“On my own I have no rights but together, as the Gulabi Gang, we have power,” Aarti Devi, 25.
“When I go to fetch water, the upper-caste people beat me, saying I shouldn’t be drinking the same water as them. But because we’re a gang, they’re scared of us and will leave us alone.
“Six months ago, a woman was raped and we went to the police station. The officers initially refused to take the complaint, but together, we were able to force the police to take action.
“We dragged the police officer from the station and beat him with our sticks.”
The group has attracted the support of an increasing number of men.
“My father is a member of the Gulabi Gang,” says Aarti.
“We are not against men. We are for the rights of everybody and against people who don’t believe in that.”
Sampat, a mother of five who was married at nine, has become a local celebrity.
Read MORE.
I am increasingly disturbed by how often we blame women for sexism, for failing, for being stupid enough to vote for obama, for attacking other women. Call it kick the dog syndrome. Call it a circular firing squad. Call it whatever you want, but no matter what you call it, blaming women is UTTERLY counter-productive and worse, it is self-destructive.
You say that women who voted for obama are dumb-asses; that feminists who attacked Sarah Palin are hypocrites and weaklings; that Kim Gandy and NOW suck; that so MANY women are complicit in their own subgugation.
Yup, yup, yup, and yup. You are correct. Congratuations! Please collect your Captain Obvious Award at the podium and head on over to the Mutual Admiration Society table where we can all pat each other on the back.
Now what?
Right.
Today is Novemebr 18, 2008. Let’s take a quick look back over the past year. For sins of commission and omission, for talking out of turn, for slipping up in public, for letting down their guard, and for having a skeleton or two in their closets, WHO paid with their dreams, their livelihoods, their reputations, or even their careers?
- Hillary Clinton
- Sarah Palin
- Samantha Powers
- Randi Rhoades
- Amanda Marcotte
- Melissa McKewan
- Geraldine Ferraro
- Taylor Marsh
- Bristol Palin
I’ll leave it to the winners of the Captain Obvious Award to figure out what this list means.
It is EASY to kick the loser; to attack your neighbor in the ditch rather than your enemy on the field. And can we please, FINALLY, put to rest the absurd notion that women are our own worst enemy? HOGWASH. Just keep telling yourself that until you’re ready to face the facts and face up to this:
In all its forms, guises, and insidious ways, THIS is our worst enemy.
p.s. I’m behind on getting the PROWLS and Action Items out today because I keep getting distracted by the circular firing squad.
brb.





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tillerylakelady 11.18.08 at 11:19 am
am i the first?
mimi1020 11.18.08 at 11:25 am
2ND AND LURKING!
murphy 11.18.08 at 11:25 am
heythere tillerylake lady! I was just thinking of you last night.
murphy 11.18.08 at 11:27 am
food for thought:
Other than Madeline Albright as Clinton’s SOS, pretty much every single person on this list was WAY SMARTER than the prez they “served.” It would be kinda fun to watch Clinton outshine President Detour, esp since the SCFP would be RABID about it. heh.
via katiebird in comments at RD’s place:
http://www.state.gov/secretary/former/index.htm
tillerylakelady 11.18.08 at 11:33 am
Thanks Murphy still here and prowling.
GOSUEF4HIL 11.18.08 at 11:37 am
Murphy- fabulous to get us to reframe- I too have been way to guilty of attacking “feminists” for their inattention or inactivity to the sexism that has occurred this past year.
We must try to unite women, all women, dems/repubs/christians/jews/white/black/gay/straight/rich/poor/married/single/working/stay-at-home-
Do you see all of the ways women have been pitted against each other?
I believe it is our duty to stand tall and proud as women, raising women (and men) to stop the divisiveness that has occurred and to unite women together.
And I am all about doing what it takes to get that done
tillerylakelady 11.18.08 at 11:38 am
Dear Murphy,
I have a friend on youtube that had a terrible encounter with William Ayers when she was in college in Chicago.She has given me permission to share it with all my fellow Pumas,but I really do worry about her safty when I do.
Can I e-mail it to you first,and see what you think?
scarlet 11.18.08 at 11:42 am
Murphy, have you seen this?
http://www.rumproast.com/index.php/site/comments/yet_another_puma_epic_fail/
jennforhillary 11.18.08 at 11:44 am
Hey Pumas if you get too depressed watch this!
http://cdn1.ustream.tv/swf/4/viewer.45.swf?cid=317016
murphy 11.18.08 at 11:44 am
tillerlakelady — yes, please do. thanks.
scarlet — no. i try not to read the websites that are devoted to tearing us down, lying about me, and ridiculing me. What does it say?
ALL — read this by Annabelle. It’s really good:
http://annabellep.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/motherfucked/
scarlet 11.18.08 at 11:45 am
Gun Owners not Welcome on Obama’s White House Team
Illinois State Rifle Association
SPRINGFIELD, Ill., Nov. 13 /PRNewswire-USNewswire/ — The following was released today by the Illinois State Rifle Association (ISRA):
In yet another example of hostility towards lawful firearm owners, the Obama transition team is weeding out applicants for White House positions who own firearms themselves, or who come from firearm-owning families.
Evidence of the Obama team’s distaste for firearm owners may be found as Question 59 of a 63 item questionnaire administered by Obama staffers to all potential applicants
positions in the Obama White House. The question asks for sensitive information about firearms owned by the applicant and his/her family.
“Question 59 provides clear insight into how Obama and his people perceive firearm owners,” said ISRA Executive Director Richard Pearson. The questionnaire poses a number of questions asking the applicant to reveal any unethical activities, or embarrassing Internet chats, then wraps up by asking if anyone in the applicant’s family owns a firearm. Obviously, Obama feels that owning a firearm is akin to talking dirty in Internet chat rooms. But that should come as no surprise as, while an Illinois State Senator, Obama voted for SB1195 – a provision of which called for gun owners to be registered in the same manner as sex offenders.”
“Once again, we have to ask ourselves just what candidate Obama was talking about when he said he has ‘respect’ for the 2nd Amendment,” commented Pearson. “If this latest assault on gun owners is considered a gesture of respect, then either Obama or myself is very confused.”
A copy of the questionnaire may be found at http://www.isra-pvf.com/obamaquestionnaire.pdf
The ISRA is the state’s leading advocate of safe, lawful and responsible firearms ownership. Founded in 1903, the ISRA has represented the interests of millions of law-abiding Illinois firearm owners.
WEB SITE: http://www.isra.org
SOURCE Illinois State Rifle Association
http://www.sunherald.com/prnewswire/story/954052.html
murphy 11.18.08 at 11:50 am
scarlet — thanks I checked the site.
the angry obots are trying to make me look bad because I filed an FEC report late.
I guess they can sue me if they want. Somehow I have the feeling they’ll have more success at attacking me than anyone will have at getting to the bottom of obama’s FEC reports.
sigh. and see above.
michelina 11.18.08 at 11:57 am
PUMA’S: Brought this from downstairs, no one caught it:
__Senator CLINTONL: has no intention of joining Obama: blaming BILL to save face: (THE DNC)—————-
Her response to Letter we sent on one of our prowls the last couple of days:—read and back to business with this thread:
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Thank you for your views on the Emergency Economic Stabilization Act of 2008. I appreciate your concern and I welcome the opportunity to respond.
The market turmoil over the past month has exacted a heavy toll on Wall Street and unfortunately, now the crisis has spread to Main Street. What began as a wave of mortgage defaults and foreclosures limited to risky subprime mortgages quickly unraveled into a national housing crisis, driven deeper by complex securities designed to hide unacceptable risks and irresponsible investments. We soon learned that the losses from those mortgages created a ripple effect engulfing not only the irresponsible mortgage lenders and the banks that wrote their loans, but also our largest financial institutions and nearly every segment of our financial sector.
The normal credit markets ceased to function with banks unwilling to lend to each other and soon ordinary businesses and consumers were unable to secure the lines of credit they need and rely upon to survive. The lack of standard market functioning and the cascading collapse of financial institutions have had a devastating impact on all Americans. Our economy lost 159,000 jobs this past month alone, and we are on the cusp of a recession that threatens the entire nation with manufacturing, auto sales, retail sales, and economic growth all on the decline. America is currently undergoing a severe threat to our nation’s economic security. Businesses are finding it hard to receive credit, limiting transactions and preventing salary disbursal. Pension plans and other retirement accounts have lost a great deal of value due to falling investor confidence and market manipulation. Several of our nation’s largest banking institutions have failed or were forced to reorganize to survive. Hardworking Americans are unable to keep up with their mortgage payments and face the threat of losing their homes.
Swift action was needed, but it was clear the Treasury Department’s original plan was a blank check to the banks that enabled this crisis. I worked with my colleagues and I am pleased that Congress mandated additional oversight controls and installed accountability measures so that the Treasury Department’s rescue program is run effectively and responsibly. The bipartisan legislation allows for a variety of options to address the crisis, including expanding the Federal Deposit Insurance Corp (FDIC) guarantee on bank deposits, an option for capital injections to healthy but vulnerable banks that serve our communities, and many important tax breaks for struggling homeowners. The legislation also includes tax provisions I supported which enhance energy research and development, to end our dependence on foreign oil, and adjustments to help middle class families with home heating bills and protect them from the alternative minimum tax (AMT). As a result, the Federal Reserve has begun paying interest on commercial bank reserves and will extend billions of dollars in its loan program to impacted banks.
As Senator from New York, I have seen thousands of my constituents lose their jobs. I believe that enacting these measures was a difficult but necessary decision to prevent tens of thousands more from losing their livelihoods, but it is also clear that we must do more to help the middle class, create more jobs, and regain economic stability. I have proposed several initiatives to bolster the economy and help families navigate these difficult times. I believe establishing a Home Owners Mortgage Enterprise (HOME), allowing home owners and mortgage companies to renegotiate the terms of home mortgages, will help families keep their homes through affordable payments. A similar program helped prevent widespread home loss during the Great Depression, and we must take action now to keep families in their homes and prevent the housing crisis from deepening this economic downturn.
We must also develop a broad strategy to stem job losses and support small business owners as the market adjusts in the coming months. I recently called on the Department of Labor to approve a grant allowing New York State to study the impact of the ongoing economic crisis on working families. These steps will be an important beginning to our nation’s difficult recovery process, and I pledge to continue representing the workers and families of New York and America. Moreover, I have called on the President and the Treasury Secretary to create a $250 billion “Emergency Stabilization Fund” to make emergency loans and establish temporary lines of credit for small businesses, to allow schools and universities to have short term access to funding to reduce the pressure on tuition, to increase direct loans to students as private lending has dried up, and to help stabilize our state and local governments, enabling them to provide essential services while reducing the pressure to increase property taxes. Finally we must pursue long term market reforms to curb the excessive risk, rampant speculation and irresponsible lending and borrowing that began this crisis.
Again, thank you for your letter regarding our economic challenges ahead. I hope you will share your thoughts and concerns with me as we continue to address this important issue before the United States Senate. For regular updates, please check my website at http://clinton.senate.gov.
Sincerely,
Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton
gumbykat 11.18.08 at 11:58 am
Joe Lieberman will kepp his chairmanship.
gumbykat 11.18.08 at 11:59 am
kepp=keep
tillerylakelady 11.18.08 at 12:03 pm
Murphy YOU GOT MAIL
mini vee 11.18.08 at 12:06 pm
It’s never too late as far as I’m concerned. Barry is a fraud and we all know it.
http://www.nbcaugusta.com/news/elections/presheadlines/34587804.html
SACRAMENTO, Calif.- A former opponent of Barack Obama’s has come back to haunt him over questions regarding Obama’s citizenship.
According to a press release from the American Independent Party, former presidential candidate Alan Keyes and other members of the party have filed suit in California Superior Court in Sacramento to stop the state from giving its electoral votes to President-elect Barack Obama until documentary evidence is provided to prove Obama is indeed a natural born citizen of the United States.
Some conservatives have questioned Obama’s citizenship in recent months. Obama says he was born in Hawaii in 1961.
Keyes also ran against Obama as a Republican for the U.S. Senate seat in Illinois in 2004. Obama won that election to serve his first and only term in the U.S. Senate.
gypsy rebel 11.18.08 at 12:08 pm
Teamsters’ Massive Election Push For Change Helped Obama To Victory
by Jim Kouri $88 million to Obama!!
http://www.postchronicle.com/commentary/article_212184738.shtml
gypsy rebel 11.18.08 at 12:18 pm
Teamsters union That’s alot of $$, but didn’t see a date!!
http://www.maplight.org/map/us/interest/LT300/view/all
murphy 11.18.08 at 12:34 pm
tillery lake — you have mail.
Puget Sound Island Girl 11.18.08 at 12:34 pm
Oh boy. . .
Obama’s got a secret hottie!
http://www.tinyurl.com/5c8s3j
scarlet 11.18.08 at 12:35 pm
Westchester County NY Outlaws Automotive Idling
By Robert Farago
November 11, 2008 – 857 views
“Westchester County lawmakers last night made it illegal for drivers to keep their vehicles running for three minutes or more while parked.”
Now I’m sure TTAC’s Best and Brightest will be all abuzz with lots of reasons why this idea makes no sense at all (kids roasting/freezing to death), defines “unenforceable,” doesn’t make any sense and violates Americans’ constitutional right to not be hassled by the government for stupid ass shit. But all that counts for naught compared to our collective responsibility to “reduce dangerous emissions like carbon dioxide that contribute to Westchester’s poor air quality and to global warming.” This according to Thomas Abinanti, D-Greenburgh, the bill’s sponsor. “Climate change is the defining issue of the 21st century,” Abinanti told LoHud.com. “We can do our part by not adding to the problem. Idling uses more gas and is worse for vehicles than turning your car off. Most idling is not only wasteful, but unnecessary.” Most? Not all?
Westchester motorists who find themselves on the wrong end of a cop’s stop watch could be fined up to $250. (end of article)
A comment from a reader:
ronmichaelz :
November 11th, 2008 at 10:21 pm
I think this is a great idea. I’m one of those people who does get pissed off at idiots who sit in a parking lot for 5 or 10 minutes with their engine running, or leave their car running when they run into Starbucks. And why is it everytime I notice this, it is ALWAYS an SUV? It’s like they do it out of spite.
http://www.thetruthaboutcars.com/westchester-county-ny-outlaws-automotive-idling/
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Ronmichaelz will be a good candidate for the car idling police under Obama’s civilian service.
scarlet 11.18.08 at 12:40 pm
gypsy rebel 11.18.08 at 12:08 pm
Teamsters’ Massive Election Push For Change Helped Obama To Victory
by Jim Kouri $88 million to Obama!!
http://www.postchronicle.com/commentary/article_212184738.shtml
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Wow! They certainly were well-organized.
Is this their payback?
http://pumapac.org/forums/breaking-news/ post 104
NYCgirl 11.18.08 at 12:41 pm
GOTTA LOVE THIS ARTICLE FROM POLITICO! THIS REALLY MAKES ME WANT HILLARY FOR SECRETARY OF STATE
Cabinet post for Clinton roils Obamaland
Ben Smith – Tue Nov 18, 4:51 am ET
Barack Obama’s serious flirtation with his one-time rival, Hillary Clinton, over the post of secretary of State has been welcomed by everyone from Henry Kissinger to Bill Clinton as an effective, grand gesture by the president-elect.
It’s not playing quite as well, however, in some precincts of Obamaland. From his supporters on the progressive wing of the Democratic Party, to campaign aides of the soon-to-be commander-in-chief, there’s a sense of ambivalence about giving a top political plum to a woman they spent 18 months hammering as the compromised standard-bearer of an era that deserves to be forgotten.
“These are people who believe in this stuff more than Barack himself does,” said a Democrat close to Obama’s campaign. “These guys didn’t put together a campaign in order to turn the government over to the Clintons.”
READ MORE:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/politico/20081118/pl_politico/15703
NYCgirl
indy 11.18.08 at 12:53 pm
Thanks PUMAs for helping me out on that other blog. Heneri you did a great job!
Back to business:
This AP story I saw on the Daily Beast gives a pat on the back for Obama for Bush calling Gaddafi today. Read the AP’s spin for Obama:
It looks like President Bush has taken a page from his successor’s playbook. The AP reports that Bush called Libya’s Moammar Gaddafi yesterday—the first time an American president has spoken with the African leader. Bush congratulated Gaddafi on completing an agreement to pay $1.5 billion into a fund that will pay claims for the 1988 Pan Am 103 bombing over Scotland and the 1986 bombing of a German disco. According to the AP, “The payment cleared the last hurdle in restoration of full normalization of diplomatic relations between the United States and Libya.”
Cape Hatteras 11.18.08 at 12:54 pm
What amazed me was how the those who claimed to stand up for all women ignored FGM .(Female Genital Mutilation )
zephyr 11.18.08 at 12:56 pm
Seems at times we are all on our own pages
…so this is mine.
I have tried to research WHO OFFICIALLY VETS THE PRESIDENT ELECT. Can’t seem to find anything substantial. Seems to me that once the candidate is (s)elected, they are officially applying for the position and there should be governmental agencies in place to do a full vetting and investigation, especially for the highest offfice in the country.
Anyone know the answer to this????
It seems to me, an official coordinated vetting process can’t be left up to the media or opposing campaign.
indy 11.18.08 at 1:00 pm
#25 my post, I forgot to add my own thoughts to the AP story twist.
Gaddafi completed an agreement to pay into a fund for the bombings.
This is not appeasement which is what Obama wants to do.
Gaddafi can now have diplomatic relations with the US because he complied with an agreement. It wasn’t without pre-conditions as Obama wants to do.
The Spinmeisters are still spinning, I guess Chris Matthews was right, “They must see Obama has success.” Or words to that effect.
tillerylakelady 11.18.08 at 1:00 pm
Murphy did noy recieve the E-Mail
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:02 pm
Good morning pumas,
**** Last night on my way home, I was listening to a “talk radio” show. The commentator made an interesting point …
he said, “if we let Detroit fail completly, we Americans could have a serious problem on our hands. The reason is because they make ALL of the “ground vehicles” used by our military.” He went on to talk about how this could put us in a serious “bind” should we have to “engage” militarily as a later date.
*** Do yall agree? I just had never thought of this. Just a point!
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:03 pm
Great intro Murphy. Was thinking that perhaps a little puma introspection might be in order, else we run the risk of putting down other women without even thinking about it. The other day i was concerned that Howard Dean’s wife was being discussed on the thread and not in a complimentary way (mousey and worse). Just a thought. If we cannot support other women then what do we have left? Mrs Dean certainly seems to shy away from the spotlight ….
NobamaNetwork 11.18.08 at 1:04 pm
Hey PUMAs, if you have not seen it yet please visit http://www.nobamanetwork.com/ and watch the video. Be prepared to be &%##&%*^) by what you see!
gypsy rebel 11.18.08 at 1:04 pm
zephyr I’m leaving the house right now, but…..
I was told to call TX’s Secretary of State and talk to the Director.
The Director of each state is supposed to “vet” a candidate to ensure his/her eligibility.
I was also told to ask the Director what they used to “vet” That One.
Now, it begins in Illinois – Depending on what they used, each state may have just gone along with what was filed in Illinois.
So technically, a candidate may not have been vetted with “proof in hand”, but according to Illinois!!
I was told to insist on knowing how a candidate was declared eligible to run in Texas.
Don’t know if this helps – it is all I know.
I had gone through alot of D.C. phone numbers; and not sure who told me where to go. I still have the telephone numbers “somehwere.”
DancesWithPumas 11.18.08 at 1:04 pm
scarlet 11.18.08 at 11:42 am
Murphy, have you seen this?
http://www.rumproast.com/index.php/site/comments/yet_another_puma_epic_fail
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What a laugh riot!! Would that these people were as interested in the boy they installed in the white house, as they are in comments by individual posters on this blog. Too funny. I guess if they didn’t make a career out of judging and criticizing Puma PAC an dMurphy, they wouldn’t have nay life at all. Pathetic, really.
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:05 pm
Question. Why does everyone refer to President Elect Obama when he has not been elected yet?
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:09 pm
ZEPHYR – It is the FBI. I am sure there has to be others as well, but that is the main one!
DancesWithPumas 11.18.08 at 1:09 pm
RememberNovember
I participated in the Mrs. Dean conversation, and was stung by the “mousey” description, but didn’t I take it on. Last week someone made a sexist comment and was called on it… a week later she’s still complaining about being “attacked”.
Some battles, with some people, you just have to pass on… not worth wasting the oxygen.
Take the best, ignore the rest, and focus on the issues and people where the effort makes it worth your while for the greater good.
jenniforhillary 11.18.08 at 1:10 pm
I agree and I disagree.
We need to focus on BUILDING a movement with a central goal. We need to attack wrongs (WHOMEVER DOES THEM–women OR men), and we need to SHOUT OUT when people say or do things that are not acceptable.
That being said, we could ignore what women do that is bad and focus more on MEN, but i’m not sure that this would not be hypocritical.
One reason the conservative movement was so successful is that it defined its goal and limited membership. The main reason NOBAMA ‘stole’ the election is his team was focused AND brutal. I think PUMA or any pro-women organization needs to look at these two movements and utilize what made them succeed to some extent (no stealing, lying cheating etc., but organizing aspects, etc.).
I think we could focus MORE on men and still be non-hypocritical. Perhaps we could become the ROLE model….
One thing is for sure, we need to refocus feminism because at this point Paris Hilton is the poster child and this ain’t good…
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:18 pm
******* ATTENTION ZEPHYR *** CHECK THIS OUT
I am wrong! FOUND THIS (CAFFINE QUEENS) PUMA SITE
TITLE … Elected officials do NOT go through background checks prior to taking office.
HIT that title under Search and you will find the article
Anna Belle 11.18.08 at 1:18 pm
F**K-N-A! Way to tell the truth, Murphy. I’m so glad you posted that picture. I wanted to post some like it at my place, but would you believe I was too afraid? I love your fearlessness. I’m on board with stopping the circular firing squad. Taking time for introspection is a good idea, as I’ve learned this week. Thanks for the inspiring post. Beautiful.
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:18 pm
RememberNovember
I participated in the Mrs. Dean conversation, and was stung by the “mousey” description, but didn’t I take it on.
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Good advice Dances but for what it is worth I just thought it was worth a comment – if only to encourage us all to think twice before choosing the words we use to describe other women.
BTW I followed the link to rumproast (if that’s the best they can do!) and it reminded me to ask what happened to the documentary that we were all so excited about? I must have missed that discussion.
Anna Belle 11.18.08 at 1:23 pm
ps thanks for the link!
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:24 pm
Anna Belle
Yes Murphy is amazingly fearless – her courage blows me away..
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:25 pm
I red through the article “ELECTED OFFICIALS DO NOT GO THROUGH BACKGROUND CHECKS PRIOR TO TAKING OFFICE!
Excuse my language, but that is BULLSHIT!
A fellow puma called the FBI. He told her that they DO NOT run background checks, because they ARE ELECTED. She asked … “but what if this is a bad guy?” He said, “well that usually comes out before the elected” ….HOW SCREWED UP IS THIS????
diva2 11.18.08 at 1:25 pm
Hillary as SOS
My take onb it is that nobo has no intention, or ever did of making her SOS. He is making it look like it for whatever reason, her support in the Senate and those she can rally? Not sure. But he has know all along that Bill wasn’t going to give up all of his financial dealings and that will be his excuse to not give the job to Hillary. I think Bill would be nuts to give them ANY info., financially or what he has done since his presidency. As every thing else, I think this was a farce from the beginning. Hillary would be an awesome SOS, but much better POTUS, but no way, now how, with him or the bots!!! IMOP
mountainsong 11.18.08 at 1:26 pm
I must drag myself out of bed EARLIER each day. Then it wouldn’t be such a task to catch up reading everything from when I went to bed until now on the blog. But, had I not, I would have missed alohapuma’s eloquent tribute to her Mother.
It made me cry, it was so beautiful;I entitled it, “Mary Ellen’s Hands”…and saved it.
Reading blogs DOES help with not watching the one-eyed monster. It’s been 16 days now since I’ve watched any TV news and it’s done so much to restore my serenity level. While there is always alot to dislike about television, there is always 1000 times more to love and adore here with all of you at PUMA.
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:26 pm
Funny – I always seem to arrive on the blog when everyone else is changing shifts or having lunch or going to bed! I sometimes wonder if my posting gums up the works – a person could get a complex ya knows!!!
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:31 pm
Remember/Nov. … I have the same problem – I talk to myself alot! HA! I also have the same “charm”!
mountainsong 11.18.08 at 1:33 pm
JESUS CHRIST!!! I just went back and read the story of the stoning of the 13 yr old girl.Burning with rage as if on fire!!! Is THIS what we should expect when Sharia is brought to America? I’d rather go down shooting.
murphy 11.18.08 at 1:35 pm
thank you for writing the article Annabelle. It is also fearless. Especially the title. and very very true.
http://annabellep.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/motherfucked/
i wrote a play once about this queen who’s pregnant with the heir and she wakes up and can’t find the baby so she runs to a cave during a storm to find the baby and the henchmen find her and perform a caesarean to get the baby back for the king but the baby’s not there and just before she dies on the operating table she looks up and the baby is standing over the stage at the end of a golden branch and just as she dies the baby jumps off the branch and is hung by the rope around his neck.
The head henchman is the king’s fool, and he says “motherfucker” a lot.
anyway . . . your article reminded me of that.
murphy 11.18.08 at 1:37 pm
jenni — i agree, see the quote of the day. We DO need a new feminism. We’re working on it — you more than ever.
don’t change.
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:41 pm
Mountainsong,
I read your post on yesterdays blog, but you were already gone for the night! I was both angry and moved at the same time. I was angry at how ignorant people can be and how what they did to you was soooo wrong. I was also moved by how much some people can endure and still turn out to be kind and loving towards others. After reading your your post, I told my partner …. what is ironic is Montain was one of the first pumas to speak to me on this site.
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:41 pm
mountainsong 11.18.08 at 1:26 pm
I must drag myself out of bed EARLIER each day. Then it wouldn’t be such a task to catch up reading everything from when I went to bed until now on the blog. But, had I not, I would have missed alohapuma’s eloquent tribute to her Mother.
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Just went back to find “Mary Ellen’s Hands” – so beautiful and now I have to go cry quietly on my own..too fragile..have a good day pumas
RememberNovember 11.18.08 at 1:44 pm
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:31 pm
Remember/Nov. … I have the same problem – I talk to myself alot! HA! I also have the same “charm”!
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Southern.. now it looks as though I am leaving your “charm”. I will watch out for you next time
BBL!
SouthernGAL68 11.18.08 at 1:48 pm
lol
Anna Belle 11.18.08 at 1:51 pm
Wow, that sounds like a fascinating play. I’d love to see it. It reminds me of this particular William Blake painting I used to have a print of. That painting reminded me of the experience of having a cesarean, which was very disconnecting for me. Anyway, this painting is of a woman lying on a stone slab in a white robe. Her neck is arched back so she’s looking upward. She has a dead expression. Above her is some kind cherubic child-thing looking down. It’s creepy and telling at once. I loved it. Your play reminds me of that painting. I wish I knew the name.
Glad you liked MF’ed. That title came to me in a flash in the middle of writing it, actually. It did seem perfect.
indy 11.18.08 at 1:53 pm
It looks like trouble’s brewing all over the world in anticipation of Obama. First, Russia, now this:
The Washington Post today buries an interesting report from Afghanistan: President Hamid Karzai has said he would guarantee the security of Taliban chief Mohammad Omar if he decides to enter talks. This move is likely to rankle the international community, which will want Omar handed over to the United States, but Karzai was defiant. “If I say I want protection for Mullah Omar, the international community has two choices: Remove me or leave,” he said. The United States has recently considered negotiations with moderate Taliban leaders, but Omar is in not a moderate. He refused to hand over Osama Bin Laden after September 11, and the U.S. has offered a multimillion dollar reward for his capture. He is believed to be in Pakistan. (From the Daily Beast)
I think with Obama coming in, these countries figure they can have their way with the US.
As much as I don’t want Hillary to accept the Obama’s offer, I feel that our country needs a brilliant strategizer and negotiator such as Hillary as SOS.
KarenWI 11.18.08 at 1:56 pm
Now does THIS surprise any of US? LOL:
http://www.zogby.com/news/ReadNews.cfm?ID=1641
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Released: November 18, 2008
Zogby Poll: Almost No Obama Voters Ace Election Test
Survey finds most Obama voters remembered negative coverage of McCain/Palin statements but struggled to correctly answer questions about coverage associated with Obama/Biden
UTICA, New York — Just 2% of voters who supported Barack Obama on Election Day obtained perfect or near-perfect scores on a post election test which gauged their knowledge of statements and scandals associated with the presidential tickets during the campaign, a new Zogby International telephone poll shows.
Zogby Statement on Ziegler poll
Only 54% of Obama voters were able to answer at least half or more of the questions correctly.
The 12-question, multiple-choice survey found questions regarding statements linked to Republican presidential candidate John McCain and his vice-presidential running-mate Sarah Palin were far more likely to be answered correctly by Obama voters than questions about statements associated with Obama and Vice-President–Elect Joe Biden. The telephone survey of 512 Obama voters nationwide was conducted Nov. 13-15, 2008, and carries a margin of error of +/- 4.4 percentage points. The survey was commissioned by John Ziegler, author of The Death of Free Speech, producer of the recently released film “Blocking the Path to 9/11″ and producer of the upcoming documentary film, Media Malpractice…How Obama Got Elected.
“We stand by the results our survey work on behalf of John Ziegler, as we stand by all of our work. We reject the notion that this was a push poll because it very simply wasn’t. It was a legitimate effort to test the knowledge of voters who cast ballots for Barack Obama in the Nov. 4 election. Push polls are a malicious effort to sway public opinion one way or the other, while message and knowledge testing is quite another effort of public opinion research that is legitimate inquiry and has value in the public square. In this case, the respondents were given a full range of responses and were not pressured or influenced to respond in one way or another. This poll was not designed to hurt anyone, which is obvious as it was conducted after the election. The client is free to draw his own conclusions about the research, as are bloggers and other members of society. But Zogby International is a neutral party in this matter. We were hired to test public opinion on a particular subject and with no ax to grind, that’s exactly what we did. We don’t have to agree or disagree with the questions, we simply ask them and provide the client with a fair and accurate set of data reflecting public opinion.” – John Zogby
“After I interviewed Obama voters on Election Day for my documentary, I had a pretty low opinion of what most of them had picked up from the media coverage of the campaign, but this poll really proves beyond any doubt the stunning level of malpractice on the part of the media in not educating the Obama portion of the voting populace,” said Ziegler.
Ninety-four percent of Obama voters correctly identified Palin as the candidate with a pregnant teenage daughter, 86% correctly identified Palin as the candidate associated with a $150,000 wardrobe purchased by her political party, and 81% chose McCain as the candidate who was unable to identify the number of houses he owned. When asked which candidate said they could “see Russia from their house,” 87% chose Palin, although the quote actually is attributed to Saturday Night Live’s Tina Fey during her portrayal of Palin during the campaign. An answer of “none” or “Palin” was counted as a correct answer on the test, given that the statement was associated with a characterization of Palin.
Obama voters did not fare nearly as well overall when asked to answer questions about statements or stories associated with Obama or Biden — 83% failed to correctly answer that Obama had won his first election by getting all of his opponents removed from the ballot, and 88% did not correctly associate Obama with his statement that his energy policies would likely bankrupt the coal industry. Most (56%) were also not able to correctly answer that Obama started his political career at the home of two former members of the Weather Underground.
Nearly three quarters (72%) of Obama voters did not correctly identify Biden as the candidate who had to quit a previous campaign for President because he was found to have plagiarized a speech, and nearly half (47%) did not know that Biden was the one who predicted Obama would be tested by a generated international crisis during his first six months as President.
In addition to questions regarding statements and scandals associated with the campaigns, the 12-question, multiple-choice survey also included a question asking which political party controlled both houses of Congress leading up to the election — 57% of Obama voters were unable to correctly answer that Democrats controlled both the House and the Senate.
DancesWithPumas 11.18.08 at 1:59 pm
on phone with Mama…
She sends her love!!
NobamaNetwork 11.18.08 at 2:13 pm
Here is the video, How Obama Got Elected!
http://www.nobamanetwork.com/
Woodie 11.18.08 at 2:16 pm
Jenni: I sorry to read that the radio show did not go well…i read all the comments that murphy posted. It will be better next time, just make some modifications. O’Reilly i bet when he was a young man made lots of mistakes one way or ther other now it is old hat because he has been doing it for a long time.
I am going to be taking care of fritzy starting thursday. Victory says no donations yet today http://www.fritzyfund.org. I will have to write a bounced check to try and stall them and then they will get mad at me but I have to get the surgery done. Oh well, that’s life..
Chin up Jenny, it will pass and things will better next time.
alohapuma 11.18.08 at 2:18 pm
Murphy,
I have mixed emotions about this thread. The residue of this election that is the most difficult to shake is how the women in my life either a)failed to be outraged by the treatment of Hillary b)joined in the stoning of Sarah Palin, or c)both.
Long term friendships that will never be the same. Just barely speaking to my sister. I’m angry with them. These are educated women with daughters to raise. I want them to wake the h*ll up!!
murphy 11.18.08 at 2:21 pm
aloha, me too — I want them to wake up too. We need to do better than beating them on the head with a baseball bat or shooting them in the back to wake them up though.
my tack is to ignore the women who are participating in their own subjugation and to focus on the subjugators.
murphy 11.18.08 at 2:22 pm
oh yeah, holy smokes posted.
take it upstairs!
hillfan4mccain 11.18.08 at 2:23 pm
indy 11.18.08 at 1:53 pm
I think with Obama coming in, these countries figure they can have their way with the US.
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My sister and her husband just came back from Europe traveling. They were suprized at the conversations people were having over there. Laughing at the USA for voting in Obama. All happy and hoping BO would get elected, not for ‘one world’ BUT so see our superpower days over. They couldnt believe how dumb we were. She said she heard it over and over this past 10days. She even had other Americans traveling telling her they were hearing the same things. Some being called ‘stupid Americans’ and getting laughed at.
Woodie 11.18.08 at 2:38 pm
Now i think about it O’Reilley, his style is talking over people, but this women thing they really come down hard on us, men it seems can get away with pretty anything.
bluelady 11.18.08 at 2:50 pm
Phew! This post has me swinging from a high and crashing down to a low. That link to the
Gulabi Gang was inspirational- those women have got the right idea……and then to the picture of the girl being buried- was that the recent stoning?- leaves me angry and nauseous and horrified at what some humans can do to each other.
Complacency can’t survive such a post. Keep up the fight!
W. Lotus 11.18.08 at 2:57 pm
Murphy, you are absolutely right: attacking other women is counter-productive. I have done it in the past couple of weeks. My problem is I am still processing a fair amount of rage over how the primaries went down and how the now president-elect was awarded for his underhanded methods with the highest office in the land, and sometimes that rage boils over into verbal attacks against my fellow women (and fellow African-Americans) who support him. I’m still working on finding ways to process my rage without attacking the victims.
KarenWI 11.18.08 at 3:09 pm
Talk about international problems! Wasn’t BO the one who said he was going to make U.S. relations better with other countries??? LOL
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/barackobama/3473953/Poland-denies-Barack-Obama-cannibal-joke.html
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In an episode that could potentially strain relations between Warsaw and Washington, Radek Sikorski, an Oxford-educated politician who has lived in the US, was reported to have made the jibe by an opposition politician, Ryszard Czarnecki.
Writing in his blog, Mr Czarnecki, an MEP, quoted the foreign minister as saying: “Have you heard that Obama may have a Polish connection? His grandfather ate a Polish missionary.”
A spokesman for the Polish foreign office conceded that Mr Sikorski had made the controversial comment, but denied that the foreign minister had intended to insult Mr Obama, whose father was Kenyan.
“Mr Sikorski did not tell a racist joke,” said Piotr Paszkowski, the spokesman. “He was only giving an example of the unpalatable and racist ‘jokes’ that surround President Elect Obama.”
Donald Tusk, the Polish prime minister, has made no comment on the affair. It appears that Mr Sikorski’s position is not under threat despite calls from opposition politicians for an investigation to deter if the foreign minister broke anti-racism laws.
The derogatory comment about Mr Obama’s family may also have become common staple in Polish political circles. Wojciech Olejniczak, the leader of Poland’s main Left-wing party, the SLD, alleged that he first heard it from Jaroslaw Kaczynski, a Right-wing former prime minister and twin brother of the Polish president, Lech Kaczynski.
sue66 11.18.08 at 3:27 pm
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Woodie 11.18.08 at 4:33 pm
Obama voted that he agreed that if an abortion produced a live baby that baby was given no assistance to stay alive, and it was left to die. how inhuman is that?
mountainsong 11.18.08 at 5:47 pm
KarenWI 11.18.08 at 1:56 pm
I guess that’s what happens when people only vote the top line.
Ciardha 11.18.08 at 7:59 pm
Rhodes had a history of fauxgressive misogyny even before this election cycle, all I can do in regards to her is view her like I do Maureen Dowd, just ignore her and hope some day she’ll finally wake up. I’m at that point with an troll on my blog. I’ve banned her after her latest asshat trolling. Maybe she’ll wake up some day but I’m not holding my breath. I have more hope of awakening in the ones that drank the koolaide late in the game like Robin Morgan and Gloria Steinem.
It’s hard not to hit back when they keep on doing so. But I kept fairly calm in my response to the one who stalks my blog. I scanned over the ugly smears and misogynist attacks that was in her comment as I rolled my eyes. Then I deleted the troll spam, but let stand her comments on a minithread where she contradicted herself on what she calls feminism, that played a part in the deleted comment, she raged against Palin and said because Palin was against abortion rights she was antifeminist, that “you can’t be a feminist if you are antiabortion” then spouted the same old fauxgressive talking points against Palin. Then attacked me saying I couldn’t be a feminist if I believed a person that is antiabortion is a feminist, and then made lying personal attacks on me. Never mind I voted Green party because I was voting for the party and candidate that strongly supports all feminist tennets and also absolutely supports abortion rights, because I do support that. She voted for two male candidates that are misogynists and are weak, at best, on abortion rights. She voted for two male candidates that are weak, at best on GLBT rights, she voted for two male candidates that are, at best, weak on labor union support, etc… I voted for a party and two women that are strong on those issues. In the Dem primary I voted for the woman who was and is strong on those issues, and also on children’s rights, and everything that is the core of the liberal wing of the Dem party. I stopped going to her blog when she was repeating the fauxgressive smears about Hillary back last March, she then started trolling my blog with the same fauxgressive smears and misogyny againist Hillary. I deleted her troll spam and “defriended” her. Distancing definitely helps, you couldn’t pay me to look at her blog. I haven’t since March. I’ve treated Air America, MSNBC, etc… the same way. Not having their misogyny “in my face” 24/7 has done a world of good about healing myself. Thankfully the one uber Obama backer at work has moved onto her next thing. She was never as ugly as the people online, but did repeat the sexist talking points about Palin a few times. Not the really nasty garbage, just the Palin is “stupid” stuff. I just told her I was voting Green party becuase that is the party of my values. She’s stopped going on about how wonderful Obama is, she’s gone back to talking about her hobbies, things at work are pretty much back to the way it usually is. Online it’s still a battleground just like in the news media. I’m trying to move away from that, and work on the constructive stuff with my newer, much broader spectrum of feminist friends. It’s going to be a while longer, but gradually I’m getting there.
JoanneGreco 11.19.08 at 12:26 am
I posted at the site that was talking about Murphy and PUMA. Here’s what I said. I hope they take my advice.
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It always amazes me when people are threated by PUMA Pac. All that time spent posting and commenting negative things about PUMA could actually be spent doing something useful for this country.
1. Volunteer at the children’s ward of your local hospital.
2. Spend time at a senior center and hang out with the folks that don’t have any family.
3. Collect and donate items to an animal shelter.
4. Write letters to members of the military who will be spending the holidays without their families.
I can guarantee you that using your energy in a positive way will make you feel better about yourself.
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CyberFerret52 11.26.08 at 10:46 pm
Pumas,
If these women can accomplish THIS with so little, then what excuse do the women of america have?
Are you your brothers’ (sisters”) keeper??
Anyone remember “what you do to the least of these you do to me also??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opZz87S2v6M
CyberFerret52 11.26.08 at 10:48 pm
Pumas,
Here is part two:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46q5UfLSewg&feature=channel
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