals? As is true for most such “unity” efforts, the parties each think everyone else should join THEM. Few are looking for someone else to join.

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Zee 12.08.08 at 12:20 am

#182 AniEm

Ditto, 100%!

We need the PUMApac just as is, and Murphy is working in conjunction with The New Agenda. And some PUMAs are working on secret prowls…very apt!

PUMABear, I like the idea of bringing the younger women up to speed with a viral youtube, putting the nonstop misogyny in context and all in one place.

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Zee 12.08.08 at 12:27 am

Lillibet!! So sorry about your ribs. How right that is, our pets will get us every time.

Broke my elbow last year because I tripped while carrying my dog and wouldn’t drop him…if I had we’d have both been ok (carpeted floor) but I took the fall. It is a long thing, healing bones…my doctor said my arm will always be crook now.

Cold weather makes it worse…hope you are warm!

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